There's a saying I've always wanted to tell you

Something new happened in the village, Zhang Laohan's son, daughter, and son-in-law sued Zhang Laohan in court.

(Note 1: This is not the first new thing, the first new thing is that my father wrote a big-character poster to the three of us a few days ago, scolding us for being unfilial, scolding us for being brutes, and pasting the big-character poster on the blackboard of the village's electricity bulletin board.)

We also have children and daughters, I also have grandchildren this year, and my sister's daughter has just been engaged to the only son of the village party secretary, so how do we behave in front of our children and villagers?

Dad's behavior is a great harm to the three of us. For several days, we saw the villagers gather in front of the big-character posters to point fingers and accusations against us, and we felt as if we had been stripped naked in public.

In order to maintain the dignity of being children, the three of us joined together, and then my brother-in-law drafted the complaint and submitted it to the civil division of the court) The court accepted the case.

On the day of the trial, Zhang Laohan cried in the courtroom, and the hard old tears rolled down his wrinkled face, and there was a sound on the ground.

He trembled and said, I can't help myself! I am a lonely old man, with children and daughters, and I am still a lonely old man.

These unfilial sons and daughters don't care about me at all, they have a black heart! Don't give me money to spend, and don't give me wine to drink, especially the widow He who has been wanting to marry the hotel in the west of the village all these years, they just won't let me.

I couldn't help it, so I posted a big-character poster. (Note 2: No, what Dad said is not right!) It's not that we're not disobedient.

To be honest, my father is so old that he is lonely and panicked. But he just can't be hurt. Every month, my brother and I gave him a share, and he poured it well, and we both took it and drank it.

He was often carried home by the hotel guys, and when he came back, he fell asleep and was fine, and when he couldn't sleep, he scolded the street, drunk crazy, and smashed the guys.

I'm not afraid of everyone's jokes when I say it, he once took the money I gave him to go to the hair washing room***.

is so old that a village of people laughs and loses their big teeth. He tossed so much, the money he gave was naturally not enough, and we were all small croppers, people who were digging in the soil, and our children were still in school, so how could we have so much money for him.

If you don't give it to him, you will make trouble and scold. Alas, children also understand their father, he is irritable! Dad's love of drinking and losing his temper was contracted after his mother's death, but my father was not like this before.

It's not that we don't want to find him another wife, and we have found it. I found two of them and let him run away. He said that he only needs two women in his life, one is his mother, and the other is Widow He in the west of the village.

Yes, the hotel where my father often went to drink was opened by Widow He in the early years, and Dad and Widow He also had some gossip about their mother behind their backs.

But Widow He died of lung cancer a few years ago, and the hotel was also given to someone else. After Widow He died, his father went to the hotel every once in a while, and shouted that he wanted to marry Widow He after drinking too much.

We persuaded him that the widow died, and he said that if he didn't die, how could a good person die? You won't let me marry her.

Alas, Father, what shall you say that we should make children? In court, Mr. Zhang's children and son-in-law asked the court to order the father to apologize to them and compensate them for certain mental damages.

Zhang Laohan was anxious when he heard it, what? I'm a dad or you are a dad, Xu Dad can't live with his son, and he can't let his son live with his father!

Is it easy for me to give birth to you and raise you? I don't have any money, and I don't apologize, see what you can do to me this old man?

(Note 3: If you want me to say that it's okay not to lose money, it's okay not to apologize.) We can't do anything to you, but the law can do to you!

The law, do you understand it? Now that this society has progressed, ***** and that set again, or even the feudal patriarchal system, can't eat it.

Supposedly, I shouldn't have participated in the opinion, but I've been a son-in-law all these years! My wife and I are from the same village, and it is really not a good thing to marry a daughter-in-law from a village.

If you are close to each other, you will manage a lot, and you will have to mix up the shortcomings and big things in your parents. Mixed up a lot, when you meet an old man who understands his personal feelings, you will be aggrieved when you meet an old man like Lao Zhangtou!

Let's not talk about anything else, let's just say that he went to the shampoo room***, let the police station arrest him! People were fined, and the child's uncle was ashamed, and it was my wife who urged me to go to the police station to pay the money.

The police station chief and I were classmates, and he asked who I was. I said it was the child...... He...... Grandfather.

When I said this, my face was so red that I was sunburned by the poisonous sun in the countryside. When I got to the street, I quickly hailed a taxi and pulled him home.

Where to find a son-in-law like me? Later, it was my idea to give him less money, restrict him from going out more, and let him stay at home if he had nothing to do.

I also told the child's uncle that he told the hotel that we would not pay the bill if we drank again. Now the hotel won't let him drink.

No, even I was scolded when it came, do you say that people are angry or not? After investigating and collecting evidence, the court ruled in accordance with the law that Zhang Laohan publicly apologized in writing to his children at the bulletin board where he posted big-character posters, and that the plaintiff should bear 80 yuan and the defendant should bear 220 yuan for the 300 yuan fee for accepting the lawsuit.

On the third day after the verdict, Zhang Laohan was accompanied by the village party secretary and posted another big-character poster, apologizing to his children!

(Note 4: Actually, we don't need my father to lose money, and we don't have to pay for the lawsuit, but we want to ask for an explanation and earn some face in front of the villagers.)

After the lawsuit ended, we knew that my father was very sad. So, on the night of my father's apology, the three of us bought a few vegetables, brought two bottles of wine, and called the village cadres to come to my father's house.

As soon as we entered the door, we knelt down for our father, and we said, Dad, there is a saying that I have always wanted to tell you, it is not easy for an old man, and it is not easy to be a child!