Even when I was traveling, I never came to Nanchang, and I never thought that I would meet the true love of my life in this city. If it weren't for the enthusiasm and extra efforts in Tianjin many years ago, there would be no Jiangxi market today, and there would not be Nanchang today, let alone the many opportunities later. If it weren't for all this, I would be just a hurried passer-by in this strange city, and there seems to be a providence in the dark to give the weary traveler a spiritual harbor.

Among my many front rows, Circle Mom is quite a special one, and the last one in my career in the United States. Before joining Meilu, Huanhuan Ma was the HR assistant in my company. July 22, 2008 was the day she officially joined Meilu, and two weeks later, I fell into a long-term thought about Meilu; Two months later, my mother accompanied me to the center for the last time, and since then I have officially bid farewell to Meilu...... Circle Mom witnessed my last farewell to Meilu, she only participated in the Chenggong Ridge in Foshan at the end of June once, and I woke up completely from my dream before I had time to stock up and start. Of all my front rows, Circle Mom was the one who didn't know much about Meilu, she was a newcomer at the time, and she is still a ......

On the evening of July 12, 2008, after the end of the Chenggong Ridge in Tanzikou, Nanchang, at the Karumbi Coffee in Hengmao Plaza, Huanhuan's mother officially became my girlfriend, at that time, she did not know what diamonds meant in Meilu. When I held her hand tightly and gazed affectionately, she only made one request to me - to take her out of Jiangxi! Before I started the pursuit of my mother, I asked her to go to Xianghu Lake to help me with a 55-square-meter house, and I was so eager to have a home and no longer have to wander around the world...... My mother liked the house very much, although she didn't know at the time what I really wanted to do with her. The next day, I bought the house...... Later, I was exiled to Suzhou. In 2009, she came to see me on May Day, and she almost immediately fell in love with the vibrant city, and I said, "Then let's settle here!" "Three months later, she quit her job, and I drove my new car to the station to pick her up...... The new car is red, almost every car I have ever bought is red - I remember the first time I participated in the Chenggong Ridge in Tianjin in 2000, Mr. Chen, who was still a double diamond, waved his fist on the stage and told the audience that if you buy a car, you will buy red, Ferrari's red...... In this way, we settled in this Jiangnan water town with a heavenly reputation, and it is a happy thing to be able to grow old slowly with the people we like in a favorite city.

Because of love, the city is no longer strange, walking through the streets, no one will be lonely in a foreign land, and the heart is always full of hope and happiness. Suzhou, in my entire travel career, is just a symbol on the map, or a piece of text on the team itinerary, but today, Suzhou is a home, where there is love, there will be a home, because Suzhou has love!

In my bones, I am a compassionate person, and almost all my emotional experiences bear the mark of destroying myself, so my mother is very suitable for me. She is clever, playful, empathetic, and a little domineering from time to time, and at home, she is also a little strong little leader, and she is finally a little drizzle, and it is no longer always a sudden rain, and the building will fall ...... At the end of the year, we will go to the certificate, maybe next year will be officially wined, and in the future, our baby will also be born. The child's big name is Xiao Fei, and the nickname is Quanquan - Quanquan's mother, because she always laughs at me and keeps spitting smoke rings, which is the origin of Xiaofei Quanquan and Quanquan's mother. Even our BYD FO was officially named the hoop car by the circle mother - our family always has a lot of hoops, including the newly bought hoops (diamond rings) in her hands...... The circle mother in life is always so naughty and cute, she can always come up with new terms like "sweet text message" or "love soup...... She is like the fresh air everywhere after the rain, moistening my tired heart.

My mother always blames me for not writing love letters to her, in fact, when a person is happy, he often can't write anything. Perhaps only pain can make people think about the meaning of life. That's why Socrates said with deep understanding: "Be sure to get married, marry a good woman, and you will be happy; Marry a bad woman and you will become a philosopher. "I think I have to thank Yahan and the "career" she brought me called Meilu.

Plato once asked his teacher Socrates what love was. So Socrates told Plato to go to the wheat field to pick the biggest and best ear of wheat, but he could only pick one and could not go back. Socrates asked him why, and Plato explained that he had seen many large and good ears of wheat in the wheat field, but he thought that he would meet bigger and better ones later, so he walked until he got out of the wheat field and could not pick a single ear of wheat. So Socrates told Plato: "This is love!" ”

Plato asked the teacher again what is marriage? Socrates told him to go to the cedar grove once again, without looking back, and on the way to choose the best fir tree to be the Christmas tree, but only once. With the lesson of the previous time, Plato went out with confidence. Half a day later, he tiredly dragged a straight, verdant but somewhat sparse cedar tree. Socrates asked, "Is this the best tree?" Plato replied, "I finally saw a tree that seemed good, but I found that the time and physical strength were no longer enough, and whether it was the best or not, I took it back." So Socrates told him, "This is marriage!" ”

Plato asked the teacher again what an affair is? Socrates told him to go to the woods once, this time to go back and forth, picking the most beautiful flower on the way. Plato went out again with confidence, and after two hours he brought back a brightly colored but slightly wilted flower. Socrates asked, "Is this the best flower?" Plato replied, "I searched for two hours, and found that it was the most beautiful flower in full bloom, but on the way I picked it and brought it back, it gradually withered." So Socrates told him, "This is an affair!" ”

Another day, Plato asked his teacher Socrates what was life? Socrates told him to go to the woods once, to walk back and forth, and to pick the most beautiful flower on the way. With the lessons of the past, Plato set out with confidence. After three days and three nights, when he had not returned, Socrates went into the woods to look for him, and at last he found that Plato had set up camp in the woods. Socrates asked him, "Have you found the most beautiful flower?" Plato pointed to a flower next to him and said, "This is the most beautiful flower." Socrates asked, "Then why don't you bring it back?" Plato replied, "If I take it off, it will wither immediately." So while it's still in full bloom, I live next to it, and when it's withering, I'll look for the next one. This is already the second most beautiful flower I have found. Then Socrates told him, "You have learned the true meaning of life." ”

A person's life is like walking in a wheat field, looking for the biggest and best ear. Some people lose no time in plucking the ears when they see a plump ear, while others look around and miss the opportunity again and again. Socrates' ear of wheat is not objectively the largest or best ear of wheat, but for an individual, the biggest and best that can be picked is to lose no time in plucking it and hold on to it to the end. At the end of the wheat field, you will find that you are having that love. There are too many temptations in the real world, and the better people are, the more so they want to find the biggest, best ears of wheat, only to end up with empty hands – for those who want to find the other half of their lives, this is irresponsible to others and to themselves. There is only one true love, but it is not a simple allocation of time.

We all used to want to find the biggest, best ears of wheat, but now we find that we miss many opportunities. Love may be like an ear of wheat, maybe it is like waiting for a bus, and the direct arrival to the destination is delayed, but some are very close to the destination, but you have to persist in waiting again and again. If you can, get in the car! There is no uniform standard for love for everyone. Love is only personal...... Love.

Now, with my mother, I am very happy, except because survival is always separated by the end of the world...... In the years just after leaving Meilu, it was the circle mother who soothed the wounds in my heart little by little and accompanied me through those difficult days. Perhaps, my life will continue to drift, just like my name, but I prefer to be a kite, no matter how high and far it flies, the end of the line is always tightly held in the hands of the person I love - stay for love, exist for love!

And all my efforts now are to be able to reunite with my mother in Suzhou again...... I'm about to enter a new phase in my life, after the dust settles on this memory. Maybe in the near future will also start a business, although there is nothing at the beginning, and the future is not yet known, but the road always has to go on, not to mention, there is a happiness, not far away, worth cherishing......

Plato feared the pain of loss, so he stayed with the most beautiful flower for the rest of his life, so that he would not watch it slowly wither in his own hands. If you don't pick it off with your own hands, even if it withers, at least the roots are there. I think that the most beautiful flower in the world is not far away, nor in the end of the world, but right next to us!

Cherish the people in front of you, cherish the ...... you still have in your hands The scenery in the distance is beautiful enough to take a look, but don't take it too seriously. In fact, what about a career? After all, we are no longer children, and we can no longer squander our youth at will, especially after all the twists and turns of life.

From now on, let's end the so-called pursuit of fame and fortune, for the sake of the circle mother, and for the last tenderness in this night!