[Essay] 68: A few thoughts on forced marriage during the Chinese New Year

Introduction: It is said that it is good to be at home for a thousand days, and it is difficult to go out, but now it can be said that it is good to go out for a hundred days, and it is difficult to be at home.

Don't explain, the forced marriage mode & street rat mode have been turned on...... Insight 1: In the past 20 years, I have learned more about a truth: human nature is cheap.

I find more and more that the more unsatisfactory people are in the world of bitterness, the more they like to meddle in other people's lives and ask about other people's lives

"Three major problems", snickering and pressing on others

"Five mountains", sarcastically squeezing out, and commenting on the head of the way, but forgetting the truth that he himself is still vaguely good.

There are two ways to grow up in this world: one is to understand; One is to forget that you can't understand it, and you have no worries in your heart.

Too many people have grown up in the latter way, but they have not forgotten more and more, and their lives have become more and more emaciated.

In fact, life can be very happy, as long as you live your life more, do what you like and love the people you like; But life can also be miserable, because people love to compare with outsiders too much, and they are more faceless and find thousands of troubles for themselves, but they don't find that people should compare with themselves, and they are their opponents.

Perception 2: Life has just begun, I have encountered so many embarrassing things, in this embarrassing age, only by pleasing the elders and pleasing others can we live a little satisfactorily, but the problem is that every parent, each other, each stage, each idea is different, so pleasing has finally become their most innocent ordeal!

Some people have no reason at all, because their reason is money, but the sad thing is that they have no money, so they have no reason at all.

At this embarrassing age, there is more and more generation gap and invisible distance between me and my relatives, and my friends are becoming strangers with time, and I don't know where the other half of my life can accompany me, and I suddenly find that I am just lonely!

Hey, in fact, I'm not afraid that life is short, I'm afraid of unpredictable people's hearts, but the more I'm afraid of something, I'm getting closer and closer, and I want to see it but it's hard to see it.

Perception 3: Blind date is a very ordinary trivial matter, and what is hidden behind the blind date is the most worthy of scrutiny.

Blind dates are sometimes very shocking, not that they only hit people when they fail, in fact, they are already very shocking at the beginning, because you will find that in the eyes of your closest relatives, you should be that kind of person instead of what you were originally, which will make you feel that you have been this impression in the eyes of your closest relatives for so many years, of course, it is the impression that the assessment is the most wrong but to tell you that this is the most suitable for your other half, and finally you suddenly discover: Oh, it turns out that the so-called best is a woman, alive, and will run home when it rains. What about the good Wenwen quietly, and the good little jasper, where is the integrity?

Perception 4: "Fate" is the most detailed in the red dust, and it is not only inseparable

"Temperament", there happens to be one

"Suitable". Too often, what is forced is not necessarily the best, and what goes with the flow is not necessarily the worst, and after a hundred turns and thousands of turns, I suddenly look back when I just met the person who is the most popular, this is like turning off the faucet when using water, sometimes the force is too hard and too fierce, but it will be more and more screwed and leaked, at this time, if you use just the right strength to card to the right position, the gap with the splash of water is just stopped, just like Wang Ba on the mung bean, the scale rod meets the iron, the eye is right, the nature is the most wonderful, this is

The power of "suitable", perhaps only the right thing can stand the test and tribulation of time!

Postscript: Perhaps, love is not a vigorous sea and a rotten love, but after the dispute over firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, it is still inseparable, this bland moment may be the most accessible moment of love.

Ah, let me experience it sooner, wodegod!