459 Take a step back

On the first day of October, Gao Wenlin's family went to the ancestral tomb except for Gao Cui, and the second room also went, and Gao Chengji took the serious and solemn sacrifice of the two rooms.

Gao Wencai looked at the new grave, and the tombstone that had been replaced, even the tombstone of his own grandmother. He was complicated in his heart.

After that, Gao Chengji asked the two rooms to go back to the big room for dinner, the men were in the front yard, Gao Lu did not participate in the ancestor worship, and Liang took his daughter to the backyard.

There are not many people, so they all sit at the same table, Gao Cui deliberately said that he bought the courtyard next door and was building an ancestral hall, but Liang just listened and didn't answer, and Gao Cui was also boring.

Liang asked about Gao Zhao's harmony, and Jiang said: "When the time comes, invite some relatives, I am not ready to do a big job, and my younger brothers and sisters are free to come." ”

Jiang said by the way, she wanted the second room to be in Xuanqing Mansion, and it was impossible to come back to participate in Gao Zhao and Lu, and there was usually no contact between the two rooms.

Liang didn't speak, just nodded, no one cared, and Gao Yunniang glanced at Gao Zhao and asked, "Does anyone come to insert the hairpin in my cousin?" ”

This is the cousin asked if she was married, Gao Cui was angry, she thought that Gao Yunniang was mocking her niece for fifteen years old and not yet married.

Gao Zhao knew no, because last time Gao Yunniang asked about her senior brother, she and her cousin said that she was willing to do so.

Liang wondered why her daughter asked Gao Zhao this, and her daughter and Gao Zhao were not familiar with it, so she asked this sentence inexplicably, and after listening to Gao Zhao's answer, she understood, and her face turned red with anger, why didn't she know her daughter's thoughts, so she didn't let it go.

Gao Zhao said: "I and Senior Brother Lu's mother came to insert a hairpin for me. ”

Gao Zhao looked at Gao Yunniang calmly, and the meaning in his words was not to let me teach it privately with others, but I was approved by my elders.

Gao Cui heard what her niece said and said: "My family Zhao'er is married in September, and he is my brother's apprentice. ”

Liang didn't know about this, and he didn't think about how to marry Mr. Jia's nephew, so he smiled and said congratulations, and saw his daughter's pale face.

After a while, Liang put down the chopsticks, which means that he has eaten, and after everyone has put the chopsticks and the next person has taken the table, Liang took a sip of tea, chatted with Jiang for a few words, and took his daughter to leave.

After the others left, Gao Cui said inexplicably: "What's wrong with Yun Niang in the second room, she is not feeling well?" Also, why did my face turn pale when I heard that my family Zhao'er was married? Could it be that if she can marry, I can't marry? ”

"Definitely not, maybe you're not feeling well, and the little lady always has a bad face every month."

Gao Cui said: "Impossible, if the small day comes, it is impossible for the Liang family to take her to sacrifice." ”

Gao Zhao remembered that a woman who went to the grave to worship her ancestors or something couldn't go, and originally wanted to find a reason for Gao Yunniang, so as not to guess the aunt.

"Whatever, love to be jealous and jealous, by the way, I remembered, didn't your uncle and grandmother come to say that she gave her family Yunniang to Xunsheng, and you still want us to agree? Could it be that Yun Niang has taken a fancy to Xunsheng? ”

Helping my cousin cover it up just didn't want my aunt to guess this, but I still remembered what happened before.

"How so? Where has my cousin seen my senior brother, she must be unwell, or my cousin doesn't have any thoughts, so she hurriedly took her cousin home. Who doesn't have an uncomfortable time. ”

Gao Zhao insisted that his cousin was uncomfortable, anyway, he couldn't add rotten peach blossoms to his senior brother, and it was troublesome.

Gao Cui nodded and said, "Yes, Zhao'er, you tell Xunsheng to go out less, in case someone comes up with a trick of bumping into a piece, is it annoying or not?" You can't find another one like coral, you can also find a strong one, where can you find one stronger than Kaoyu? ”

Jiang Shi didn't like it when he heard this, first, he felt unlucky, and second, he always mentioned what to do about his niece.

Gao Zhao saw that his mother's face changed, and hurriedly hugged his aunt and said: "Auntie, it is absolutely impossible, my senior brother and I are compatible, and it is destined that I will not marry anyone else except my senior brother, so you can rest assured." “

Gao Zhao deliberately looked proud, because this is what the aunt likes to watch the most, and then hugged the aunt and said to go and see next door, and the aunt and nephew left.

Jiang looked at their backs and smiled, knowing that her daughter had separated her eldest sister from her, to be honest, she and her eldest sister had gotten along so harmoniously for more than ten years, and it was the credit of her daughter.

The eldest sister doesn't pay attention to what she says, sometimes Jiang feels uncomfortable when she listens, and her daughter will always help the round when she is present, but fortunately, the eldest sister is really big-hearted, she doesn't know herself, but sometimes she will apologize to Jiang when she reacts.

So after such two people get along, no one has their own knots and has to maintain them, which is too tiring.

Life is too tiring sometimes, and if the family members hurt or prevent each other, it will be even more tiring!

There is no harmony from beginning to end, family harmony, and there is a step back and accommodation for each other.

When the mother and son still have hateful teeth, it's just that their own flesh and blood don't hold grudges, outsiders, that depends on the situation, so don't expect people who are not related to you to bear everything for you.

The husband will be the closest person to you, and the person who is furthest from you, depending on the decades of life.

Gao Zhao hopes that when he has gray hair, he can still hold hands with his senior brother and walk down, and there will be a group of children and grandchildren behind him.

Gao Zhao hugged his aunt and walked out, Gao Cui was annoyed and said to his niece: "Zhao'er, I said the wrong thing again, if you are not there, how embarrassed I should be, you said that I have this mouth, I should really find a cloth to plug it, this is also your mother doesn't care about me, and she can't tolerate me if she changes people, and she has to drive me into the next person's house early, and you have to not let me enter the house." ”

Gao Zhao comforted the aunt and said: "No, my mother is not so careful, and the aunt is also thinking about me and won't care." ”

So your mother is good, do you think whose aunt and wife can live as happily as I do when they return to their parents' house? Your father is blessed to marry your mother, and the prosperity of this family is your mother's credit. ”

Don't look at Gao Cui's most work in her mother's house, she hasn't been paid yet, and she saved all the pocket money that Jiang gave her to spend for her niece and nephew. Outsiders have to say that the Jiang family is generous, accommodating a widow and sister-in-law in her mother's house, and treating her like an unmarried aunt and grandmother.

Gao Zhao can only say that women, especially married women, if they are reconciled, their status is not as good as this kind of aunt and grandmother. Like Miao Wanling, she is also a good brother of her mother's family, and she can go back to her parents' house, so Miao Wanling also wants to do things for her mother's brother wholeheartedly. Just like Gao Cui's thoughts.

There are many divorced women, even if her mother's family lets her go home, she will be married again in a blink of an eye, and those who can stay in her mother's house for a long time either have a sum of money in their hands, or they are really kind-hearted, like the Miao brothers.

So in the past, Gao Zhao had no pressure on her life after getting married, if she really didn't have a good life, she would leave, and her father would definitely let her enter the house.

Now that she is married to her senior brother, she is very confident that she can live well, and she is very confident in the relationship between the two.