Author's note: Filial piety comes first, and the best way to test a person in ancient times is to see if the person is really filial piety.

But with the gradual passage of time, in today's modern society, many traditional virtues have been abandoned, and everyone is no longer like a person who is corrupted by money

"People" have lost many basic principles of being a human being - the way to treat the elderly at home is to send them to nursing homes, or to kick the ball between siblings, kick the old people to be supported as a ball, and finally let them fend for themselves or never pay attention to the inner world of the elderly, so that they become empty nesters.

Treat feelings is not as good as before, the heart is a lifetime promise, everyone just treats feelings as a kind of entertainment to consume, happy is good, unhappy to change, and finally two by two forget the world, from then on is a passerby.

Treat children without giving birth to them, most of them develop freely with them - do not teach, do not ask, do not read, children become left-behind children, day by day, year by year, and finally grow up, but parents do not ask many times.

When the old people have nothing to rely on and become poor social helpers, when feelings are no longer serious and become a consumer product, when children become left-behind children and have not had childhood, it is the beginning of the collapse of social ethics and morality.

And when China's traditional ethics and morality collapse, it is the best witness to the crisis in this society, and it is also the beginning of our becoming mind-eaters...... Slang says:

"Sanliu (dog meat) rolls twice, and the gods can't stand steadily." If you want me to say, if you can't stand firmly, just sit down, in fact, people and immortals are the same, the most important thing is to think of a reason to come out, let yourself live happily and comfortably, the so-called wealth to people and happiness!

However, the most subtle thing is that people have different hearts, people have many faces, and there are many hearts, and I have seen them all.

Let's talk about compassion first, some people do have compassion, but many people want to have compassion for themselves, for example, when someone is in trouble, he feels troublesome when he wants to help others, and he is afraid of trouble, so it is much easier to give a beggar a few dollars on the street, and after he finishes giving alms, he feels that he is a good person, so he is at peace and proud.

The other is called compensation psychology, for example, when their parents were alive, they did not take good care of themselves, and after they died, they felt guilty, so they gave a few dollars to the old beggar, and after giving alms, they lied to themselves that they were very filial, but their parents died early and could not enjoy happiness.

There is another kind, some people have done crooked things, and they are afraid that God will clean them up, so they accumulate virtue and do good, thinking that God will let him go, whether God is so generous, I don't know, but they may sleep peacefully on the night they do good deeds, you say, is it a sacred vocation to be a beggar?

Sometimes the beggars come to help them, and without the beggars, they will eat less and eat less and sleep a few nights less.

In fact, the most important thing in being a man is to keep to himself, to be himself, not to be exaggerated or vain. However, the real situation is that everything most people do is more or less just to promote themselves as a good person, a filial son, and a good reputation for themselves.

There are many people who usually don't care about others, and they start to be nice to her when others are about to leave their world.

For example, if someone shows affection to the outside world every day and shows how filial he is, does he want to prove to outsiders that he is a rare good person?

Another example is that someone with a noble status, but he shushes a poor person with a low status, takes good care of him, and eats at the same table, does he want to prove to others that he loves the people like a son and is sympathetic to the people's feelings?

In fact, there are good people, and there are good men, but it's a pity that they are different from you and me, they never leave their names for doing good deeds, they never show affection and happiness when they fall in love, marry a daughter-in-law and have children, and never start to cherish the people around them when they can't recover their feelings.

But what about us, how many of us have been a heart-eater all their lives, obviously not filial to their parents, obviously punching and kicking their lovers, and obviously indifferent to their children, but they still play the role of filial sons, good husbands, and good fathers, who is this deceiving?

People are doing it, the sky is watching, one day, you will taste the evil fruits of what you have sown, your children are still like this, you have missed the whole year after all...... There are many people who usually do not go to filial piety to their parents, speak ill of their parents, and even shirk their filial piety to their parents between brothers and sisters...... People are all the same, so they are not afraid that in the future, when they are old, there will be no filial piety to their children?

There are many people who have their other half in love with each other, but they are distracted, and there are other women in their hearts.

One day, they disliked the other half of the old Zhuhuang and chose another woman, but the other woman ran away with the money.

suddenly remembered the benefits of the bad wife, so she asked her to forgive and said some sweet words that she didn't believe, but most of them would be the same afterwards, men and women alike...... Have you ever truly repented, have you ever truly loved others?

There are many people who usually play games by themselves when they are in love, and gradually snub their lover's heart, and feel that she will understand me, but in fact, this is not love at all.

Wait until one day, when her lover says that she is tired and tired and wants to break up, she starts to take the initiative to attack, and repeats the previous behavior afterwards, so she takes the initiative again, returns to the original point, and finally breaks up completely.

But afterwards, she claimed that it was someone else's responsibility, and kept saying how much she loved her and how good she was...... What kind of man is this, what kind of love is this?

There are many parents who usually don't care about the growth of their children at all, and when their children grow up, they are about to get married and have children, and then they start to make long speeches and publicize them to the outside world - either to say how good they are and how good they are, to educate such offspring; Either say that you want to fight for me, how to give me interest in the future, and have a successful career; Either say that my responsibility is over, and it will be your business to mix up and mess up in the future, if you do something illegal, don't tell outsiders that I am your father...... In fact, have you ever fulfilled your responsibilities as a father?

Life in the world is like falling flowers and flowing water, rushing away. Today's, tomorrow's and yesterday's encounters are all fate, don't let love become a regret, don't let family become a regret, don't let friendship become a regret, cherish the present!

It's a pity that not many people will do a good job in the present, always start to try to cherish when they lose, and they will not take the initiative to admit their mistakes, always impose the responsibility on others, and always defend themselves, but I don't know that even though you get the world, you lose her, of course, you also lose your own heart, because you have never had a heart.

People live, it is difficult to be yourself, it is even more difficult to not forget your original intention, it is even more difficult to be a real good person and a good man, in fact, it is difficult for others to give it, it is you yourself who give you your own difficulties, because you have already become a heart eater at all, you can't be a good person at all, you don't have the sincerity at all, and you don't really love someone.

You always think about your good name, you always care about these things outside of your body, you always ignore the things that are most important to you, you always pick up the cheapest and least important things, you always miss out, you always do wrong, you always justify yourself, you always do what is best for you, you always live with a mask, you forget what you originally looked like.

Note: The heart eater refers to a gentle and elegant gentleman who is as gentle and elegant as a snake and scorpion in his heart, and on this basis, he intensifies his efforts to do some bad things, and he also has a beautiful name: I am a good person, and I am doing the right thing for heaven.

Among them, this includes those who are hypocrites. In fact, the most famous ones are Yue Buqun of the Huashan faction and Xiang Yingtian in the Tianya Mingyue Knife, these people can be called ghost kings.