Chapter 830: Living Together
"Yes, I will definitely get along well with my family, but what about you, I'm still a little reluctant." She has found a family and can be with her family, so what about her? is always just one person, how can I let go of my own heart.
After all, I have lived with her for so many years, and I suddenly want to separate at this time, how can I stand it in my heart, yes, I am really reluctant in my heart, but I am sad about what other way.
There will be a day when we will be separated, but I didn't expect that this day would come so soon, and it would be in such a situation.
"There's nothing to be reluctant to, sooner or later there will be a day, even if you don't find a family, one day after you get married, we will still be separated, but it's not like that." No matter how good the relationship between two people is, sooner or later they will always be separated, it's just a matter of what the situation is.
Shu Yixin himself was very open, because he knew that sooner or later they would be separated, but he didn't expect it to be so early, not to mention that when she doubted it last time, she was already mentally prepared and felt that it was all true, so this time she seemed much more bland.
Since all this is true, and his good sister has found a family, he should be happy for her, as for the rest, why think so much.
"Having said that, you know that we grew up together since we were children, and it was really uncomfortable to suddenly say that we were going to separate." Such feelings and family affection have not been in a day or two, but for decades.
After growing up together in an orphanage, they came out together to work hard to break through their careers, and finally came to this point, each other's lives were slowly on track, but they found their families, leaving her alone.
To put it bluntly, I was reluctant to leave her side at all, but on my father's side, I didn't want to live up to it, maybe I still wanted to be filial to her, this is also a choice question for myself, and I always have to choose.
"Don't think like that, don't put so much pressure on yourself, anyway, we can still meet in the future, and it's not that we won't see each other in the future." It should be with such a mentality and thoughts, thinking that one day we can still meet, and it is not that we will not see each other in the future.
"Otherwise, if I do move in with my dad, you can move in with me." If she is willing to move in, then she and she are still a family, and they can still live together.
Lin Ya thought for a long time and felt that this was a good way, if she wanted, she could move in with her, so there would be no need to separate.
"Thank you, but I don't think so." In front of them, he is always an outsider, and it is never so suitable to live in her house, so it is better to live here all the time.
Actually, it's pretty good here, not to mention that I've lived there for so many years and I'm used to it. After she moved out, although she was left alone, it wouldn't have much impact, but she would seem a little lonely and lonely.
"Actually, you can think about it, really." Before Lin Ya said it, she probably knew that she would definitely reject herself, but she still said such things, hoping that one day she would be able to change her mind.
In short, she changed her mind, she can move in with her at any time, she will not dislike her, I believe that her father will not dislike her, and she will love her as a daughter, after all, she grew up with herself, so many years of sisterhood.
"Okay, but I really changed my mind, and if I want to live with you, I'll tell you." Shu Yixin was not as decisive as she said at this time, and she also knew that she should leave some room for herself.
No matter what, people are also kind, you can't refuse others so directly, maybe it's really possible in the future, if you really don't have a place to go in the future, she can think about it.
I have to say that I really like to live with her, we have lived together all these years, and we know each other's living habits very well.
How can you not be familiar with growing up growing up together, and when you grow up, you come out to work and live together? It's just that this feeling can disappear quickly, and she can quickly adapt to the new environment, and she really doesn't need to worry too much about herself.
"Well, I don't want to move there so soon." Lin Ya paused and said lightly.
Although I know my father, I always feel a little awkward when I get along with him, he is always a stranger to himself, and his emotions cannot be changed by changing, and it always takes a process to adapt.
"You don't have to worry about my feelings, if you can find your family, you should move in and live with your family as soon as possible, after all, you have missed so many years before." Shu Yixin knew that the reason why she didn't want to move over was entirely because of herself, if she was the only one, she should have to move in and live with her family.
"Actually, it's not just you, I also have feelings here, and although I discussed it with my father, I still have to adapt to living with him." Although they said that it was their own family, they were always strangers.
After all, we only met recently, and I didn't know much about him before, and if I lived together, I didn't know how to face him, and I always felt that sometimes it would be embarrassing.
"Actually, after you move in, you can adapt quickly, after all, they are all family, there is nothing to adapt to, it just takes a point in time." Living with family is no better than living with friends, after all, some people care, so they will quickly adapt to it.
Shu Yixin feels that these are not big problems, after all, they are a family and have always been related by blood, even if they feel strange at the beginning, they can quickly change this situation, so there is really no need to think too much about this problem.
"Let me stay a few more days, you won't rush me away at this time." She hadn't even decided when she wanted to move in, and she looked like she was going to drive herself away.
Shu Yixin looked at her and pulled out a smile and said softly, "How can you be so bold, and how can you be kicked out?" If your dad had known, he wouldn't have tried his best to find me. Although what she said was a joke, there is also a certain amount of truth, people now have a father, if she bullies her daughter, her father will not come to the door to find herself.
used to say that she didn't have any backers, so she didn't have to worry, but now she can't think the same as before, and people are different now and before.
That is to say, after this incident, I also told myself that the present is really different from the past, I can no longer be the same as the past, and I can no longer be the same as the past, and I always have to change with the development of things, whether it is for Lin Ya or He Yuhe, in fact, it is the same, many things have changed, so I can only face reality.
"At this time, you're still in the mood to joke." Lin Ya couldn't hear it, she deliberately said it to herself at this time.
"Regardless of whether we can live together in the future or not, our mood will not change, and our feelings will not change, so I really don't have to think too much, don't think about it, don't think about it that I'm only one person here." It's always a matter of getting used to this kind of life, and sooner or later there will be that day.
"Then you look like you want me to move out, and then you can move in with my boss." People are boyfriend and girlfriend now, and it's normal to live together.
If I'm here, it's always a bit of an eyesore, and I always feel that my light bulb is too shiny.
Shu Yixin looked at her with a somewhat shy expression and said, "What are you thinking?" I think about it too much. "Even when I talk to my sisters about these issues, I feel a little shy.
Originally, I was reluctant to mention these topics easily, and I always felt embarrassed.
"You know what I'm thinking? How do you know I'm thinking too much? What's more, it's normal for boyfriends and girlfriends to live together now, if you don't live together early, how can you know if it's suitable for you? "I didn't live together, and I didn't know much about each other's habits.
If you live together, you will be able to clearly know what kind of person the other person is, and you will have a bottom in your heart, and you will know whether it is suitable for a lifetime.
What's more, in today's society, there are really a lot of people who lived together before marriage. It should be said that there are not many people who live together after getting married.
If it is really like this, it can only be said that it is a marriage, and there are more blind dates.
If you fall in love by yourself, you will generally live together before getting married, so that two people can be better together, and by the way, you can also know each other's living habits.
"That's right, but I didn't have such a plan at this time, and I didn't think about it." For myself, living with him is always a bit too avant-garde, and I may not be able to accept it.
Or maybe it's because I haven't found that step yet, and I don't know if I can accept it, anyway, let's talk about it when I get to that point, and I'm not in a hurry to discuss this issue at this time.
"Two people living together can understand each other better, and it is also convenient for everyone to choose in the future, if it is really suitable, then there will not be so many contradictions after marriage, if it is not suitable, you can also think about these issues before marriage." If you have a boyfriend, maybe you will live with him in advance, because then you will know more about him. The latest chapter of "No First Love, There is a Crush Claw Book House" is free to read for the first time.