07: Have you ever had a youth?
Have you ever had youth? This sentence suddenly touched me like a joke, how can people not have youth, but when I pondered it carefully, I deeply realized that there are indeed many people who do not have their own youth.
Although most people keep saying that their youth is long gone, but in fact your youth is still there, just when you think that you have lost your youth on the road of wasted youth, and you are at ease, in fact, life is in the world, like falling flowers and flowing water, rushing away, life is just like this, and youth is the most precious time in your own life, if you waste your time, waste your own most beautiful age, Then you have nothing to be proud of in your whole life, and I am talking about the time in your life, not the things outside of your body.
In fact, there are many people who are not without youth, but you yourself have made your heart old. Why is your heart old, why are you not more and more mentally detached, but no blood, no passion, and your heart is old!
Because everyone's heart is like a door, at first your heart is just passing through some of your own mood information, but one day you suddenly come in a lot of mood and information that does not belong to you, your heart door is so big, you can't get in and out, you can't get out, so you lose yourself, lose your mind, and become no longer you, are you doing something wrong!
However, if you don't reflect on your actions, maybe you don't have your own heart at all! Even you boast that you see through the world with a cold eye, but in fact, it is not you who sees through the most, you are a beggar!
But you are still addicted to it, but you don't realize that this is not the real you at all, or rather, this is not the original you.
Actually, this is the biggest and stupidest mistake you have ever done in your life, because it doesn't belong to you at all, it's just a knot that you have unintentionally set for yourself, and you have been sinking into this fallacy and being complacent, and you are missing out on your own youth.
I don't know when it began, everyone is busy understanding life, it seems to be a very enviable, jealous and hateful thing, a kind of lofty behavior.
But now it seems that premature realization is a chronic disease and a kind of mental harm. I think that at the beginning, many people just saw the brilliance of this understanding, the uniqueness and greatness of the understanding, but gradually forgot your original intention.
Maybe your original intention is just to make the composition a little more affectionate and touching, and the original intention is good, but most people are getting farther and farther away from youth, and with the faint flow of time, there are many people who can no longer get out.
In fact, the perception is like the immortal fate with the intention of becoming an immortal, once it starts, it can never go back, but there are many people who really come from the heart to understand?
In other words, is this really a personal experience of your personal experience? How many people have been indulging in other people's stories, imagining that you are the protagonist in it, and then the perception comes out, in fact, this is just the author's perception, and you are just a bystander.
Have you ever had a personal impression? Have you ever been in a relationship, have you ever been in a long-distance relationship, have you been caught sneaking over the wall of the school in the middle of the night, have you ever done something for a girl?
Have you ever held a girl's hand and your heart was racing, have you ever taken a girl with her arms on a bicycle?
If you think that you have no money or room to fall in love now, you are very rational, but you have no youth, don't you feel very sorry?
Perhaps love is the most important indicator in the world of youth, because most people in their old age can still remember the most memorable may only be their love, so love is the most memorable and easy to regret among all emotions.
In fact, love doesn't have to be together, it's good to have it. And the most regrettable thing in life is not that you didn't end up together, but that you didn't say a word to the girl you liked
"I've liked you for a long time, be my girlfriend!" 's affectionate confession, maybe the person you like is also waiting for you to confess first!
But you don't seem to have taken the initiative in your youth world, and of course there's nothing memorable, at most, remember that you once had a crush on so-and-so!
Have you ever had youth? In fact, your youth is now, just in your present, you have been indulging in its arms, thinking that it has long left you, in fact, it has always been by your side looking at you distressedly, watching you feel helpless about its melancholy, it is also deeply annoyed, it can't help you, only you can get out of this misty youth world, to find your own youthful beauty, to find your own love, to start your own unique experience, to be the only yourself, Go start your own legend.
Grasp the present, because now you have not been you, but a "pseudo-thinker" who has been mixed together by various thoughts, don't hurt your soul anymore, don't make your own heart old, and don't miss the beautiful love in your life, because maybe this is the youth you originally expected!
Have you ever had your own youth?