If I have a child, I will not let my child be my good baby, I will guide, instead of blindly deciding that he will only be an obedient child, because this will lose the personality and potential that the child wants most to achieve the child's extraordinary life!

From childhood to adulthood, I can be said to be a good baby in the eyes of my parents, I can't do it if I don't do it, I can't eat it if I don't eat it, my parents are happy, because he has an obedient me, I am proud of his face, but my world rarely asks. One childhood memory I remember very well is when my younger brother asked me if I would eat Lao Bao Pork (a kind of three-no-snack for five cents a bag), and I would give you some to eat. Although I really wanted to eat it at that time, my saliva was coming out, and I didn't eat it, I refused, in the words of my hometown, I faked it, just because it was junk food, and my parents wouldn't let me eat it. But do I want to eat it? I really want to eat!

When I was a child, my parents compared their children's genders, and the girl in my family who brought you was so jealous of you. When the child grows up, he begins to compare his grades, and your family loves to have good academic performance and is obedient, why don't I have such a child. Grow up a little bit and start comparing high school and college. Then, start to compare work and career, and the once obedient child has become the fuse, you are a waste, how much money do you earn a month, you look at the people who don't go to junior high school, you look at you......

Although as a child, you can't use reason to talk to your parents morally, but there is no law that says that children can't correct their parents who make mistakes. Good parents are not those who die to save face, but those who earn face on their own. What I want to complain about most is that parents always use 50 years of experience to criticize their 20-somethings, what's wrong, but I don't say what's wrong, and how to change it? And there is no comparison with children in their 20s who have struggled for more than 20 years! It's the same as when you were in your 20s, but it's not comparable, the times are different! Therefore, only rational experience can be exchanged, and there is no comparison of success! Because the road is different, the road is different.

Therefore, I will not let my child be a good baby, because good babies are all used for comparison, and parents are used to pretend to be forced. In fact, whether you're a good baby or a troublemaker, at the beginning of life, parents end up just comparing who mixes well, who has a good salary, and who has a good job! It can be said that the most important role of a child's life is that parents compare with each other. Instead of letting the child be a good baby, it is better to give the child a lively childhood (of course, education can not be left behind), because to be a good baby, it is easy not to dare to fight, afraid of not being assertive and foolish, which is a disadvantage in society. Why is it easy for troublemakers since childhood to mix well, because such people can mix and live, which is an advantage in society!

Why do every parent who comes from a child still treat their children like this? Because it is a habit, it is better to open up a new path than to follow the old path, so parents unconsciously go back to the path of the old generation, because they do not know what kind of future they should give their children. In fact, the decision on the future of the child is in the hands of the parents! Don't blame your child for not being angry all day long, because parents are at least 60% responsible! Don't give birth without raising, don't give birth to children as a burden for comparison, children are their own, children are biological, and their own children should be treasures, even if they look like grass to outsiders.

Although the wheel of our lives has begun to turn and there is no turning back, we can determine the life path of the next generation. Of course, we can also be kind and guide the next generation to find the right path, because we are the ones who have come before.