(383) resolutely can not get married

This is the custom in the world today.

If a child dies before the age of majority, parents will marry him or her in order to express their grief for the child. chose the child who died almost at the age of the same time, and finally buried the bones of the two together, which can be regarded as marriage. It's just that the bride and groom are tablets, not real people.

This practice is called a secret marriage in an elegant way, and a yin marriage in a popular way. In theory, it doesn't hinder anyone to do this, whoever likes to do it will do it.

But how can it be so easy to find young men and women who are just right to match in this world? Therefore, some large families, relying on their wealth, choose living people to marry their dead children.

Rao is Zhang Qingting has always been calm, and he can't help but change color a little, if their family really has this kind of thought, then Yulian will have to live and be widowed for the rest of her life, "Mrs. Meng, you are ......"

Mrs. Meng smiled miserably, "Little lady, don't be afraid, our family doesn't do that kind of thing that hurts yin and morality, it's just that Ziwei's name is empty, and it's also a piece of our parents' heart, but fortunately, there is Zizhan and his eldest brother at home, so we think so, let Zizhan pick up the two ancestral halls on his shoulders, and marry a family for his younger brother, and if he has children in the future, he will be under Ziwei's name." so that my child who is wreath will not be left alone in a grave, and there will be no heirs to worship."

She really burst into tears at this time, choking up and unable to speak.

Old Madam Meng sighed, "We have also paid attention to it everywhere, but if we look left and right, we are also in love with your family Yulian, so we have taken a fancy to her." That child looks good, smart and clever, and acts with a rare dignified and generous manner, so the first thing in my heart is to take her as long as you are willing to cut your love and let her marry, you can rest assured that Zizhan is what you have all seen, how he behaves is not our boast of being an elder, and among the young people in the capital, it can be regarded as the best. The one who wants to get married is really like a carp crossing the river, and there are countless of them, but the child's spirit is too high, and all flowers and grasses can't get into the eyes at all, so it has been delayed so far. However, if he marries his younger brother, he must listen to us, although he is picky, but he is extremely filial, even if we personally spoke, he did not dare to disobey that is, he married his wife in the future, and he will treat him as a wife, and he will never treat Yulian badly, you see? ”

What does this make Zhang Qingting say? It feels like eating a fly alive, and it doesn't come out of awkwardness

His grandmother's Oh, your grandson is filial, your grandson is high-spirited, and your grandson was forced to marry my sister by the order of his parents, so co-authored or we climbed high?

Mencius Zhan is good, I admit that it is very good, okay? That doesn't necessarily mean that we must marry our sister to him, where is there no grass at the end of the world? Even if your grandson is a treasure, the other girls are not grass

Hmph, it's a good wife, to put it bluntly, it's just a little better than the widow, and this yin has a man

But if you really want to talk about it, it's better to have a good reputation for the widow and the widow. What about this? Wives don't become wives, concubines don't become concubines, you say it nicely at this time, when my sister-in-law gets married, let her go to bed first, and when she gives birth to a man and half a girl, the wife over there will enter the door, and she won't let her see Mencius, so who will she find to cry? Seriously, I am just the wife of a dead ghost, and I can't be jealous

There was a not very nice sentence, Zhang Qingting wanted to scold, but because of the etiquette, he choked in his throat and eyes, and he was uncomfortable. After a while, he said with a dry smile, "Thanks to the old lady and madam, you can see it, but I also said it first, we can't do the marriage of my sister-in-law......"

"Eh," Mrs. Meng waved her hand nonchalantly, "It doesn't matter if she has passed on to your aunt, and she is not a brat, but she is just a girl, what is there that her brother can't do?" Don't forget, now that you are a person, your identity is different from before, so don't you have the weight to speak at home? That's not a good idea."

"But ......" Zhang Qingting made an excuse, "You two also said that Xiao Meng's heart is very high, if he doesn't look down on our family Yulian, even if he reluctantly stuffs someone to him, it is not appropriate This marriage is not a big deal, please don't laugh at this, we countrymen are vulgar, don't know etiquette, only know that if you want to get married, you have to look at the right eye to become a thing that even Xiao Meng didn't say, our family really dare not agree." If you don't leave people there in time, it will not only be a mistake for the girl's life, but also a lifetime of blockage for Lord Xiao Meng."

Old Madam Meng raised her eyebrows slightly, "Then you mean, if Zizhan agrees, your family will agree?" ”

Can Mencius agree? Zhang Qingting was not sure. This sister-in-law is too likable, what if Mencius Zhanzhen also has a little meaning to Tailian, and wants to enjoy the blessings of Qi people? Men, how many are not? This risk cannot be taken

She thought about it and replied with a smile, "Ouch, old lady, aren't you embarrassed for me when you ask me that?" To tell you the truth, I have reconciled with the surname Zhao, although the relationship with Yulian is still there, but after all, I am no longer her sister-in-law, I can't do anything about this."

"What?" Now it was Mrs. Meng's turn and Mrs. Meng exclaimed, "Are you leaving?" ”

This is extremely rare whether it is in the people or in the official eunuchs' homes

"Yes" Zhang Qingting spread his hands, shook his head and sighed, and made a sad expression, "Our two parents are not in harmony, and we really can't live anymore, so we have to reconcile." ”

This...... Mrs. Meng and Mrs. Meng looked at each other, and they didn't waste half a day's mouth in vain

After eating at noon, barely making a few noises, he let Zhang Qingting leave with people. Needless to say, Qiao Zhongda, the main master, didn't come, and it was useless to keep Qiao Minxuan's little bit.

After saying goodbye to them, Mrs. Meng said to her mother-in-law, "It seems that Zhongda really doesn't want to marry the girl introduced by our family, so she was sent to fight sloppiness." Mother, why don't you forget it? There are a lot of mistakes, let's keep Zhiyun, and it is not much worse than looking for him to get married after Chunqiu, and the reputation is good."

Mrs. Meng squinted at her daughter-in-law, "Did she say anything in front of you?" ”

Mrs. Meng did not deny it, but said, "Zhiyun herself is still a child?" How can you take care of people? This entry into the door is to be a stepmother, how can she cope with it? If you don't get along well, and you can't leave it alone, but add to the daughter-in-law is a little difficult to do, mother, you weigh it again, if you still think it's feasible, I'll go to Haosheng to persuade her."

Mrs. Meng sighed for a while, very sorry, "That's it, but the daughter of the Zhao family can't get it, but I'm not reconciled, that woman is really hateful, and when we all let it out, she said that she had already divorced, isn't this a cliché?" You have to work harder on this matter, with his small lifter, even if it is a jinshi, the one who has spoken in our dignified state mansion is the door yin, and he has to send people here quickly If this thing doesn't work, once it spreads, our family will be shameless? If it weren't for the fact that the girl was really clever and knew how to manage her finances, I wouldn't have bothered to bother with it, and I would have promoted her by directly coming to Zizhan to be a concubine."

"Mother-in-law, don't be angry, think that they haven't seen anything in the countryside before, where do they know this? I'll go back and talk to someone to say that Zhao Yulian is not a stupid girl, I really can't do it, I will persuade her personally, maybe she will be willing to do it herself. If she wants, what can her brother say? ”

Old Madam Meng nodded, "Then you can hurry up and handle Zizhan's family affairs, and you can't let him drag on so willfully When I entered the palace to congratulate me during the Mid-Autumn Festival, Concubine Wan mentioned to me that the emperor had the idea to marry the royal sister to him." Before there were any formal words, let's hurry up and handle his marriage. If we really get a horse out at that time, then the house will be completely messed up, then we really have a lot of troubles to rely on at home."

"Who's to say it isn't? But what can Zizhan do if he insists on refusing? The daughter of Wang Shangshu's family that you fancied last time was very good, but he was suspicious of other people's pretentiousness, so should he let his father talk to him again? ”

Mrs. Meng sighed slightly, "No need for you to let him come to my room, I will personally tell him to give him a glimpse of the Zhao family's daughter, but he can't help but disobey this matter anymore."

"It's the daughter-in-law who knows."

……

Zhao Chengcai flipped through the books in the market for a long time today, of course he didn't find any books that talked about that kind of strange flowers, and he wanted to go to pick up Zhang Qingting and come back, but he was afraid that he would be bored, so he thought about it and went back first. Wen Wenshu was in a daze, and not long after noon, I saw Zhang Qingting coming back with the children.

handed over the girl to the nurse and carried out, Zhang Qingting closed the door, and his little face sank immediately. Zhao Chengcai was still thinking about what he had done wrong, but he heard her slap the table and scolded angrily, "It's too much to bully people."

What's going on? As soon as she crackled and said what happened in the Meng family, Zhao Chengcai became angry after hearing it, "They just want to be the * son and want to set up the archway and don't do it, Lao Tzu resolutely refuses to do it"

Zhang Qingting has long wanted to scold, this is this sentence

was originally a yin relative, but with the signboard of Mencius, it seems to be a flat wife, but in the final analysis? It still needs to be written in black and white to become a credential

If Yulian really wants to be a wife to Meng Zizhan, she can still consider it, but what she wants to marry is Meng Zizhen's second son who has been dead for many years

If we are confused for a while, we will listen to you. Let you fool people, and then what if something goes wrong in the future? You don't delay anything, but the bitter fruit lets us swallow it, how can there be such a good thing in the world?

"Yulian is resolutely not allowed to marry into their family, but you also have to be careful, in case their family bullies others, give us some small shoes, it will be enough" ()