Host: "I've heard they're all injured women, right?" ”

Yang Sumei: "That's right, they, including me, are all women who have had painful experiences, and everyone's story can be written into a book." ”

Moderator: "Can you tell us a little bit about them?" ”

Yang Sumei: "Yes. Among them, single mothers account for a large majority, and some have escaped from domestic violence by their husbands, some have to support their families, and some have been abandoned like me. ”

Host: "Single mom? Do you mean those who are alone with small children after a divorce? ”

Yang Sumei: "There are this, but there is also a woman who has a child without even getting married. Most of them were young and innocent, and they were deceived by the man's words, and finally became pregnant, and the man ran away, only to find out in the end that he didn't even know the man's real name. If you find it early, you can also beat it, so as not to have a child who comes to the world to suffer, but some scumbags coaxed her to marry her, but when she was about to give birth, she changed her hexagram, and the woman had to give birth, but she didn't dare to confess to her relatives, so she had to work hard outside and take care of the baby. ”

"There is another one that she originally wanted to kill, but the doctor told her that due to her special physique, she may not be able to give birth to this fetus in the future, so she had no choice but to give birth. It's hard to find a job with your children, and they came to me when they had no way out. Since there are many mothers with young children, I opened a separate nursery school to take care of their children. ”

Moderator: "Ms. Yang, you are really an admirable woman who has helped so many female compatriots. ”

Yang Sumei: "I'm just doing my best, I'm a woman, I know the difficulties of women, and I also understand that women are easy to be soft-hearted." Here I want to say to all the women in the world, I hope you will cherish yourselves and not be deceived by the sweet words of men. Safety measures must be done well, don't ruin your life, and the life of a small life. A child should come into the world with love, not an accident. Some women want to use children to keep a man's heart, I think this is a very stupid approach, he is a life, not a tool for you to use. ”

Interviewer: "When do you think it's the best time to have a baby?" ”

Yang Sumei: "I think you have to get married before you have children, not because you are pregnant with a child. When the couple really wants a child, he will be born with love rather than a burden, and he is not the object of your venting. The most important thing is that I think you need to have enough financial support, if you are married now, but you also want to have children, but you are not financially well-off, I advise you to wait a few more years. If you are not confident enough to make him drink safe milk powder, wear beautiful clothes, have toys he likes, and receive a good education, then don't bring him into this world, he is not obliged to suffer with you in his lifetime. ”

Hostess: "At what age do you think it is most appropriate to get married?" ”

Yang Sumei: "I think it can't be too early or too late, 28-30 years old should be good." It's too early, your mind is not mature, and you are still a child, how can you take another child well? When you see that your peers are living a chic life, but you are tired with your children and become a yellow-faced woman, you will regret it, you will complain, you will be angry, and you will sprinkle your anger on the child's body. There is nothing wrong with a child in the first place, it was you who brought him into this world on your own initiative, why did you punch and kick him? Whenever you are pleased, please treat him well, he does not have the right to choose his parents, since he has become your child, you must cherish this fate. ”