Gao Zhao was puzzled and asked, "Can you also hold your mother and be coquettish?" What are mothers and daughters afraid of? ”

Jia Xibei shook his head and said, "Cousin, you don't understand, just because you are a mother and daughter, you can't do it." Because of ......, my heart is sad and scared, but my mother-in-law has a different temperament from my mother, she is definitely not as good as her son, I have no extravagant expectations for her, we are all trying to get along well, even if we don't get along well, I am not sad. My mother ......, I will honor her, and I will feel sorry for her, but in front of her, I just can't be like you and your mother. ”

This Gao Zhao can't understand that she had no parents in her previous life, she didn't enjoy the love of her parents, and she didn't have the pain of being hurt by her relatives.

Coming here, it's all love, the love of parents, the love of elders, the love of brothers and sisters, and then the love of husband and wife. She enjoyed a lot of happiness, without this kind of experience of Jasibe.

However, she remembered that Qian Yulan said that the missing piece in her heart is something that no one else can make up, because there is only one mother.

Jasibe raised a smile again: "It's okay, I'm content now, I'm better than too many people, my grandfather said don't compare what you have lost with what others have, what you get is injustice, your heart is uneven, you will think crookedly, after a long time, people will be crooked." I don't want to be a crooked person, what I'm most proud of is that I have a square heart, and I don't want to lose it. ”

Gao Zhao applauded: "Xibei, you are good!" I just like you like that. Your grandfather said it was great! ”

Jia Hongguang, who was praised by Gao Zhao, was talking seriously with Wu Changliang's eldest brother Wu Changchang at this time.

Since Jia Hongguang returned to Beijing, he recuperated for a period of time, and helped deal with the marriage of his nephew, so he was idle and walked around.

I went out of the city to see the scenery, and accidentally found that my nephew was meeting a woman.

Extremely angry, he called his nephew into his house and reprimanded him in the study.

"It's been ten years, you have married and married, you are also a husband and a father, even if the Yao family woman becomes a widow, how will you stay? Do you have to marry someone else? ”

Wu Changyuan argued: "Cousin, my nephew didn't have this kind of thought, it's just ......"

Jia Hongguang slapped the table and said, "It's just what?" Sympathy with her? What does it have to do with you? Is there no one in the Yao family? Is there no one in the Shen family? Do you need to be sympathetic to an outsider? How can you help? Have you ever thought about what you want to do with the Yao family if you let outsiders know about this? How are you going to deal with your parents, your wife and children? If I can see it, others can't see it? ”

"Cousin, I originally planned to see Jingzhi for the last time today, and persuaded her to raise her daughter and heir well since she listened to the family's arrangement."

Jia Hongguang gasped a few times and said, "This is the Yao family's business, the Shen family can say this, who are you?" ”

Wu Changyuan: "I ......"

Jia Hongguang suppressed his anger and said: "In the long run, if you can't let go of your heart, you will not be happy without her, and you can be comfortable with her, your cousin will tell your father and mother to let you marry another, and your cousin will go to Yaofu to propose marriage in person." Don't worry, I will persuade your father and mother to hand over your children to your mother to raise, and in the future, you will guard the Yao family to live your fast life, and you don't have to worry about it anymore. ”

"Cousin, I didn't think so, I just saw her sad and comforted her......"

Jia Hongguang sighed and said, "Do you believe this?" It's just a matter of deceiving oneself with these words. ”

Seeing that Wu Changchang was silent, Jia Hongguang continued: "Why is there a saying that self-deception harms others and harms oneself. I don't deny that you think so, you have a family, a wife and children, and it is impossible to abandon them, but you can't control your heart. Even if your father, mother, Yao, and Shen family agree to marry her now, I believe that you can't leave your wife and children behind, even if you can throw them away now, you won't be happy in the future. A person who can only care about his own happiness is not a person. ”

Seeing the pain in Wu Yuanyuan's eyes, Jia Hongguang didn't sympathize with him at all, this is a person with a clear brain, and he doesn't know who he is following.

You must know that your brother-in-law Wu Juma has a clear mind, and he can distinguish the current situation of the family when he is not very old, and the rest is to think about personal affairs.

And this eldest nephew wants to leave everything behind just for himself, but he can't do it, relying on his family, and he wants to achieve his own wishes. Achieving his wish against his family, he is uncomfortable.

"When it is constantly broken, especially the love between men and women, in the end, it is not only harmful to others and yourself, the princess's mansion, Yao University's scholar's mansion, and Shen's scholar's mansion, how many people will be affected by your two brainless people? If you can control it, met today for the third time? What was the last time? It's not that I'm bumped into it, it's the same for the fourth and fifth times, until the city is full of wind and rain! Have you thought about it, what will happen to the Yao family's wife? You are a man, nothing more than a punishment to be beaten and kneeling in the ancestral hall, is the wife of the Yao family alive? Without the Yao family's hands, the Shen family will take care of the embarrassing aunt and grandmother who got married. That's what you want to do with people? Don't you yourself know the consequences? Why can't you hold back again and again? ”

Wu Changyuan knelt down and said, "Cousin, I will never go to see her again, begging my cousin not to tell my mother." ”

"People don't just live for themselves in their lives, marry wives, how many people are in love with each other and love each other?"

Jia Hongguang didn't look at his nephew, as if talking to himself.

"It is said that the daughter of the Hou family's fourth-grade official family married a nephew who favored the concubine, and it was a pity for the cattle herding baby in the countryside. But the cow herding baby also has a yearning, yearning for people who work together with each other. I can't help it, anyone will, I don't want to see it, it's best not to be such a person, even if there will be regrets, you can't do anything against your conscience. ”

"I once heard a little lady say that there are three kinds of people in the world, and there are only two kinds of people who are not condemned by conscience, and one is the one who never does anything wrong, and that is the saint; One is a person whose conscience has been completely eaten by dogs, and that is a wicked person; Most people have their conscience eaten half by dogs, and half is kept, and the remaining half of their conscience often torments them. Since you can't do it and your conscience is eaten by dogs, then do less things that don't hurt your conscience, because the most painful thing is yourself. ”

Wu Changyuan burst into tears at this time and muttered, "I can't do it, I can't do any of it." ”

Jia Hongguang understands that what he said can't be done is to abandon his family and children, he can't do it, and he can't let go of his beloved, so it's painful.

"Then don't see it, let yourself not think about it in the future, see which one you want to keep, if you harden your heart to protect your attachment, let it go once, don't ask your family to forgive you in the future, otherwise you will be the son of the Wu family."

Wu Changyuan nodded and kowtowed.

After he left, Jia Hongguang thought, this is a nephew, if it is his son, he will eat the board first and then speak.

Remembering the words that his conscience was eaten by a dog just now, he smiled bitterly to himself.

Fortunately, I still have more than half of my conscience, and the dog only eats a small half, so there is not so much pain.

Recently, the old wife is tired of her mother's family affairs, so go back to the house and coax the old wife to go.