Interviewer: "What do you think is the definition of happiness for a woman?" ”

Yang Sumei: "The answer to this question should be different from person to person, happiness needs us to feel with our hearts, every day, every minute, every second we are experiencing now can not be repeated, learn to cherish, learn to tolerate, learn to give up, learn to forget after happiness should come suddenly." There are people outside the people, there are mountains outside the mountains, compare with others, you will only look for troubles, live in complaints every day, how can there be happiness? There must be someone who will live better than you, your husband is more handsome than yours, your children are smarter than yours, your career is more successful than yours, and you definitely can't compare. Look at life and don't be too greedy. You look at other people's brilliance may only be on the surface, every family has a difficult scripture, you just need to work hard to manage your life well. ”

Host: "Are you happy now?" ”

Yang Sumei: "I'm very happy! My happiness is simple, and I feel happy when I see a customer eat their food clean. I feel happy when I see my people smiling out of the mud. When I'm not at work, I feel happy when I wake up naturally. I will feel very happy when I open the window, look at the blue sky and white clouds, and breathe in the fresh air, and I will feel very happy eating fried chicken, drinking beer, and chasing my favorite TV series. Enjoy the moment, keep things simple, and your worries will naturally decrease. ”

Moderator: "Then I would like to ask, what do you do when you have something to worry about?" ”

Yang Sumei: "I will look at the universe. When I think the earth is big, the sun is bigger, and when I think the sun is big, there is something bigger than it. There are too many galactic coefficients in the universe to count, and it's still expanding. Whenever I see the vast starry sky, I will deeply feel the insignificance of human beings, and what are my worries? This earth is also big for humans, right? And we may not succeed in traveling all over the world in our lifetime, and there are certainly not a few people like me who have never been abroad. ”

"Sometimes human beings are just self-righteous, and they have to be divided into three, six, nine, and so on, no matter whether you are noble or not, in the face of natural disasters such as tsunamis, earthquakes, and typhoons, you have no power to resist. We are always planning what we are going to do in the future, but the world is unpredictable, the world is full of variables, anything can happen, you may suddenly fall ill one day, you will encounter a traffic accident, even a flower pot from the sky can kill you. You can't wait for later, and you'll lose your life, so do whatever you want now! Don't let yourself have regrets. If you like someone, then go and confess your feelings, maybe the other party is also waiting for you, you want to go back to see your parents, if you want to go to a place, then plan to go! The world is so big, life is so short, if you don't look at it now, you won't have a chance. ”

Host: "I also want to ask you, what kind of man do you want your son to become in the future?" ”

Yang Sumei: "Whether it is at work or in life, I hope he can become a responsible and responsible man. You have to do your part well, have the courage to admit mistakes, don't make excuses, and find a first aid plan quickly. If you can't do it yourself, or don't want to do it, don't reluctantly agree to it, and learn to say no. ”