There are many people who "can" see through life, but many of them are fake and candid, with their mouths out and their hearts are weak, and people who don't "say" through life often see through many of them, with weak mouths and tough hearts. Life is an ascetic practice of suffering, you think you are miserable, but you don't know that there are many people who are 10,000 times worse than you, in the final analysis, this is all people who are in the blessing and do not know the blessing to force too much, too eager for quick success, and fantasize about one step to the sky, people are lazy creatures.

In fact, everyone has the psychology of the monkey king and the psychology of revenge, and love tends to be jealous, envious and even the extreme pathological psychology of "what I can't get will be destroyed", as long as it is left in vain, it can explode. Many people take "themselves" too seriously, always thinking that there is no one in the world who can compare with them except himself, this kind of "self" mind blinds his eyes, making it difficult for him to see his humility and ugliness, and these people will often be proud of some inconspicuous small achievements, complacent, empty-eyed, immersed in it, more and more unable to do it themselves, as if they can achieve success at their fingertips. Although people who have no personal experience can not comment casually, but can talk about the feeling after viewing, talk about personal experience, in fact, these people deliberately put the "masterpiece" out, they should accept the wind and rain, so that the seven-color rainbow can be seen, but they lack a broad mind, once they encounter a little unsatisfactory began to comfort themselves, always think that others do not understand appreciation, did not meet Bole, in fact, there are indeed many mistakes, blunt, mechanization is particularly obvious.

Life is an ascetic practice of suffering.

Perhaps "growth" is to learn to accept the truth that you are an ordinary person, to learn to look down on the divisions and integrations in life, to learn to bear the unbearable "weight" in life, to learn to smile lightly from the sad face, to learn to accept everything that is unacceptable, and to learn to start towards tomorrow until you die. Although there are only 30,000 hours available in this life, it is valuable, the days are beautiful and fulfilling, the years are safe and quiet, and this life is not wasted, and there is no life in vain; But the reality is such a scene: there is a job, and I start to compare wages; has a daughter-in-law, and she is starting to be better than Jiao; has children, and begins to be more cute; The child goes to school and starts to be better than the school... Continuing the parenting model and education model of the fathers, it began to normalize, began to reincarnate, began to be aimless, and began to compare endlessly.

We all know that money is a good thing, and we are all chasing fame and fortune, but there are naïve people who have these external things, but they have become selfish, have no gratitude, and their hearts are no longer hot. Think about the time when I had nothing, I easily made a lot of promises in the world of love, and whether it was realistic or not, they were all sincere, but there was no promise about "children and parents" traveling together; Look at the gradually bulging pockets now, and begin to understand that material is the foundation of life and the beam of love, but there is still no reality of "children and parents" walking together, just like they are gradually faded out, although they keep saying that they are grateful and grateful, in fact, they do forget them. But are we qualified? Is it enough to ignore them? Are you qualified to criticize them? Are you qualified not to accompany them? There may be many, many excuses, but in the final analysis, it's not that you don't have money, you don't want to spend it on your parents, you don't want to spend it on your parents if you have time, you give it to your daughter-in-law, you give it to your mother-in-law, you give it to your new home, and you have already melted selfishness into your bones.

Life is just a process of self-redemption, and although it will hurt, it will be happy.

Many men and women who have lost their hearts, their hearts of gratitude, their hearts of right and wrong, and their hearts of good and evil, eat every inch of their parents' skin, every penny of money, and devour them alive, regardless of life and death. Think about this life, what your parents give, think about the prosperity of this life, spend your parents' money, eat your parents' food, and use everything your parents' hard money to buy, it is so natural. Buying a house, buying a car, and bride price money are all arranged by the parents, and at this time they began to be "filial" to their parents, but their parents are not ATMs, how can they easily get so much money, most of them are borrowed, and the parents go to pay it back. I have seen and experienced the warmth and coldness of the people in this world, such as the sincerity and kindness of good people, the hypocrisy and hypocrisy of negative people, as well as the deeds of different people and the constant fraud and deception, only to find that life is just a process of self-redemption, although it will be painful, but it will be happy.

Postscript: The work of graffiti by unintentional people, talk about self-redemption, do not sit in the right seat, written on October 20, 2015 in Fuyang City.