Chapter 12: Struggle
What a sad story.
What could you change if you go back ten years ago? Or did you give up your studies?
"No, I just want to talk to my brother more, and I want to make up for what he didn't have time to say that time. Now I still lack an apology from my father. ”
While we are all young now, put down the mobile phone to accompany our parents more, chat with them, the mobile phone can be played at any time, don't wait until you are busy with work to know how to cherish.
How many people are so busy with work that they don't even have the opportunity to have a reunion dinner with their parents? How many people are out for dinner, but they don't see their parents?
There is time to have dinner and play games, that is, there is no time to eat with my parents, and I would rather eat outside until I vomit than share a table with my parents.
It is explained by the word "generation gap".
Watching the children coddle with their parents, I felt a lot in my heart.
Parents can agree to their children's requests unconditionally, and children are also very dependent on their parents and trust each other.
Nowadays, we quarrel with our parents more and more, and our opinions are always opposed.
The wind, coming......
Recently, a series of life-threatening inquiries from netizens, I can't resist it.
Netizens discussed the topic of "entrepreneurship, self-confidence and success".
The vast majority of them are coming up step by step, and being able to endure hardships is their label.
There are people who have ideals, but never put them into action.
Can I make a fortune playing games and watching videos now?
No.
The conditions in which we live are getting better and better, and we are facing more and more challenges, which requires us to be more strict with ourselves and strive to improve our overall quality.
Many people in life lack self-confidence, which will cause us to be slow in completing tasks, but slow will also make them think about problems with rigorous thinking.
There is no lack of people with too much self-confidence in life, this kind of person treats tasks as what is said and accomplished, and there are also people who do things in a hurry.
We come from all over the world, we all have our own personality traits, and we need to be tolerant of each other.
A large part of the reason why many friends break up while walking is that as we get in touch, we find that each other is not as good as I thought.
Just imagining? Imagination is imagination after all.
The friend opposite us is a human being, a real person, and cannot be brought into the imagination.
We are all human beings, each of us has our own strengths and weaknesses, and none of us are as good as you think.
I have a friend who smokes, drinks, plays cards, occasionally drives out to play, and invests from time to time, and lives a very chic life.
Honestly, I envy this kind of life, I feel that he has an income without having to do anything.
At a meeting, we met and came into contact.
Later, I learned that the first time he drank alcohol and talked about cooperation, he drank until his stomach bleed, he ate and drank wine and the contract was not negotiated, and he was so depressed that he smoked to relieve his stress......
Behind the glamorous and glamorous, it is very sad.
"What you are talking about is indeed a lot of people, and we can't argue with it. So where do you think his confidence comes from? "I don't see any confidence in him, so please elaborate.
"There is no money to back it up, so no matter when there is no money, I am not afraid of running out of money."
I was a little surprised by the answer given by netizens: "What do you want to illustrate with this story?" ”
"In many cases, home is our strongest backing."
But that's not a reason for us to squander with confidence.
"Upstairs, my boyfriend has been a bully since elementary school, and he is also very good in society, why is he confident? He has the quality. The same age is playing and he is reading, and he is quiet at all times. Along the way, he didn't rely on anyone, and he has been silently paying to achieve today's achievements. ”
Those who speak by strength have a stiff waist.
The examples of netizens are very real, and with less than 100 words of description, we can also feel the hard work at that time.