"In marriage, I hope he can be serious and responsible for his wife and children, and run his own small family well. Women don't really want much, as long as you treat her a little better and care for her during her pregnancy, childbirth, and breastfeeding, she will be very touched and feel that she has not married the wrong person. On the contrary, if you are lukewarm to her at this time, just play games, and spend all day drinking outside, she will hate you and complain about you for the rest of your life. ”

Interviewer: "If you had a daughter, what would you say to her?" ”

Yang Sumei: "If I have a daughter in the next life, I want to tell her that my mother doesn't want you to be a good child since you were a child, and you have wronged yourself by fulfilling others." What do you want, what do you want to do, tell your mother wherever you want to go, don't learn to endure in order to share your mother's worries, I don't want your little shoulders to bear the burden that you shouldn't bear at your age, but you can't ask for everything, after all, your mother is not a fairy, and she can't do everything. You don't need to listen to your mother or others for everything, and what your mother says is not all right, I hope you can have your own opinions, have your own ideas, and learn to refute and resist. Mom doesn't want you to disguise your personality in order to please others, Mom likes the original you, although you are a little naughty and not very obedient, but that's the real you. Mom wants you to cry when you want, laugh when you want to laugh, live freely, be happy, don't suppress yourself, and change your nature. ”

"Mom doesn't ask you to get a high score and strive for the first place in everything, but I ask you to go all out and not leave regrets for yourself. Mom doesn't give you a lot of interest classes, but I hope you can have one or two of your own specialties in addition to studying. Mom doesn't want you to be sensitive, gain and lose in order to make every classmate like you. No matter how hard you work in this world, no one can be liked by the whole world, just like you have people you hate, right? What you like, others won't necessarily like. One or two of your true friends is enough. ”

"Mom hopes that you can be a caring person with a sense of justice, support the weak, and not bow to the evil forces. Mom wants you not to bully others, but also don't be bullied by others. If you scold you, you will scold you back, and if you beat you, you will return it, your mother can't protect you for the rest of your life, only you are your strongest backing. What is good to you, you must keep it in mind, and the grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring, after all, no one in this world has the obligation to help you, and it is necessary to be good to you. ”

"Mom wants you to be an independent person, but you can't do anything about it, you have to ask for help from others, and then you can help him the next time he is in trouble. Mom hopes that you have been bullied by others, wronged, and when you encounter sadness, you can tell your mother that you are here, don't be afraid! I hope we can be good friends who talk about everything. ”

"Mom doesn't object to your early love, after all, love in student days is the purest, it has nothing to do with parents, family background, whether there is a house, whether there is a car, it is just a simple like. But Mom hopes that you will study harder for a better future, you can hang out together, but don't do things that cross the line, Mom hopes that you just hold hands, lip contact will lead to a lack of oxygen to the brain, lack of judgment and self-control, which will cause irreparable mistakes. ”