After receiving the award, the young architect said in a firm tone that it was "a great honor". "Architecture for me is no longer an attempt to build a magnificent monolith, but with all the gratitude for tradition, for the existing fabrics, as a basis for the construction of 'modernity', these traditions and existing fabrics, they are cultural heritage, traces of history, local culture...... Architects must painstakingly understand what has happened to the land, what is happening now, and what the future may hold. In the midst of nearly 50 years of demolition and construction in China, young Chinese architects must have the courage and perseverance to embark on the architectural path of defending our own culture and traditions. ”

In a subsequent interview, he called Xiao Se "a leader and role model among his peers" and asked him to share his experience along the way with friends who love architecture.

The interview was very long, and when asked by a reporter from the magazine what he felt was different from his peers, he replied: "I may just be lucky that I have never lost my motivation mentality, and what I have done when I should have done it, the result is naturally not too far from what I expected."

Never relax. It's easy for people to become lazy, but it can be a very painful process to become diligent. If you want to continue to succeed, you must turn motivation into an attitude and persistence into a habit. ”

Talking about the reason why he was able to win an award in a foreign country as a Chinese student, Xiao Se believes that he relies on a little talent and hard work all the time, as well as the pressure that has never been relieved. "Going abroad is not for enjoyment, some people think that going abroad is to experience life in a foreign country. That's true, but never forget what you're here for, to learn something you can't learn at home. Before going abroad, ask yourself what you want first, and secondly, what the country can give you. I don't want to be clear about these two questions, just to experience life, just get a tourist visa.

When I was studying for a PhD in France, I was the first in the design class for two years and four semesters, and I was the first in the research group for two consecutive years, and I was a non-French in the research class, and I was facing our 60-page thesis, and my result was A, ranking first. For two consecutive years, public courses have ranked in the top three in their grades. Behind these glamorous and glamorous things, there are many consecutive days and nights of scrutiny, drawing, self-evaluation, self-denial, and then scrutiny, and then drawing...... Only if you have worked hard can you be effortless in the eyes of outsiders. And these days and nights, when you look back, you will feel how happy and heroic those days of striving for ideals, long hours, continuity, and forgetting to sleep and eat are ......"

My eyes were hot and damp for no reason, and I stroked the smooth pages of the magazine and the dense text, and my fingers trembled nervously, as if I were touching the beating pulse and his energetic heart. "When I spend the night designing drawings, I imagine that my window has become a lighthouse, and I have a place in the field of architecture that I aspire to", the rhetoric of the Seine at that time has gradually become a reality, and he is moving towards his goals and dreams, step by step, solidly, I am proud and proud of him. It's a pity that things are wrong, separated by thousands of rivers and mountains, and I can no longer share the joy of his success and drink the wine of celebration with him.

"Tong Xin, in fact, it's easy for you to get news of him, Yuan Jiapeng has been in touch with him, if you have anything to say, you can also let him convey it." Yu Meng sighed and said, "One of you is unmarried, the other is unmarried, and you both love each other deeply, as long as you talk about those misunderstandings, it is easy to get back together." ”

"If the misunderstanding can be solved, we won't break up." My heart was confused, a deep sorrow, "Let's talk about Yuan Jiapeng's mouth, as soon as he said good words, they were all out of shape." ”

Yu Meng sighed softly. "You don't know yet, Yuan Jiapeng and Yu Ling broke up."

"Why?" I was surprised that the last time I saw them was half a year ago, and the two of them were still tired and crooked, and there was no sign of breaking up at all. ”

"The reason why they broke up, it's really funny to say it." She pursed her lips, "Yuan Jiapeng was afraid of being embarrassed and didn't dare to tell the truth, so he only said that his personality was incompatible and he broke up peacefully." Yu Ling told me very frankly that it was actually because she had too strong a libido that Yuan Jiapeng couldn't bear it. Jade Lime is indeed more than that, and it is said that when she lived with her former boyfriend, she had to do it every night. But Yuan Jiapeng is usually busy with work, so he only has time to spend with Yu Ling on weekends. For more than a year, as long as the two were together on weekends, Yuan Jiapeng often couldn't do anything else all day, and was exhausted by Yu Ning. He was worried that if he lived together or got married and lived together in the future, his body would not be able to bear the collapse, so he had to propose to break up. ”

I laughed dumbly, that Yuan Jiapeng could only speak his tongue, and the girl who was always shouting about dancing before could try various postures, and he couldn't afford it when he really encountered many postures.

"But they broke up and are still good friends, and they keep in touch often." Yu Meng said again, "Yu Ling is very open, she doesn't care about many things, in fact, it's very good, she lives freely." If only we had her as free-spirited. ”

"None of us are free people." I sighed gloomily, my eyes glazed over to nothingness.

Yu Meng's wedding date is set for June 1, it is said that it is an auspicious day of the zodiac, and Luo Wenhao feels that the wedding anniversary of the two will be celebrated with the child's festival in the future, which is particularly meaningful. The good day is approaching, I took the time to accompany Yu Meng to try on wedding dresses and wedding dresses, I also tried on two sets of bridesmaid dresses, when I came out of the wedding dress shop, we accidentally met a person we hadn't seen for many years - Li Sumiao, the three of us were stunned. Li Sumiao was a little fatter than before, and her eyebrows became deeper and deeper, and she frowned slightly habitually.

"I saw you trying on a wedding dress in the store, are you going to get married?" Li Sumiao's eyes looked directly at Yu Meng, as if there was no such thing as me at all.

Yu Meng raised her head blankly, looking at Li Sumiao a little frightened, dazed, and at a loss.

I looked at them and wanted to retreat quietly, but Yu Meng grabbed my arm and leaned on me as if asking for help.

"I'm just asking, so I won't scare you like this." Li Sumiao's voice was so lonely and soft, "Who are you going to marry?" ”

Yu Meng's face was snow-white, her eyes were black, she stared at Li Sumiao, her lips trembled, and she whispered, "Who I marry has nothing to do with you." ”

"Yu Meng, after so many years, don't look like enemies seeing each other anymore." Li Sumiao shook her head, distressed and excited, "What happened before was my fault. I'm dazed and delirious for you, and the more you attract me, the more wrong I become, and I don't know why I did that to you......"

"Say no more!" Yu Meng even lost the color of her lips, her eyes opened round and wide, and her voice was so cold and deep, low as a whisper, "Please let me go, I'm going to get married soon, if you still feel guilty about what happened before, don't bother me again." ”

"Yu Meng, you...... You ......" Li Sumiao gasped, pleading, whispering, "Isn't it okay for me to care about you as a friend?" ”

"No way!" Yu Meng's voice was so soft, but it had a great and terrifying power, "How can I be friends with you, your appearance always reminds me of that humiliating past, I don't want that past to affect my future married life, do you understand?" ”

Li Sumiao's eyes looked at Yu Meng fixedly, and he shook his head slowly, his voice was difficult and hoarse: "Okay, don't worry, I hope you can be happy more than anyone else, and it will definitely not destroy your marriage." ”

His lonely and sad appearance made me feel sad, so I changed the subject and asked, "Aren't you studying in Beijing, why are you here?" ”

"I'm graduating soon, I've already contacted my employer, and I'll come back for an internship during this time." He replied.

I asked what unit it was, and Li Sumiao told me that it was the alma mater of the three of us, Haicheng Dance School, and he would officially become a teacher at the school after the dance school opened in September this year. At the end, he added: "I actually have a lot of opportunities to stay in Beijing, but I still want to come back, here I have my concern......s" He glanced at Yu Meng and sighed deeply, "I'll leave first, and I'll contact you later when I'm free." ”

He turned away gloomily.

I looked at Yu Meng, her head bowed, tears on her eyelashes.

I sighed. "I can see that he still loves you, and he has no malice, so why should you ......"

"I'm scared!" Yu Meng's lips moved slightly, and she muttered for a while, "I'm really scared, if Wen Hao knew about my previous things, would he still love me and be willing to marry me?" ”

"Are you going to tell him?" I asked.

"No—" she shook her head, breathing heavily, "I don't want to lose him!" ”

"Then don't be afraid, it's useless to be afraid." I could only reassure her, "What you should do now is to love your husband well." As long as your relationship foundation is deep enough, many problems can be overcome. ”

Her eyes stared at me sadly, and this look made my heart feel cold, I didn't know what kind of marriage and fate would await her.

Yu Meng and Luo Wenhao's wedding came as scheduled, receiving relatives during the day and holding a wedding banquet at night. Luo Wenhao wants to marry Yu Meng with a grand retro wedding and eight sedan chairs, which shows how much he loves Yu Meng.