If you can't give her even the most basic marital happiness, then as for other promises, I don't think there is any need to say more, because I am not as powerful as I imagined, nor do I love her as much as I imagined, and give her a happy and warm home.

He Yuhe thought to himself, if he couldn't give her even the most basic happiness, then there was no need for him to make so many promises to her today, after all, in the end, it was just a promise and would not be fulfilled.

Such a result is undoubtedly a big blow to her, she has always known what he is worried about, not that she doesn't love herself, but there are too many other thoughts that bind her, so she doesn't dare to accept her love.

All she wants is an ordinary love, with an ordinary warmth. For ordinary people, this may be the most basic, but for her, this is what she longs for the most, probably because she has lacked the warmth of her family since she was a child, which makes her especially crave that kind of warmth.

"Actually, when I heard your conversation like this just now, I was still a little worried in my heart, the other party is so good, in comparison, I really can't compare to anything, how can I be worthy of your love for such a person." Shu Yixin couldn't figure it out, what did he like about himself?

I don't feel at all that I have any advantages that I can be worthy of his liking and worthy of being treated like this.

Anyway, no matter how much I think about it, I don't feel that I have such an advantage, and I can't understand why he is so special to him.

"There is no reason, there is no reason, love is inherently unreasonable, if it is said clearly, it is not love, and it is worth my personal decision." No one can replace themselves in this kind of thing, only they know best what kind of person they want, accompany themselves by their side, and spend the rest of their lives with themselves.

There is no one in this world who can decide something for herself, so she doesn't need to decide something for herself, she knows what she wants.

"The relationship between you and your mother doesn't seem to be as good as I imagined, and it feels a little rusty." Shu Yixin hesitated for a moment, but still spoke, and even took off his embrace, looked into his eyes, and said every word.

In fact, I didn't see the scene, but I felt it from their conversation, and I had to ask him if it was real.

When I said these words, I was a little worried in my heart, after all, it was a matter between their mother and son, and I shouldn't have talked too much, but I was really a little curious, and I always felt that he was different from other mothers and sons, and the communication and exchange between the two of them seemed a little jerky, more like strangers, more respectful, in short, I felt that there was a lack of enthusiasm between mother and son.

However, this is also my own unilateral idea, which I feel by myself, and I can't be sure if this is the case.

He Yuhe looked at Shu Yixin, sighed softly, and said lightly, "I don't know if you are so powerful, the conversation between me and her can even feel this kind of thing." Did she just tell her, or did she know something beforehand?

"Actually, I'm just curious, don't think I'm troublesome, I always think that the two of you talk too much, not like ordinary mothers and sons, talking and laughing, and even coquettish or something, the two of you seem to be talking about business." Shu Yixin also wanted to explain to him clearly at this time that he was not nosy, nor did he say that he loved gossip, but he was just curious.

Although I am just curious, it is necessary to make it clear to him at this time that I am just out of curiosity and some of my own feelings.

"You're right, it's true." When He Yuhe faced her, there was nothing difficult to admit, after all, she would know about this kind of thing sooner or later, and it was okay to tell her earlier.

If she is with her in the future, then she will know about this kind of thing sooner or later, so there is nothing to hide about this kind of thing, since it has already been mentioned, then I will tell her.

"Why is this happening? It stands to reason that you should be very close. Shu Yixin really couldn't figure it out, why it was like this, logically speaking, they are mother and son, don't they say that mother and child are natural? So it should be very close.

But the feelings they give themselves between mother and son can't feel the nature of mother and son at all, they are treated more like strangers, some are respectful, but they lack the tenderness between mother and son.

"Other people may be like this, but between me and them, that is, between me and my parents, there is no such relationship, because I grew up with my grandfather." Other people may be like this, but this is not the case with themselves.

In the past, I also longed for a period of time, but I couldn't get the warmth of family affection at all, and then I slowly forgot about it, and then I only had to be respectful, and I lost that kind of interactive family affection.

"Because you were brought up by your grandfather, you are closer to your grandfather, and you lack that kind of affection for your parents." I have only heard him talk about his grandfather, but I have rarely heard him mention his parents, which is not unreasonable.

Because he was brought up by his grandfather and grew up by his grandfather's side, he naturally had a better relationship with his grandfather, but his parents were not by his side, so they were not so close.

"From the beginning of my sensibility, to be honest, they didn't put much effort into me, and the only one who really cared about me was my grandfather, so after slowly growing up, it became what it is now, and there was really nothing superfluous to say when facing them, okay, I don't know what to say, I feel a little embarrassed, so it's getting stranger and stranger, just like you said, it's obviously a mother-son relationship between each other, but it's like a stranger, it looks very rusty." has been such an environment since childhood, so when I grow up and have my own ideas, that kind of thoughts will be stronger, and I will also be biased towards my grandfather's side, and slowly I will only be polite to my so-called help.

From childhood to adulthood, they have not put much effort into themselves, and they have not paid any feelings to themselves, so their feelings for them are also very light. In such cases. Slowly step by step to today, when I face them, except for some polite salutations and necessary greetings, I really have the same as strangers, there is no difference, and I am very clear about this, so I only have grandpa nodding about my marriage, and I don't feel anything.

If grandpa is against it, then he will definitely feel a special headache, and he will try his best to persuade grandpa to bless him, but for his parents, it is a completely different thing, and he doesn't need to get their blessings, in short, he will politely notify him when he gets married, as for the rest, whether they will have opinions against anything or something, it is not within their scope of consideration at all.

Although he said that he was their son, he was not a puppet in their hands. If you really want to get married, then you will definitely notify them to come to the wedding. As for their opinions and ideas, I don't think about them so much, and I won't change because of their opinions.

Don't blame yourself for having such thoughts, after all, this kind of thought has been in your heart for a long time. Maybe I can't get along with them as much as other mothers and sons after all.

There is always a layer of separation between them, although I don't want to be like this, but if I want to change, it's not so easy, after all, it's been like this all these years.

In my heart, only my grandfather's thoughts and opinions are the most important, and as for their thoughts, they really don't matter at all.

Yixin may say that at this time, he can't understand what he said, and he may feel that he is a little ruthless and unrighteous when he says such a thing, or even ungrateful, but only he clearly knows how much they have paid for themselves, how much they will return.

"So every time you are together, do you feel particularly embarrassed, have you ever thought that one day you can improve such a situation?" Shu Yixin can understand this mood, his parents should have only cared about work, so they ignored him.

If his own son is not close to him, in fact, his heart is not comfortable. Even said that he was not as good as a stranger, and he could see that his parents were not comfortable in their hearts, and they also wanted to have a good relationship with him, and even said that they wanted to improve their relationship with him, but they couldn't be like this for the rest of their lives.

"I think it should be very difficult to change, after all, it may have been possible for them to do this a few years ago, but now there is not much chance." I feel that I have grown up, basically everything is in my own hands, and the power is my own, so I naturally don't want other people to interfere in my life.

They can't interfere in their own lives, and they don't want their own lives to be interfered with by them, in short, they don't interfere with each other. Each person lives his own life, and basically he can maintain the most basic balance.

It's actually not easy to say this kind of thing, maybe one day it will really change, no matter how you say it, it's all a family, and it's all your own biological parents. It's just that when that day will come, I don't know, in short, I think so in my heart, if they don't treat themselves too much, they will respect them politely, and the relationship between them will not be too stiff.

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