【Chase the Deer Collection】15: Marriage said
In response to the marriage instruction issued by the active guidance of the family elders, it was decided to carry out a group bombardment of the boy for several days, so as to eliminate the erroneous idea of the wayward non-marriage of the boy and facilitate the active development of the family.
The elders of the family are humane, and the policy is enlightened and correct, hehehe-who has tried a 22-year-old blind date with a 26-year-old big sister?
It's a drunken thing to think about, isn't it, life is always full of innocence and helplessness. If this story were written as a novel, it would be bloody, hahaha...... The ups and downs of life are so exciting!
Suddenly, I tasted the self-deprecation and desire to cry without tears before Tang Bohu ordered autumn fragrance: others laugh at me for being too crazy, and I laugh at others who can't see through it.
I don't see the tomb of Wuling heroes, and there are no flowers and no wine hoeing fields. When you don't have a partner, if you want to get married, blind date is the way to go, and this road is the key step that can directly affect your success rate.
However, this is a very shocking level of self-confidence, because your soft and hard conditions can become a factor in your failure, so to speak, everything depends on personal fate, if you are lucky enough, your blind date road is not so many rules, but if you are not lucky, just wait to exercise your own frustration resistance, because the blind date in the countryside can be realistic enough to make you cry!
Although you can understand that other people's parents feel sorry for their children and are reluctant to give up their children, but when so many requirements appear in front of you, even if you have lofty ambitions, even if you have unlimited potential, you are also very hit at this moment, because the other party's parents are too philistine, as if marrying money, now people have lost too much human touch!
Is this a marriage in the world: what is the difference between you and me today and him tomorrow, and finally choose someone who is healthy and rich?
The marriage that is about to be settled will eventually be exchanged for a lifetime of sharing a bed and dreaming differently, think about this scene. And it is understandable for parents to talk about their children's marriage, but it is disgusting to say that if you don't get married early, you will get married for the second time in two years.
If each generation of teenagers still repeats the fate of their parents, it means that this path is wrong.
If the parents are still stuck in the introspection and do not know how to introspect, it will bring the children not only physical poverty, but also mental poverty and backwardness.
What do fathers really want? When I went to school, I was praising the children who studied well, were honest, sensible and obedient; When they become adults, they are all criticizing children who are honest and stupid, how can they have so much affection and love, and they also say that they should hurry up and give us a grandchild.
The reason is that you didn't follow the instructions of your fathers to get married immediately, and you didn't immediately become a successful person with millions and tens of millions of dollars, but when you have millions and tens of millions, the elders will say in front of you, you must not do anything illegal and undisciplined, otherwise don't tell others that you are my relative or something.
Uncles and aunts want to listen to cute babies calling grandparents, parents want to quickly put down their responsibilities and wait for their grandchildren, and when you talk about yourself, you will be disgusted by the elders The other party's family is poor, ugly, and can't speak, I really don't know how to please the elders.
And how can life be so perfect, even if the child does something wrong as a parent to tell him that he can not be corrected, this criticism that criticism, what is the criticism, and the child is young, life has not yet begun, even if it is very normal to make mistakes, who has never been young, but in order to force marriage, it is really enough!
Well, as a positive template to educate children, bad as a negative template to educate future generations, people are really tired of living, and there is nothing they can do, what a - Shanglian: the heart is tired, the body is tired, and the descendants are tired!
Xialian: No money, no house, no daughter-in-law. Sideways: Fuck life. But when you really win the blind date journey, remember to cherish what you love and cherish this rare fate, because the best is what you have.
Don't pick and choose, because no one is perfect. I once met a big beauty that is rare to meet within a radius of several miles, but people have been holding her
"I'm a big beauty, I'm going to marry a rich and handsome" idea, as a result, pick and choose, there are also thirty or forty boys, during the period I also met a lot of good young men, but because they don't look good, so they can't look at it, but in the end I married a young man who is not a lot of excellent young men, the reason is very simple, that is, this woman feels that she is old, and it will be too late if she doesn't have a family.
And in addition to being as beautiful as a fairy, she has not found any other aspects beyond ordinary people, so it can be said that she is a vase.
People, especially women, can have a few years of appearance without changing it, most of them are not out of shape immediately after getting married, so sometimes good-looking is also a disadvantage, because those who love beauty are often confused by it and lose their happiness, so people can't care too much about these external things that are easy to pass away, and you still have to look at the inner things more.
It is not easy to meet a confidant, because there is "fate" in this world, and everything has long been destined in the dark.
When you go through a lot of obstacles to find the other half of your life, maybe you search to no avail, and then you are disappointed in finding the other half of your life.
But at the same time you are disappointed, the god of luck also sends you a blessing, one day you accidentally meet the other half of your life at a food stall along the way, and then you will be amazed that there is really a fate, as the so-called - among thousands of people, meet the person you want to meet.
In the wilderness of endless time, in the endless wilderness, there is no earlier step, no later step, and when encountered, I can only say softly: "Are you here too?"
"I wish there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married!