Although many people think that reading and going to school are useless, throughout history, almost all of those who can be remembered by future generations are literati and writers.

If life is just a journey, coming to the world in a hurry and ending fate in a hurry, why can't that person pursue a higher state of life!

The butterflies have the world in their hearts, pass through the poor mountains and bad waters, and finally leap over the vast sea, becoming the truth of not legends.

Why should that person be content with a mediocre life? If, just because the people around him choose a peaceful life, they wear out their own pursuits, and are willing to be institutionalized, is that person still called alive, and still has his own independent soul?

Just like the peony flower, because he was unwilling to surrender to Wu Zetian's obscenity, he became the king of flowers, but it is also a flower, why are other flowers not crowned with an oiran, and only peony flowers are like this?

It can only be said that the flowers are different, and the life is the same. It's not bad news to hear one today

"Bad news", my family asked me to go home on a blind date, the woman was 26 years old, and I was only 22.

According to my family's concept, a female junior holds gold bricks. But there is another sentence: the fifth female college, the old mother.

If I have to marry an old mother and come back, I can't call the shots? If that's the case, what's the meaning of life?

Obviously, there can be a better choice, but only because of old ideas and old concepts, the life and even personal pursuit of future generations are buried, this is called sin, because Chinese always like to use age to oppress their own family and oppress themselves.

Tomorrow morning

"Get married

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There are three big mountains of "medical care" and "housing loans", and now there is one more

"Parental 'Love'". There's a word called it

"Municipality", translated

"It's a lot of effort, but it's been on the lips, let others repay the favor, and finally become a trouble or even a burden for others", many parents are not like this, obviously hurting their children but think this is love, have asked their children if they want such love, almost have never communicated with their children, and how can they know that this is the father's love and mother's love that children crave!

In such

In the atmosphere of "love", how can children be happy! The reason for this is that everything is a matter of concept. To be more specific, it is not financially independent, and the spirit is also lost.

However, according to the convention, the economic independence of young Chinese young people must be at least about 35, so how can we talk about pursuing it at that time!

Conceptual problems have killed generations of young children! Oh, and there's one biggest mountain I forgot to mention, and it is

"Concept". I used to be a so-called good baby in the eyes of my parents, honest, obedient, sensible, and like to learn.

But now I am belittled by my parents: what about your quality, you have brain problems, nerves, willfulness, and failures, not only your parents scold, but also relatives and friends, scolding me for having a brain problem.

Didn't I just cry out when I saw the unfair marriage in the countryside, the unfair everything, and the status quo of my parents who gave birth but did not raise but arranged their lives?

If there were no pioneers, then no one would eat the first bite of crab, and old ideas would plague the second generation.

If Martin Luther King Jr. didn't give a speech "I Have a Dream", then how could black people have a place in the United States, and how could Obama be elected president of the United States.

Isn't it just that I want to fight for tolerance, and I just didn't get married and have children according to my parents' arrangement, what's wrong with that?

If there is a mistake, it is also that I am not financially independent, eat other people's soft mouths, and take other people's hands short, this is a hard injury!

If you are not financially independent, you have to obey all the life arrangements of your parents, including marrying a daughter-in-law and having children.

Sometimes I really want to leave, and others should scold me for being unfilial. In fact, filial piety and filial piety, filial piety in the heart can be obedient, not foolish filial piety, parents let you do whatever you want, this is not filial piety, if you sacrifice your own life happiness to do filial piety, this is not filial piety.

As long as there is filial piety in the heart, even if it is thousands of miles apart, the innate special induction between mother and son can also make the two hearts lean together.

Just parents. Children have misunderstood the traditional filial piety, thinking that making their parents laugh is filial piety, but in fact, it is not filial piety to let themselves laugh.

Let them make trouble if they are independent, and let them give in if they succumb to their parents, no matter what, they will regret it.

I just wonder what it means for my parents to give birth to us, let's say it's love, but compare with each other, as if the child is just a tool for face; It is said that it is passed on to the next generation, and if you don't discipline it well, you just pull the feces and let the child get married and have children, and then leave the responsibility, as if after the child is born, you want the child to have grandchildren as soon as possible, and give birth to children for the sake of having children.

Of course, there is nothing about children without parents, but this is becoming more and more alike

"Shien" has already become a doom mountain on the child's body, which makes the child breathless. Life is like a joy in suffering, as the so-called "life is unsatisfactory eight or nine times out of ten", in the final analysis, life is still more bitter than happy, aside from the problem of survival, you can find that there are many troubles are given to yourself by human beings, this is really self-inflicted, but in such an environment, what life treasures can be left to children!

Those mountains are getting heavier and heavier, and even if there are more things outside the body, if you don't have a heart that looks at the problem correctly, isn't everything in vain?

Without active social guidance, how can these mountains become strange mountains with beautiful mountains and clear waters? Although the current status quo can be changed in time, I really hope that this day will come sooner, because the life of this generation has already begun, and it is already on the way to these doomed mountains, if the light comes later, this generation will become a victim of tragedy again.