When it comes to marriage, on the one hand, it is indeed because of that person, and on the other hand, it is because of family reasons.

Speaking of which, she is so big, in fact, she has lacked love since she was a child, and when she was a child, she was still accountant and longing, and then after a long time, she didn't need these.

Especially now, she can do everything, and she can have enough food and clothing, so why make do with another person and quarrel all day long over trivial matters in life? And she was already very busy, on the one hand, because of the opening of the store, and more importantly, because of her dreams.

If she doesn't want to give up, it means that she has to spend more time on her dreams, so that she doesn't actually have much time to talk about feelings, and she knows that this is also unacceptable to many people of the opposite sex.

Even if you say you're busy, you can't say that you don't have time to eat, watch movies with you, or go for a walk, but that's how she is.

She herself knows very well that if she wants to realize her dreams, she must put love aside, and if she wants to talk about love, she must give up her dreams.

didn't say that you can have both, unless the person who is with you is very considerate of you, even if you say you don't have time, he doesn't care, anyway, he can come to accompany you, even if he doesn't say a word to you, just by your side, he will feel happy.

However, the question is, is there such a person?

Even if there is, it is hard to find.

So, since it is difficult to meet such a person, since you feel that your dreams are more important than everything, why should you compromise, is it just to get married?

No, for her, in this life, it doesn't matter whether she gets married or not, realizing her dreams and freedom is far more important than that.

Looking at the message Xiaomin sent her, she replied directly, "I'm not interested." ”

Xiaomin took a while before sending a long text, "Shiya, I think you are too lonely alone, you should find someone to accompany you." I know that you can live a good life alone, but people live in groups, one person will be lonely, no one will take care of you when you are sick, no one will accompany you when you watch movies or go shopping, you will have no appetite for eating, you will still be alone when you are cold, even if you are old, you may be alone, but two people are different, you can be companions, and you can share joys, sorrows, and sorrows. ”

Shiya bent her lips, remembering the blind date she had seen, and the two times they met would be settled, and what did she say about living with her parents after getting married, and taking care of her parents together, or saying that she didn't want her to be too busy, and hoped that she could spend more time and energy at home......

In short, I just think that women, it's good to take care of the family, and talk about what work ideals.

Perhaps, it is true that for many women, they need marriage and family, because they are afraid of loneliness, because they want to relieve the pressure of life, for various reasons, they will embark on the road of marriage.

But whether this road will be happy or not, whether they want it, I'm afraid that when they go up, they will really experience it.

In fact, today's society is very different from the past, and marriage is no longer the only one.

Some people need marriage, some people want to get married, but some people are not suitable for marriage, and some people feel that being alone is also very good.

It's not that people have to get married, but if a person can live well, marriage becomes insignificant.

She said, "Some people are suitable for marriage, some people are not, maybe most people will go on the road of marriage, but she is not suitable, I think dreams may be more important to me." ”

Chen Mo was waiting for the traffic light, and received a WeChat message, "Did you say that Xiaomin was too boring because Xining was not there, and you actually wanted to introduce me to a blind date, don't you care about the big boss?" ”

He was still thinking about what she said, but at this moment, his heart fluttered slightly, and after a glance at the green light, he directly sent a voice, "I'll talk about her when I go back, if she harasses you again, you tell me, and I'll be angry for you." ”

Shiya remembered that he would turn on the phone tomorrow, and he would be very busy in the afternoon, so he didn't reply immediately, worried about disturbing him, until he saw that he had posted a circle of friends, and then he replied, "Don't worry, I also learned to hug my thighs this time." ”

This time, Chen Mo didn't come back, thinking that he was busy.

Not long after, Xiaomin sent her another message.

This time, I posted a few photos, and it was accompanied by content, how old is so-and-so, how tall is so-and-so, how much weight is there, hobbies, etc.

Shiya's head was full of black lines, this woman was real, she sent a message to Chen Mo very seriously, "Xiaomin sent me a few photos, it looks like she is real." ”

Chen Mo had just arrived at the hotel where Xining was located, ready to talk to everyone about tomorrow's boot situation, when Li Yan was still talking about precautions, Chen Mo felt his mobile phone vibrate a few times.

He frowned, took out his mobile phone, looked at it, and said to Xining on the side, "I'll go out first." ”

Xining raised an eyebrow, glanced at his expression, then nodded and watched him walk out.

Chen Mo's face softened, he walked out with his lips slightly raised, standing in the aisle, he glanced at his mobile phone, and replied, "The people she knows are all high-quality people, if you are interested, you can consider it." ”

In fact, he deliberately probed her tone and wanted to know her mind.

Shiya blew a few strands of broken hair in front of her forehead, and said, "Is it sinful to be single?" You're not single, let's be half-pounded. ”

After she finished posting, she thought about it, and then continued, "I haven't thought about such a question yet......"

At this time, Xining looked over and signaled that he was going to speak now, Chen Mo bent his lips and walked in without replying.

Seeing that he didn't reply, Shiya sent another sentence, "Take care of her, you have to introduce me, just a few want to add me, all of them are remarked that Xiaomin introduced me, what do you say I should do?" ”

"She's still bombing in turns, asking me why I don't add others."

"When I get back to Jiangcheng, I want to ...... Will I end up with her, if this continues, I think I must be scared of marriage by her. ”

"Okay, you get busy first...... I blocked her. ”

"Is it okay for me to block her? When she gets angry, you'll have to help......"

"Xiaomin must want to be a matchmaker, you should change her job."

After Chen Mo finished speaking, he had the opportunity to take out his mobile phone, and when he saw the message sent by Shiya, the curvature of the corners of his lips became a few degrees larger, "If you are not interested, just refuse her." ”

He replied to this message very confidently, forgetting that Xiaomin was for him.

"If I refuse directly, will she not see me directly next time?"

As soon as Chen Mo was thinking about whether to send a message to Xiaomin, he saw Shiya's message come again, "By the way, if you need me to come forward later, please contact me at any time." ”

"It's okay, the effect today is very good, and you have a lot of credit."

Shiya thought about the morning press conference, took out the computer, thought about it, and sent a text, "Life in the world, is not able to withstand any calculations, people come and go, this is a process that everyone will go through, trees will produce annual rings, people will have wrinkles, if you know that the first time you meet, it will be the longest goodbye, is it at the beginning, should you not leave regrets?"

Perhaps, always in regret, will understand that it is not difficult to meet the right person, but it is rare to meet someone who is tempting.

I don't want to settle for the next best, because there was a coincidence.

May everyone encounter a coincidence, not the helplessness of retreating. ”