"That's what I'm worried about, in fact, I'm alone and they say I don't think there's anything, I'm afraid it will cause trouble to my parents, after all, it's still too far from their family, if their family doesn't agree, I don't know what kind of thing will happen in the end, I have to think about this." Ren Xiaoou seems to be much more mature than before, not as indifferent as before.

Because she only thinks about her own feelings, only thinks about whether she is good or not, and never thinks about her parents, but during this time she thinks about her parents, afraid that other wealthy families will say what kind of small household she is, and people will say what she helps and so on.

For her, she doesn't care what others say about her, anyway, she just thinks it's good, but if the other party evaluates her parents, then she will definitely not be able to stand it.

After all, it is really not easy for them to raise themselves, and they didn't repay them, but let them fall into the limelight. How can I do such a thing, no matter what, I don't want to let them fall into the cusp.

This is their own business, and they don't have much to do with it, that is, when they fall in love, they will say that it is a matter of two people, but when it is really time to get married, it is a matter of two families, if their families dislike their own family, then there is still a big problem here.

I can't be as indifferent as before, just feel like I'm happy, and I don't care so much about the rest of myself. But now I tend to think more, and more than before.

After listening to what Shu Yixin said, she thought about it and said lightly, "Didn't you think too much?" In fact, it has not reached that point yet, if he really loves you these things, he will solve these things for you, and you don't have to worry about it at all. "It's not that far, there's no talk of meeting parents or anything like that, so it's a little too early to think about these issues.

Recently, she has really changed a lot of these problems, for her before, she never considered it, but now that she is thinking about these problems, will she think a little too much and a little early.

"This is a problem that you have to face sooner or later, in the past, I may not have thought of this, but recently I have thought about it a lot, I am still worried that these problems will happen, maybe you didn't grow up in a wealthy family, you don't know, those are actually a lot of dirty things that you don't know." A person like himself from a small family will have a lot of dirty things, not to mention a wealthy family like him.

"Listening to the tone of these words, I always feel that you have changed a lot, it seems that you have grown a lot recently, and you can think about your family, you never considered them before, only yourself." Ren Xiaoou has also improved a lot compared to before, it is not a matter of a day or two that she knows her, she is not afraid to do things in the past, as long as she is happy.

I am with her every day, watching her change like this, but I still seem to be standing still. In contrast, in the recent period, I really haven't made any progress at all.

"You're really right, but it's true, but now that I've experienced some things, I'm slowly becoming more mature, and I'm naturally thinking about more things." In the past, I may have been too young, only caring about my own joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and not caring about my family at all, but now as I get older, as some things happen, I slowly let myself experience it.

"I think, you don't have to think too much about it for the time being, after all, you haven't reached that point yet, if he really loves you, I think he will solve those things for you, and it won't be your trouble." This kind of thing is originally something that two people should face together, and she is not the only one.

I can't choose what kind of family I grew up in, it is impossible to say that everyone is a wealthy nobleman like him, not everyone has a family like him, although he is still from a poor family, so if two people want to be together and want to overcome these difficulties, they must work together.

Just like myself, if I had a choice, I would not choose to be an orphan, no matter whether my family is difficult or rich, I want the family to be together.

But these are not allowed to choose by themselves, they don't know their families, they don't know where their parents are, just a child who grew up in an orphanage, no matter what, they can only rely on their own efforts.

If you have a choice, you don't want to choose the life you have today, and you want to be with your family, but you can't choose, so as long as the two people are sure whether they really love each other, as for other problems, they should face them together and solve them together.

"Some things are said to be so, but not everyone can be as open-minded as you, can understand like you, in the end, his family is still quite complicated, his parents' relationship is not so good, it can be said that there is no emotion, his heart may have been affected from childhood to adulthood." His parents have a bad relationship, he has seen them often quarrel together since he was a child, which will have some impact, and he is afraid of getting married in the future.

I can understand his mentality, but it shouldn't be said that the impact of this incident, the past has passed, it is just an unhappy marriage between his parents, not an unhappy marriage.

"What you mean is that when you say the impact of his parents' feelings, he is actually a little afraid of getting married, afraid of marriage." She never told herself before, and she only now knows that Ye Jinghao's parents' married life is not so happy.

No wonder every time I see him, I always feel that he is sad, and he rarely mentions his family, not that there is no reason.

"Actually, I only learned about these things recently, although I knew some of them before, but I didn't care at that time, I always felt that as long as I loved him enough, then he loved me enough." I can only say that I was still too naïve to think about things at that time, and I was still too tender before, and I didn't think too much about it.

Now he doesn't want to come over, only then does he know how much he thought at the beginning, and he didn't take into account other aspects when he thinks about it, so this situation has some impact, after all, it is his biological parents, but their relationship is not good.

"It's just his parents' married life, not him, maybe for him, it's not that much harm, it's possible." I really ignored a problem, thinking that everyone would be happy with their parents by their side, and today I let myself know such a truth.

Even if the parents are by their side, it does not necessarily mean that their relationship is good, the family is happy, and some families have a bad relationship between husband and wife. Indirect will affect the child, after all, living together, the family is not harmonious, and the child is also very disgusted.

In addition, I have been exposed to it since I was a child, and I don't like such a family environment even more, I have to say that some people will indeed be affected, and they will indeed say that their parents' married life will be affected, and they are afraid that their marriage will be unhappy in the future.

I'd rather be single than get married, because I'm afraid that in the future, my marriage will be unhappy, like my parents.

"That's the way I said it, but when I saw that my parents' marriage was not happy since I was a child, my heart was a little distorted, and I was a little afraid of my married life." There will still be some influence, but it can't be said that there is no impact at all, and there is also a possibility that I particularly desire a happy marriage and a good family life together.

Although he has longing thoughts in his heart, he also contains the thoughts of fear, afraid that he will follow the old path of his parents in the future, and that his marriage will be unhappy in the future.

Because of this, he is so vacillating and wants to fall in love, but he is afraid of getting married, and he is afraid that it will become an unhappy marriage in the future. In other words, even he himself is contradictory, even he doesn't know what he wants, what he desires.

Ren Xiaoou didn't know what he thought at all, what he thought, longing for a happy marriage or afraid of getting married.

"Seriously, I didn't take into account what you told me today, I didn't think about it that long-term at all." In Shu Yixin's opinion, he is a little scared when it comes to falling in love, not to mention that getting married in the future is too far away.

"No, it won't! Didn't he talk to you about marrying you or something? "He Yuhe has always been a man of action, and if he had such thoughts, he would have spoken to her.

He Yuhe and Ye Jinghao are completely different people, and their ideas are also different. He Yuhe is more of a doer, he has thought about what he wants to do, and he will definitely find ways to achieve it. And Ye Jinghao is more introverted and a little indecisive in doing things, without He Yuhe's decisiveness and fortitude.

Shu Yixin looked at Ren Xiaoou, how should he tell her that he really mentioned marriage to him at that time, but he denied it at that time.

"Do you know what he said to me? He said that I could go with him to get the certificate at night as long as I wanted, whenever I wanted, and I just listened to it as a joke. He just said it casually, so how could he take it seriously? Have you ever seen anyone run to get their license at night?

I didn't think about it, and I didn't promise him to do such a thing, it was too impulsive, although he said that his household registration book was in his own hands, and if he wanted to get married, he didn't need to ask anyone's opinion at all, but he was different, he and his family couldn't be so impulsive, and they couldn't just think about themselves.