"Don't think too much, that's just my mother's personal idea, not my idea, to tell you that my grandfather did these things before, and then my grandfather also gave up this plan, because he clearly knows that I am a person with a habit of cleanliness, if I don't find someone I really like, it is impossible to be happy at all, I will not find a random person to marry in my life." Emotional matters can still be decided by themselves, although her mother wishfully wants to find herself a suitable object, but that is just her personal thoughts, not her own thoughts.

What kind of object do you want to find, what kind of person do you want to accompany you to old age, in fact, you have a bottom in your heart.

If the other party is a person you don't like, you are forced to live by your side, and you want to live with yourself for a lifetime, you can only say that neither of you will be happy, and both of you will be very sad, so you won't do such a thing, and you won't give in easily.

In other words, I am no longer the young and ignorant self I was at the mercy of my family, and now I have my own ideas, I know what I want, and I have the ability to protect each other, so I won't let the other party be hurt like before.

In the past, my ability was too poor, and my wings were not yet full at that time, so sometimes I was still at the mercy of my family, but my current self is no longer my past self.

She should believe that she has the ability to give her the happiness she wants, so that she can protect her and not let her be wronged at all.

"But the other party is your family, and she is doing this for your good." Isn't this what Shu Yixin is worried about? I don't want to cause him trouble, I don't want to create conflicts between him and his family.

At the beginning, he clearly knew that the gap between himself and him was too far away, and he was not his best choice.

Even said that at this time, Shu Yixin's heart was somewhat swaying from side to side. After hearing these words, do you still want to stick to your original idea, and be brave enough to continue to be with him? Suddenly, I felt like I didn't have the right now.

Some distances are always distances, and no matter how hard you try, you still have your own existence. I've worked hard to shorten those distances, but can I really shorten them?

In fact, there is no answer in his heart at all, and he knows that this is an unlikely thing, even if he really loves himself, will it not be affected by other factors?

Even if through the efforts of two people, the two of them are finally together, but he and his family are fighting, so how do they get along with their recent relationship, I can not think about these things, but I feel that I can't be so selfish, and I only consider that I don't take into account the feelings of him and his family.

"It was just wishful thinking on her part, she thought it was good for me, but she never asked me what I wanted." Regarding this point, it is also what He Yuhe is most disgusted by, because his so-called family has never stood in his own perspective, thought about himself, and never asked what he wanted, but just wishful thinking that it was good for him to make such an arrangement.

I really want to ask this question, can they ask their opinion one day, tell themselves, confirm their opinion, ask what they want? Forced to stuff yourself, have you ever considered your feelings?

"You're right, but the other party is your family, and everything he thinks about is for your good, and you are your dearest and most beloved person, so it won't hurt you, maybe you should consider their suggestions." Shu Yixin felt that the other party made the decision by his family, and it should be for his good.

After all, parents love their children, and all decisions they make are for their children's good. So his parents also have this kind of mind, and everything they do is just to pave the way for his future.

"Actually, this is also what I dislike the most, I think it's good for me, but I never ask me what I mean, whether I want this is the case." When He Yuhe talked about these problems, he felt particularly angry, because none of them thought about themselves from their own point of view, nor did they ask what they wanted.

"What do you want? Or can you really do it all by yourself and not listen to their advice? Shu Yixin was a little worried, the decision he made today was a decision he made on impulse, and he will regret the decision he made today in the future.

So before that, I want to ask a few more questions, and even ask clearly, what does he think in his heart, can he really make his own marriage? If it doesn't work. Da Ke said bluntly to himself, there is no need to force it.

When He Yuhe heard her talking to herself in such a tone, he probably knew that her heart was a little swaying again, and she didn't believe in herself very much.

When I heard her say these words, I actually felt very uncomfortable, because she was the person I loved the most, didn't even she understand her heart? If you can't make your own marriage, then how can you give her these promises?

No matter how difficult this road is, since I have decided to work hand in hand with her, I will not regret it, and no matter what kind of situation awaits me in the future, I believe that I have the ability to change all this.

After hearing what she said, he hurriedly hugged her, and then whispered in her ear, "Isn't it true that you still don't know me about my mind?" If it's not what I want, do you think it's useful? Could it be that even she thinks of herself like this, doesn't believe that she has such ability, or feels that she can't give her the happiness she wants.

If she really thinks like this, then how sad she should be, she has been working very hard, reflecting on her behavior, and thinking about what she has to do to give her the happiness she wants.

"It's not that I don't believe it, it's not that I don't understand you, but the other party is your family, and their advice still has a certain influence on you, I don't want to make you and your family unhappy because of our affairs, do you understand?" It's not that I don't want to believe him, it's not that I don't want to be with him, it's just that I think about it, and it's more that I don't want him to be unhappy with his family.

If he and his family are unhappy because of their own affairs, then they will feel that they are a sinner.

Maybe he thinks he's thinking too much, but he thinks that what he thinks is also reasonable, and he can't be so selfish and just consider that he completely ignored him.

We still have to get along in the future, so we can't make the relationship too stiff at this time.

"Don't worry, you don't have to worry about this day, I believe that grandpa will definitely be on my side, and as for my parents, I will try to convince them." It's her own family, and she will find a way to solve it, so she doesn't need to worry about this.

He Yuhe looked at her with distressed eyes, in fact, he knew that all she was thinking about was for her own good, and she didn't want to be unhappy with her family.

She can understand this idea, but she doesn't want her to have such thoughts, and she hopes that her thoughts can be selfish.

These are the things that should be a headache for you, so you should be entangled by yourself, and you shouldn't let her worry about it for you.

"I know you'll try to convince them, but I don't want you to embarrass you, and I don't want your family to look at me strangely, after all, I'm an orphan, and it's a very difficult thing to get them to accept me, let alone anything else." Shu Yixin is not willing, she thinks so much by herself, in fact, she doesn't want to do this, but sometimes there is really no way, she doesn't want to think too much.

"You don't have to worry about these things, leave it to me to deal with, I believe that I have the ability, and I can also solve these things satisfactorily, you don't have to worry too much, just stay by my side with peace of mind." He Yuhe didn't want her to do anything else, the only thing she did was to stay by her side with peace of mind, and as for the rest, she didn't have to do anything else, and she didn't have to think about anything.

As long as she can stay by her side with peace of mind and be able to accompany herself like this all the time, then she can handle everything next.

All I want is for her to be able to stay by her side with peace of mind, just such a small request, it shouldn't be so excessive, and it's not difficult to do, but I don't know what she thinks in her heart.

"Can I really do that? Do you think that I am too selfish to think that I only think about myself and not consider you? Such a result is indeed good for himself, but is he really willing to do such a thing by himself, and don't care about the rest, and doesn't feel that he is a too useless person to help anything?

"You can, in fact, all along, you just love to think about others too much, you are not selfish enough for yourself, and you don't think much about yourself, so you will let yourself suffer, this is my family's matter, I can handle it, you believe I have such ability." As long as you make up your mind about what you want to do, there is nothing you can't do, after all, your current self is not the original self.

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