Introduction: The generation of every new thing will inevitably go through a period of wait-and-see period, from the economic benefit of this is an insurance model that can minimize losses, the interests are not wrong, but this has led to China becoming the world's strongest imitation country. Whether it is a wedding or funeral in life, a house to live in, or any technology in the environment that can change the world, everyone seems to be watching the emergence of the "emerging bird" and the corresponding experience from the "guinea pig", so that they can hurry to the next step of imitation or elimination.

As the saying goes, a gun shoots a bird. In fact, in the eyes of interest groups, there is an urgent need for this kind of "up-and-coming birds" who are not afraid of death, because they are watching and watching all the actions of the "up-and-coming birds", and even many so-called "data duplicators" or "experience borrowers" are installed on the spot to observe and figure out in detail, and once the "up-and-coming birds" succeed, they will immediately and quickly copy the relevant experience. But once it fails, either give up the project, or look forward to the emergence of another new "budding bird", continue to wait and see, and continue to stage a new round of "data copying" or "experience reference......

China is a big country, but it has a long, long way to go before it is a superpower. Don't think that China is already very "urbanized" or "modern and international", and don't think that just because you've seen some luxurious modern metropolises, you think that the country is full of such scenery, because this only happens in some first-tier cities. Although China is good enough, however, in many places in the country still maintain the old style, there are many people who still haven't seen the big world outside their own world, and still don't dare to realize their dreams, don't think that this is a "sadistic plot" that will happen in the depths of the mountains, in many cities and towns in China, and even some third-tier cities, all this is an ironclad reality.

Maybe in such an environment, everyone has learned to wait and see, sometimes there is no difference between watching and imitating, because there is no money, as long as it involves money, they are "very picky", only when they see others developed, they will be "full of pride" - to imitate other people's successful models, because this will not take the unnecessary unjust road in vain, because there have been successful precedents. In fact, in their hearts, they are eager to change their fate, but perhaps China's thousands of years of golden mean have made them hover on the road of waiting for the "first person to eat crabs" to appear, in fact, this is mostly not about money, but a kind of backwardness in thinking.

Some would say that it is prudent. But in fact, it's not, because they never think about it, they never reflect on whether it's really good for them, they just follow the trend, they just imitate. Because there are too many people who are backward in their thinking, and too many people imitate them, China is called a "super copycat power" - our imitation has never been surpassed. Why is there a lack of innovation in the country, and why is it that we have been advocating innovation instead of imitating, because the national conditions of imitation will make us always fall behind other countries. The product can be copied, but success can not be simply copied and pasted, because success has applicability, will only be activated in a specific environment, it can also be said that everyone's success is different, but they don't understand, maybe they know, but still hold a fluke mentality step by step, because some people have succeeded, with the idea of "they can, I can do it" step by step, step by step away from their own road to success, they are just waiting, never to break through their own dilemma, Because they are afraid of the so-called "can't afford to lose".

It's really "can't afford to lose", but I just don't want to be a "guinea pig" for nothing and let the people around me wait and see the experience! That's one of the reasons why we prefer to know that a part-time job won't make people prosperous, and still don't start a business! And only some hot-blooded men who are eager to realize their ideals ignore the negativity of the people around them, and the suggestions they think are right, so they grit their teeth and kneel step by step to achieve their "rebirth", they are a group of "alternative pioneers" who are out of place with the world, they succeed well, once they succeed, the people around them will be like "mushrooms after the rain" to imitate and grow, and then generously seek advice from the "pioneers"; But once it failed, then those people around them who had always thought that they couldn't do it began to sarcastically criticize, but in fact, in their hearts, they held "Fortunately, I'm not so impulsive to be the first person to eat crabs......

Not only in the career, many people have been watching all their lives, but also in terms of life, other people's every move and line has become their own direction indicators, as long as others wear good-looking clothes, they will buy, as long as others have used cosmetics that work well, they will use, never think about whether these are the most wanted, the most suitable for their own everything, has been watching, all their lives have been imitating. The countryside was originally a backward place, in fact, the hearts of the people here are very simple and kind, but the prosperous life has gradually corroded them, seeing others get married with this new ceremony, the next time their children get married, they will use this, they will build this villa that they have built up, and they will build like this, and when they see others marrying a beautiful daughter-in-law, they will make conflicts all day long and tell themselves that they must marry a good heart, but they don't know that people are different, this is just our personal imagination......

Not only in terms of life to imitate others, but even in their own dreams, in what kind of person they want to be, seeing that there is no one around them who wants to be the kind of person they want to do, they suppress the most true self, see that there is no one around them to support their dreams, they leave their dreams behind, and keep convincing themselves - I have passed the age of dreaming, I want to choose to forget. But as long as there is a successful person around you who wants to be, there will be many people who originally hit you and began to support you, and you yourself will realize your dream step by step even if you are kneeling, just because there are such successful people around you.

Why do you have to wait, why must there be successful people who appear before you start to be eager to realize your dreams, why can't you be brave enough to pursue your dreams! If you don't have such a person around you, will you suppress the real you for the rest of your life! In fact, it doesn't matter whether there is such a person or not for your dreams, but you give yourself a "psychological crutch", of course, this crutch will make you think that you are strong, and the people around you will not fight you anymore and you will support you......

Wait-and-see, we have been watching all our lives, since birth our life seems to have begun the life of a wait-and-seeer, we wait and see, we imitate, we never really ask ourselves what we want, and we never really realize our unique and unique self, because we have been watching, because this will make us look less weird and alternative, will make us less misunderstood, will make our lives dull and stable, but we are about to forget ourselves - the real self, We have always played the role of watchers, we dare not try to do something that we do not have around but we really want to do, our own role, but this may be a lifetime.