Later in the game, I began to realize more and more that one of the key reasons why many partners can't effectively break through the recommendation is that they have too little "ammunition" in their heads. After listening to too many "if there are similarities, it is purely accidental" lessons, it is not surprising that their minds are full of beautiful road experiences that make people shy away. Think about yourself, in the first few years of the first few years of Meilu, didn't you also hold the red treasure book every day and read the Meilu Sutra in your mouth? Fortunately, I am still a reader, I also love to think, the cultural heritage is not shallow, the bumpy life in front of the American road has given me too many life insights, once integrated into a city, it is also handy to be strange, so I slowly began to understand the true meaning of "Meilu Kung Fu Meilu".

Since I returned to Tianjin in September 2006, I have rarely explained to the team those classic courses in the beauty road, in addition to nutrition and beauty, the most talked about is life, I hope to inspire them with wisdom in their hearts, bit by bit to precipitate themselves. Whenever a partner asks me how to improve my communication skills, I advise them to read more books, read more, listen more, think more, and talk more. Among the recommended books, the first is history books, because history will not repeat itself, but the laws of history will reappear again and again, read history, understand human nature, you can find the internal laws of the development of things, you can predict the future, and the wisdom of life is contained in history; The second type of book to read is celebrity biographies, although you can never replicate the family environment, educational experience, growth process and even the background of the times, nor can you copy their success, but you can understand the shining characteristics of those characters, we call that the characteristics of successful people. Meilu people always like to say, "You can do it, I can do it, I can do it, you can do it!" It's really funny.

I remember that on the evening of October 11, 2001, I listened to Meilu's class for the first time at the family gathering of Director Pan of Tianjin Heiniucheng Dao Pan (1995 Lao Meilu, now Jade), and talked about the characteristics of successful people. The traits that are still fresh in my memory are: the dream of success, the belief of success, the environment of success, the desire to succeed, the mentality of the boss, the plan of the female secretary, the action of the younger brother, the belief in the company, the product, the team, the leader, the belief in yourself, everything must make way for the United States...... Slowly, I began to have my own understanding, and I have explained countless times on the stage that to succeed, you must have: strong desire, advanced vision, clear goals, super action, able to endure hardships, independent and sound personality, tenacious beliefs, correct attitude, courage to change, emotional intelligence management, noble help, and a successful environment. For seven years, I have been adhering to these 12 rules and cultivating myself bit by bit, however, I finally found that to succeed, especially to succeed in the United States, there is the last and most critical one, and I finally have an insurmountable obstacle here, that is, I can never be "ruthless"!

As the old saying goes, "Compassion is not in charge of soldiers, righteousness is not financial management", and this saying has been most effectively fulfilled in the United States. Ruthlessness is the primary trait of Meilu's success, which is called "sense of purpose" - for the sake of the goal can be done at any cost. Zhu Ansheng of Nanchang was last year's new branch jade, and he finally went on the "Heart Counsel" in high spirits, he can completely ignore that 2 of the 3 DD legs are college students, and he can completely ignore that they abandoned their studies, deceived their parents for the money, used tuition fees to start, and even dropped out of school honorably for this great cause...... Teacher Yang will openly advocate buying the silver medal at the beginning of the month, and Yan Zuan will instigate his partner to borrow money to hire him with white lies, and I will never be able to do such a thing.

I don't deny that a few people have succeeded, I don't deny that a few people have made money, and I won't even deny that a few people have gained the kind of freedom and security that Meilu calls it, but how many people have "died" along the way? How many joys and sorrows are there in the world? How many stories? One will be a success!

In traditional industries, although the vast majority of wage earners cannot achieve the so-called success, they can at least obtain a minimum of living conditions, and can slowly buy a car, buy a house, and get married. But what about the vast majority of American passers? I didn't earn as much as I spent, day after day, year after year, and the blood dried up little by little. A good leader simply understands that you can't kill chickens and take their eggs, dry up and catch fish, and the blood of the people below you will flow more slowly and comfortably. In this regard, Meilu is even darker, a ruthless reality of cannibalism without even spitting out bones.

The second generation of diamond "Phantom Jiangnan" children's shoes once said: "I did not participate in the diamond overseas tour, that is the link I am missing, if that, I may not be able to reverse the beauty of the road." There may be some truth in his words, but in fact, what I am missing is not only this link? Perhaps because of this, I can see the humble existence of more low-level American passers-by, and I can also have independent self and thinking more clearly. I can still get rid of it and avoid ruining my life, maybe it's my luck.

In fact, if I hadn't missed these links, I might have to reflect for a longer time, but with my temperament, I would have finally walked out of the beautiful road. I could never have cultivated to the point where I killed people without blinking, and I deceived myself into thinking that I was helping others help themselves, so I gave up. My heart is not "ruthless" enough, which dooms me to become the so-called "corpse" of the American passers-by is just a matter of time, early "death" and early superbirth!

The remnant is king! The king must be left, but what is left is not necessarily the king, and it is more likely that he is the living dead. The logic of the Meilu people is always simple, clear and clear, because it is easy and easy to copy in this way, and the world is too complicated.

Once, I thought I was a thousand-mile horse, but in the end, I finally became an old hen that laid eggs, and now, I was finally stewed in the pot by the American passers-by. A few days ago in Suzhou, I met the legendary Wang Zuan, and I still admired his eloquence, logic, heritage and even some aspects of his character. And one of his comments on me is that he is too kind, how can there be immortals in war? He's right, but he's not right. People can "die", but the key is whether it is worth it, whether it is worth it to deceive more than 40 million people into unnecessary sacrifices for the sake of the interests, freedom, success or dreams of a few people? Can their money, youth, mentality, and even the happiness of their lives really be so coldly written off with such a simple phrase as "the leftover is king"?

In fact, any so-called success in MLM is meaningless, in the development of MLM in the past 100 years, it has always been a world of cannibalism, but now the way of eating is becoming more and more civilized and more hidden. Never trust those so-called successful people, because they really have only one secret: eat you! But how can these be put on the table? So I don't know what to do, and there is the so-called "success learning"!

In the United States, few leaders can finally achieve mental maturity, and some have achieved performance, but their minds have never been. Now, at last, I am beginning to understand what spiritual growth is all about. There is a story, roughly saying that in ancient times, two generals each had thousands of warriors, the former regarded the three armies as a tool for attacking the city, and the latter regarded them as people with families and independent flesh and blood, which general was more mature? Some things are well known, and the so-called "mercy does not command the soldiers" means this. In Meilu, being a general means that you shouldn't care too much about individuals, and "the leftover is king" is to treat the majority of Meilu people as ants. Being a general or an ant may not be the best choice, and people like me don't deserve to be "successful", especially in Meilu! If you choose, you should still be a wise man, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the hall, and watch the clouds rolling in the sky......