After worshipping the ancestors, the Gao family began to prepare Gao Zhao's and the flute.

Jiang personally made a skirt for his daughter, and explained the process of making a flute to his daughter in detail, and rehearsed for his daughter several times on the spot, for fear that her daughter would make a mistake when she arrived.

In the middle, Qian Yulan came once, and since the Mid-Autumn Festival, she didn't greet Qian Yulan and Zhang Yumei to come to Gao's house to learn the rules from Mama Du. The sisters of the Jiang family did not come again, and each family had to be busy in winter and the year before, and those who knew the etiquette would not go to other people's houses all day long to cause trouble.

Gao Zhao knew that Qian Yulan had a sister-in-law, but she didn't mention it, and Gao Zhao didn't ask. It was Qian Yulan who took the initiative to say that she had been busy at home recently and couldn't get out, that is, Aunt Liu gave birth to a little lady.

"Sister Zhao will be in time soon, and my uncle and grandmother asked who would insert the hairpin for Sister Zhao that day?"

yes, I'm worried about whether she can get married.

Gao Zhao didn't hide it either, and said it directly.

"Last month, my brother and I got engaged. Without much fanfare, the senior brother's mother would come on the day of the meeting. ”

Qian Yulan could feel that there seemed to be something between Gao Zhao and Wu Gongzi before, but she didn't know if they had a private connection with her or if her family agreed. I've always wanted to ask from the side, because the things at home have never been taken away from the Gao family.

Although Qian Yulan is a little strange, how did the Jia family marry the Gao family. But also congratulations to Gao Zhao. also relieved this sister who grew up together since childhood, the biggest and most critical thing in the little lady's life is marriage.

"Congratulations to Sister Zhao, I'll come to congratulate Sister Zhao that day, Mrs. Jia hasn't come to Wucheng County recently? Sister Zhang once went to my house and said that she hadn't come to your house recently. ”

"Yes, they've been busy with each other lately, and Jia Xibei has something at home and hasn't come over."

When it came to Jia Xibei, Qian Yulan pursed her lips and smiled: "In the future, Sister Zhao will really be the elder of Jia Niangzi, so Sister Zhao will go to Beijing when she gets married, right?" ”

Thinking of this, Qian Yulan is happy, then there will be acquaintances in Beijing in the future, and she doesn't have to face the unfamiliar environment by herself.

The fifth aunt and grandmother didn't want to marry her mother's family at the beginning, so she never invited her mother's family to Beijing, at most she came back by herself, occasionally brought her grandson back, and fell in love with Yulan.

Therefore, Qian Yulan is not familiar with her aunt's house, so she is naturally a little afraid of her future life.

Gao Zhao said generously: "Yes, my sister and I will have to contact each other often in Beijing in the future, and I will ask Xianglan to bring a letter to my sister, and we can also write letters." ”

Because he knew that the bride couldn't go around the door without anything, Gao Zhao said that he grew up like a little sister like Qian Yulan, and Gao Zhao still cherished this sisterhood.

Gao Cui would come in and talk every time she saw Qian Yulan, and this time she was very interested in the newborn daughter of the Qian family, and asked about the situation, Qian Yulan said, everything is fine, my sister is good, and my grandmother and father are very happy.

Qian Yulan replied very well, Gao Cui pouted in her heart, she must be happy to be a grandmother and a father, but she didn't know how Yulan's mother reacted, Gao Cui couldn't help but ask.

Gao Zhao never talked to Mrs. Qian in front of Qian Yulan, not to mention bad people and things, she wished that Qian Yulan could put her mother down from her heart, so that she would not be hurt. I didn't hear Qian Yulan mention her mother this time, and it is estimated that she herself tried her best to let go of the expected maternal love, so Gao Zhao couldn't mention it.

Gao Cui looked at her niece's face, and hurriedly said that she was going to be busy, and when she went out, Gao Zhao breathed a sigh of relief, afraid that her aunt would open her mouth and ask Mrs. Qian.

In the evening, Gao Zhao went to the aunt's house, got into the aunt's bed on the kang, and said that he would sleep with the aunt tonight.

Gao Zhao first said some gossip, and slowly talked about the Qian family, for Mrs. Qian, the people in the county thought that she was sick and confused, especially after Qian Yulan and Lu, she either recognized the wrong person or repeated greetings, and then as soon as it spread out, outsiders understood why the Bao family sent a second-room concubine room to their son-in-law, that is, they knew that Mrs. Qian was sick before, and they were afraid that the Qian family would take a concubine, so it was better for the Bao family to send one.

Except for the Qian family and the Bao family, no one knew the real reason, that is, Gao Zhao thought that Mrs. Qian was really sick, and Qian Yulan was worried and scared when she learned how her mother was sick.

She remembered what her sixth uncle and grandmother said when she hadn't quit before: I can't look down on a daughter-in-law, I want her to give way, there are all kinds of ways, women are not afraid of being divorced, and the most afraid of being silenced by the person next to the pillow or the in-laws will be gone. When the sixth old lady said this to Qian Yulan, she just wanted Qian Yulan to pay more attention.

I heard that and seeing it with my own eyes are two different things, what I saw with my own eyes is that my own mother met with this, Qian Yulan felt sad in her heart, she saw the helplessness in her grandmother's eyes, she went to Bao's house to see her grandfather who was paralyzed on the kang, and her grandfather said that it was all for you and Yunying, don't hate your grandfather, your grandfather can't help it.

Grandfather's cloudy eyes were full of tears, and his outstretched hand was dry, "Don't hate your mother, it's your grandfather who didn't teach her well, and your mother will have to rely on your brothers and sisters in the future, Yulan, don't hate your mother, grandfather can't help it, I can't let your mother hurt your brothers and sisters." ”

Qian Yulan held her grandfather's hand and said: "Grandfather, don't worry, I won't ignore my mother, I know that no matter what my mother does to me, after all, she gave birth to me and raised me, and I have to repay my kindness." ”

Grandfather Bao only sighed, and couldn't ask too much of his granddaughter.

But when she got home, Qian Yulan saw her sleeping mother, or her mother who woke up with dementia or screaming hysterically, and tears slowly flowed from her eyes.

She felt very sad, not all for her mother, but for women.

In the future, when a woman gets married, whether you do well or not, if the husband's family does not like it, if the husband's family cares about reputation, then the woman will be sadly sick and sadly gone.

For a while, Qian Yulan saw her excited father and happy grandmother, and heard the cry of the little milk baby, as well as the laughter of her grandmother and father. She remembered what Gao Zhao once said: The sky is big, there will definitely be more than ten people around a person in the future, and there are a lot of good things that can be eaten, why do you have to care about and entangle someone or something, it is very painful to drill the tip of the horns, you can only get along with yourself, let go, the sky is blue, you can't let go, the sky is still blue.

Qian Yulan envies Gao Zhao, she thinks that Gao Zhao has such a family, such a father and mother, and a family who loves and grows up, so she is so open-minded.

In fact, Qian Yulan didn't know Gao Zhao because of the experience of a previous life, as an orphan raised by her elderly grandmother, the suffering she suffered since she was a child, the discrimination she received, the struggle of being alone after work, after her grandmother fell ill, she worked around to borrow money to raise money for her grandmother's medical treatment, and after her grandmother died, she was alone in this indifferent and warm world.

Because of the experience of her previous life, she has Gao Zhao who came here, she can cherish her family, cherish her friends, cherish everything beautiful in the world, she is willing to laugh sincerely, cry sincerely, and live happily.