679 Hug me

Gao Zhaozheng listened to Jia Xibei's explanation.

In the past few days, she has been recuperating in the house, eating well and sleeping well, she should be lying well, and she has a sore back when she is lying.

As soon as everyone saw her come out, they had to carry her into the house to rest, not in their own home, wrong, not in their mother's house before, this just married into her mother-in-law's family is not familiar, so she had to obediently go in and lie down.

It happened that Jasibe came, Jasibe didn't know what was going on, seeing that she thought it was a small day, and after asking, she said no, just a little dizzy and lay down more.

Then the two chatted, Jia Xibei told her about the gossip in Beijing, Gao Zhao remembered about the title of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, so he asked Jia Xibei.

After listening to Jasibe's explanation, Gao Zhao understood.

"I said what's going on, I thought that all the princesses would be upgraded by then."

"Unless there are very few princesses, there will be more than ten or twenty princesses, all of whom will be named the eldest princess, and then a few eldest princesses, the court will die of poverty, the princess is nothing, the big head is on the prince's side, because the prince and the prince can inherit, even if the prince inherits, it is more and more numerous, and the princess's descendants do not need to inherit. The princess mansion will be the princess...... That's it, and it has to be returned to the court. ”

In this way, Gao Zhao understands the current emperor very well, if it were me, I also thought, you just sit at home and have children, and then wait for me to feed you, uh-huh! Then I will find all kinds of reasons not to ban you.

Jia Xibei lowered his voice and said: "Actually, my uncle and grandfather, that is, Prince Qing, will be the prince of Emperor Chengzong a few days before his death, otherwise Emperor Jian'an will at most give a county king to his uncle and grandfather, so my aunt and grandmother will take a step back and not want to be crowned." My grandfather said that without my great-aunt and grandmother, there would be no Qing Wangye today, so what can I do if I have a high seniority? The royal family is not a place to look at seniority. ”

Gao Zhao understands that it is the credit of Old Concubine Jia, and now Old Concubine Jia does not go out of the palace to follow her son to enjoy Qingfu, there must be a reason.

"By the way, my uncle's family has a happy event, and I met Uncle Zheng, just like you said."

Gao Zhao was surprised: "So fast? ”

"Yes, I didn't invite guests to the outside world, but my relatives went, I didn't expect my cousin to be happy, Hou Yanting cried in front of me, saying that her mother had been gone for less than half a year, and her father was happy to marry and fill the house, although I knew that it was the elders who did it, but I couldn't show it like this. It's true that if you have a stepmother, you will have a stepfather. ”

If it were someone else, Gao Zhao would probably agree with this point of view, but Aunt Zheng, Gao Zhao felt that it was impossible.

"Xibei, I don't think you can say this to your cousin, Aunt Zheng won't do that, you have to think about it, she won't regenerate at such an old age, and she will stir up trouble in her husband's house when she is full? Isn't that harming your own daughter? Smart people don't do that. Why marry her? is to let her take care of the inner house, take care of her children and grandchildren and teach her daughter, I think Aunt Zheng is good, you might as well teach your cousin to learn more from Aunt Zheng, there are only benefits and no harm, in the future, you can't only cry and cry when you come to your husband's house, you will be dumbfounded if you have something, how can your mother's family go back to you to deal with the problem? ”

Jia Xibei said: "I only said this in front of you, I also taught her this in front of her, my cousin and Danruo's cousin are far behind, it's a pity that Danruo's cousin returned to Beijing too late, otherwise let her teach Yanting, a concubine goes out like a concubine, I am worried about her, I will not be eaten by my mother-in-law when I marry in the future, even if my mother's family can rely on it, but it also depends on myself, people are good at being bullied by others, horses are good at being ridden, you are a soft persimmon, everyone wants to go up and pinch it." There are too few people with such good hearts as you and me. ”

In the end, Jasibe did not forget to praise himself, and pulled Gao Zhao by the way.

Regarding this point, Gao Zhao admits that some people just bully the soft and are afraid of the hard, or there is a saying in the previous life: If you look like a bun, don't blame everyone for coming up and taking a bite.

"It's a pity that you can't go to the Wang family's banquet tomorrow, and I told my mother-in-law to invite you over, you are not feeling well and wait for the next time."

"How are you at your in-laws' house? The Wang family is such a person, do you get along? Less than a year after getting married, I saw you running around, and your mother-in-law didn't talk about you? ”

Jasibe said proudly: "Who am I?" Everyone loves it, haha! I'm joking, Wang Xiaoer and I have been married since childhood, and I am familiar with his family, but it's okay, the general's family is not so regular. It's just that there are a lot of people, and if someone else marries in, you can't recognize who is who for a year. I think my grandfather was afraid that I would be lonely so he married me to the Wang family, there are many people, lively, not so many messy rules, generally the bride does not return to her mother's house in the first year, does not visit the door and does not invite guests, unless the mother-in-law brings it, I do not dare to treat in my name with great fanfare, and then invite it after a year, so as not to make people chew their tongues. is that the aunt and grandmother of the Wang family often go back to their parents' house, and every time they come back, they go back and forth in each room, and they can hear any gossip, and they are not bored at all. ”

Gao Zhao said enviously: "I stay every day, suffocated to death, I don't know anyone in the capital, my mother-in-law originally wanted to have a treat, and I also wanted to call you all here, isn't it a delay in this and that." Tell me what you've been gossiping about lately? ”

"I am staring at whether the princess is a son or a daughter, my mother-in-law said it was a son, and the second aunt said it was a daughter, she once entered the palace to see the princess, and said that her round belly was a daughter. Cousin, why do you say that it is the son who is pregnant with a pointed belly, and the girl who is round? When I am pregnant, you can help me see whether it is pointed or round, I will not be patriarchal, but I will know that it is better to prepare the clothes of the little lady as soon as possible. ”

Gao Zhaofa was stunned: "Where will I look, I think that what I am pregnant is a big belly, all round, where to distinguish the sharp round." ”

Thinking of my mother's pregnancy with younger brothers and sisters, every time my aunt always has to look at it for a long time, my aunt has never given birth to a child and has no experience, and every time she says that she can't see it.

Jasibe nodded and said: "Yes, let my grandmother see it then, my grandmother likes to ponder this, which one in my family is pregnant, she has to guess behind her back for a long time, but she never says it in front of people." My grandfather didn't like to hear it, saying that the male and female babies were given to the Jia family by God, and cherishing it is, how can they be treated separately because men and women are different? So no one in my family dared to be biased in the open. Didn't my grandfather love to take me out, and when my mother went to my grandmother, she said that I was a little lady, and I didn't like to go out, and wanted my grandfather to take my brother out, and said something about a girl's family. My grandfather heard it in the back room, and came out and asked, "Are you a man or a woman?" Why do you say that? My mother was so scared that she didn't dare to see my grandfather for a year. But when I saw me, I snorted coldly for a few days. ”

Gao Zhao sympathizes, without the warmth of a mother is the lack of a person's life, it is not easy for Jasibe to grow up so happily.

"Do you blame your mother?"

Jia Xibei shook his head and said: "Don't complain, my mother is just like most women, she likes her son more than her daughter, and it's not her fault alone, my mother treats me badly, and she will feel sorry for me." In this world, I am out of line, and I met a grandfather with such a temperament to go wild with me. I got a lot, what is there to complain about? ”

This is what Gao Zhao likes very much about Jasibe, she has a big heart and is tolerant, so that she herself is happy.

"Actually, there will be some regrets and longings, especially in your family, I am very envious of seeing your father and mother for a few of you. I've never been tired of my mother, and sometimes I've fallen on my grandmother. My grandmother didn't like my temperament at first, she liked my cousin's steady Sven, but I went out with my grandfather a lot, and my grandmother felt sorry for me, and I was cheeky and sticky to my grandmother, and after a long time, I also had feelings. I know that there must be feelings between people, that is, between parents and children, they have to be often tired of being together, you are polite and I am polite, like a guest for a long time, and now I and my mother-in-law, I am not welcome, holding her coquettishly, praising my mother-in-law for being younger and better looking than me. ”

Jia Xibei grinned, Gao Zhao made up his own mother-in-law holding the princess mother-in-law and boasting about being young and good-looking, what would the princess's mother-in-law have?

Jasibe hummed what she learned from Gao Zhao.

If you love me, you will accompany me, and if you love me, you will kiss me

If you love me, you will praise me, and if you love me, you will hug me

Gao Zhao saw tears in her eyes.

Jasibe said: "In the future, when I have a daughter, I will hug her and kiss her, let her be spoiled to me, and will never reprimand her for not behaving properly." ”