Chapter 436: The Choice of Lovers and Loved Ones

"Is it because she is an orphan and let your parents know about it, so you are against the two of you being together?" Ye Lao thought about it for a while, probably because of this possibility, his parents opposed them together.

Maybe I still know too much about their mentality, and there should be nothing else besides this.

Shu Yixin, this girl is really good in her opinion, except for a little orphan status that makes others look down on others, she really can't think of it. But it's not his fault, he can't put everything on her, who wants to be an orphan? She didn't want to be an orphan, she didn't want to grow up in an orphanage, and she wanted to grow up with a family like an ordinary person, but she just didn't.

For her, she had no choice at all, not that she chose to be like this, but that she had no choice not to grow up in an orphanage, and she had to accept the strange eyes of others.

Originally, these things should not be borne by her, after all, she also has biological parents, but she doesn't know who the other party is, originally she should have grown up in a happy family at least with a warm embrace, but God was really unfair to her and took away all her warmth.

Facing such a result today, it can only be said that it is too unfair to her, but there is nowhere to redress her grievances.

"Yes." He Yuhe nodded and replied lightly.

At this time, he didn't deny it at all, nor did he think about denying it, and even felt that grandpa was really too powerful, and he guessed such things, and he guessed it well.

At the beginning, it was indeed because of her identity, her parents were strongly opposed to her, and they never thought that they would treat her like that, even if she was an orphan, as long as she liked anything, it would not be a problem.

I don't understand why my parents look at her like this with colored eyes, because my parents don't know her well enough, so they see the surface, and they strongly oppose her knowing that she is an orphan. But as long as you understand her, you will know that she is really good later, and the Ye Lao in front of you is a good proof.

Some things really can't just look at the surface, but also look at the reality, some people have to get along with each other to know what kind of character the other party is, what kind of personality, whether they can get along with themselves.

Her parents really didn't do anything, they just looked at the identity of the other party, and then denied her, which was really unfair to her.

Because she didn't do anything, just because her identity was denied by other people, in fact, she didn't want to be an orphan, and she wanted to know her family, but she never found it, her position was already very distressing, and her parents still treated her like this.

God was already very unfair to her, but she didn't expect her parents to treat her like this. That's his parents, highly educated people, but they didn't expect to treat a girl like this.

When I think about this, I feel a little dilemma, after all, they are their own family. But the other party is the person you love, so no matter which angle you think about, you feel particularly embarrassed, after all, such a choice will make you in a dilemma, on the one hand is your dearest family, on the other hand is the person you love the most, and in the end you let yourself choose.

Why should you let yourself face such a choice, I don't know if such a choice is really particularly torturous? In the end, my parents are quite selfish, and they don't think about themselves from their own perspective at all, not knowing that they will kill themselves by doing this, and will make them more angry, or hate them even more.

They just stand in their own perspective and position, they just think that it is best for themselves to do this, but they never think about whether these are what they want, they just think it is good, not that they think it is good, so these are two different things and cannot be mixed up.

But now it's pointless, after all, things have passed, what's the use of complaining? It can only be found to find a way to solve it.

After a while, He Yuhe said in a somewhat indignant tone, "Grandpa, why can't my family understand why you want to hurt such a girl." He Yuhe really couldn't understand why his parents had such thoughts and why they had such selfish thoughts.

"I can only say this thing, and you can't completely blame them for what they have to say, it's because you have different positions, and from their standpoint, of course, I hope you can find someone who is right and can help your career. No matter how you say it, Yixin is not the type they want it to be. "The positions they stand on are different, so their thoughts are naturally different, and I can understand why his parents are doing this, in the final analysis, for the sake of their son.

"Even if so, you can't be so selfish, you haven't asked my opinion, even if you make an idea for me." What you care about, no matter what, should you ask what you think?

Ye Lao didn't answer his question, just asked his own question.

"When you choose between the people you love the most and your family, what kind of choice will you make in the end?" Ye Lao wanted to know what kind of choice he would make when he stood between the two of them in the end.

Between the person you love the most and the person you love the most, for everyone, making such a choice is definitely the most difficult choice, so I want to know what kind of choice he will make, because this really makes me quite curious.

"For now, I really haven't thought about it, and this should be the hardest choice." The dearest and most loved person, I didn't think about giving up, I wanted it all, and cherished it.

For myself, there are really few people who can cherish in this life. So I don't want to give up any of them, because they are the people I love the most.

"Yes, you are really right, this choice is the most difficult, but sometimes you still have to make a choice, you should know, don't you?" That being said, I don't want to choose between my family and my loved one, but sometimes I still encounter the same problem.

That is to say, when encountering the same problem, I want to know what kind of choice he will make in the end, whether to choose a lover or a family, he always has to come up with an idea and choose one of them, not like this, neither side chooses, or both sides choose.

He Yuhe understood what his grandfather meant, was silent for a moment, and said lightly, "If one day really asks me to choose like this, I think I will choose my lover, after all, my lover is the person who will accompany me for the rest of my life, for the words of my family, I believe that time will change everything, and they don't understand that they will make up for it with other aspects." "If your family really understands you and understands yourself, then you should know what is most important to you, they can understand yourself, and this person will stand in your own position and think about these things for yourself.

In fact, as long as there is a person who is willing to back down and is willing to spend time thinking about these things, it is really not difficult at all. Generally speaking, for parents, doesn't it mean that as long as their children are happy, they will also be happy? So it's the same at this time.

As long as you find a person who truly loves yourself and truly loves yourself, you can go through this life well. It's that they live in pain every day, and I believe that this result is not what they are happy to see.

"After listening to your words, grandpa has nothing to doubt about you, I believe you are sincere to her, but grandpa still wants to say to you, if you really love her, protect her." Yixin is a good girl, and she also wants her to be able to find her own happiness, if He Yuhe is sincere to her, and she can see that she likes each other a lot, then isn't this ending very good? Talented and beautiful.

When eating in a restaurant, the more she denied the relationship between the two people, the more she could show that she cared about the other party. It's just that I didn't bring it up at that time, and I didn't tell her, and there are some things at this time, and there is really no need to explain more.

Because an explanation is a cover-up, and the more you explain, the worse it gets.

At that time, she just wanted to deny the relationship between each other, and she didn't take this into account, but let other people notice the relationship between the two of them, which was not unusual at all.

How to say it, today is the first time I know the relationship between the two of them, and I can see at a glance that the two of them have affection for each other, but no one has said anything, maybe I am afraid that it will change the situation in front of me.

Didn't He Yuhe also say it just now, his inner thoughts, I am afraid that after I say it, everything will change a lot. So before you are completely sure, you should maintain the status quo and keep the distance you are now, maybe both of you are choosing to deceive yourself, but you think you can maintain it for a while, count it for a while, and create more memories for each other.

Maybe things are really not as bad as you think, give each other some time, let each other create more memories that only belong to the two of them, maybe it will really help in the future.

It's just that this kind of thing can't be too absolute, and I don't dare to guarantee that it will help, but at present, there is really no better way to believe in the way to think of it, he has already thought about it, but he hasn't found the right thing, and it shouldn't be something that an old man should worry about, let it be.

"Thank you, grandpa, for understanding me like this, thank you very much." He Yuhe sincerely feels that there is someone who can understand himself, which is more important than anything else, and he has always felt that no one can understand his own thoughts.

Every time I face a choice, no matter what happens, I will feel particularly difficult, like before, I am my lover on the one hand, and my relatives on the other, no matter how I choose, I am in a dilemma.

(End of chapter)