"Therefore, romance is something that is used to verify love, warm love, embellish love, and enjoy love."

"Dad......" Hearing this, Su Qingyu glanced at Ning Danfeng in the distance: "So, do you think it is impossible for me and Danfeng to have love?" ”

"Son, if love is so simple, it is impossible to become a topic that has not been old for thousands of years, whether you and Ning Yatou have a fate, whether there will be love, it is not who has the final say, if one day, you suddenly find that a new feeling - no action, no words, a new feeling spontaneously in the heart, you can produce love, this is what ordinary people say' But because you know each other too well, and have been together for a long time, the family affection is already very heavy, even if that moment comes, you yourself may not know, unless you ......, unless you have been separated for a long time, and suddenly reunite, if you have fate, maybe you can feel ......"

"Oh, that's ......, but when it comes to it, Dad, you still haven't explained what love is!" Su Qingyu got to the bottom of it.

"Son, you and that Tan Yuexiu, in fact, are not love, often together, in your heart, you have developed a habit, accustomed to her existence, and in your mind, gradually consciously regard her as a lover, so you will be painful, will be lost, and will have the feeling of being empty now, but it will not last long!"

"Dad, how do you know?"

"I asked Yangchun about that kid on the phone a long time ago, of course, he couldn't tell me anything, but he was a careful person and told me some details of your life with that Tan Yuexiu, so I have such a judgment."

Looking at his son deeply again, Su Yuedong finally made up his mind: "Love is a feeling, an indescribable and wonderful feeling, it can make people crazy, make people crazy, make people feel that they have the whole sky, and make people feel that nothing in the world is important except for 'her', or even no longer exists." It can be a substitute for any kind of emotion - I say temporary; But no emotion can replace it...... It's beautiful, it's sweet, it's sour, it's painful, it's bitter, but it has an endless aftertaste, and it makes people ...... without hesitation; Love is like an olive! ”

"So, Dad, how does love come about?"

"Love doesn't have to be generated, it's in your heart, but it needs to be activated, like computer software, or it needs to be ignited, it needs a spark to ignite! And the object of love is the password to activate the computer software, which is the fire that ignites the raging fire. ”

"I see, you just said that you like to eat oranges, but it is impossible to sow seeds and re-produce delicious oranges, because what you get is only accumulation; And what you need is the bud that is grafted, and this bud is the seed of love! ”

Su Qingyu finally understood, he thought for a while, and then asked, "Then how did this seed come from?" ”

"Yuan, son, one word 'Yuan'. If you don't have the heart, even if you put this seed by your side, you won't feel it, oh, by the way, many people miss it as an illusion, and some people directly ignore its appearance because they have too many desires in their hearts, such as money, material, appearance, etc...... Because, most of the appearance of fate is very sudden and very unexpected. Moreover, it came quite hazy: I didn't recognize the true face of Lushan, only because I was in this mountain. ”

"Love at first sight?"

"Yes, love at first sight is the best way to light the fire of love."

"Dad, do you believe in love at first sight?"

"Silly son, isn't me and your mother the best proof?"

"So, this kid has found his love?" Su Qingyu glanced at Gu Lixiong in the distance enviously, and said: "Then, Tan Yuexiu and I are really just a habit, a kind of family affection generated by being together for a long time, and yes, Dad, it will hurt to break off family affection!" Thank you, Dad! ”

"Son, can you still say thank you? Hey, Dad doesn't know, it's right or wrong to tell you this. ”

"Don't worry, Dad, I won't carry your son like that, I believe I can find my true love, Dad, it's okay!"

"Hey-" Su Yuedong still frowned and pointed to the fish swimming above his head: "Look, if you fall in love with them, you will jump into the sea to catch them, right?" But as soon as you get to the sea, you will understand that you can't catch it, and you will even feel that what you see here is an illusion, because what you see above is different from what you feel here......"

"Don't imagine too beautiful, go into it for yourself to discover the existence of beauty, and enjoy beauty there!" Su Qingyu understood the mystery in his father's words.

"Actually, Dad still hasn't explained what love is......" Su Yuedong was helpless, because no one could tell what love was.

"No, Daddy, I know, love is an indescribable, inexplicable feeling, something that can only be understood but not spoken! But I understand, Dad ......," Su Qingyu said.

"That's right, son, Dad's friend is pretty good, isn't it?"

"Well, Dad, you are my true mentor!"

"Hehe, but for the Tan Yuexiu in your heart, forget her, you still need time, even if you untie the knot and erase her shadow, it will take time, but as long as the knot is untied, you won't be cranky anymore, what you should do next is to adjust your mentality, don't force you to forget her, it will be counterproductive; When it's time to think, don't be depressed, when you think about her, you can try to think about it and your dreams, time will help you dilute her shadow. ”

"By the way, Dad, I have another question: if I feel that I am in love with each other, but I don't know if the other party really loves me, just like Tan Yuexiu, what method should I use to test it?" Suddenly a key question came to mind, and Su Qingyu asked again.

"Son, the purest love can be tested by the most selfish behavior!" Su Yuedong seemed to be joking.

"Dad, please don't be kidding! Love is selfless and great, that's a well-known thing. ”

"Hey, son, Daddy wasn't kidding. Indeed, whoever hears this sentence thinks it is a joke, but son, it is true. ”

"Can you explain?"

"Son, when you were with Tan Yuexiu, you didn't spend most of your time with her, but you were studying and working hard for your own dreams, right? Think about it, are you doing this, is it very selfish for love? Su Yuedong asked.

That's why I feel that it's my fault - love needs to be paid, but I ...... No! ”

"Plausible misunderstanding! Son, you are wrong! Only when you only care about your own feelings and do your favorite thing, and at this time, the other party just thinks that all your efforts are for her, seeing you work so hard, and not to accompany her, she is not only angry, but secretly happy in her heart, such a she, is really in love with you, and if you also love her, this kind of love is the real purest love, such a fate, is the best fate. ”

"So, the other party will do the same?"

"Yes, when both parties are pursuing their dreams, and the other party always feels that all of the other party's is for themselves, this kind of love is the most perfect love."

"Dad, didn't you just say that sweet and bitter, sour and painful will coexist? Isn't that so easy? ”

"That's why, son, for thousands of years, there will be so many people pursuing and dreaming, just like ......"

"Just like you and your mother, huh?" Su Qingyu grabbed the conversation and said; Father and son looked at each other and smiled.

"Got it, Daddy! I want it too, I think, and I can too. ”

"Hopefully! Well, let's go, let's go over, don't snub them! Su Yuedong looked at his son worriedly, and sighed secretly in his heart: Hey, tell him another understanding of love, I don't know if it's right or wrong, but don't hurt him, in case he can't wait for his love in his life......

"Hehe, what kind of mystery are your father and son doing?" Knowing what her son and husband were talking about, Xie Lianyu still joked, and she also hoped to make a contribution to untie her son's heart.

"Hehe......" Su Yuedong just smiled.

"Friends need to know each other, this is the communication between me and my father's friends, I am touching my father's bottom and understanding the secrets in his heart!" After talking to his father, Su Qingyu was much more relaxed, and he said humorously.

Isn't it? I untied the knot in my heart, and also understood why my father treated my mother so much......

After listening to her son's words, Xie Lianyu glanced at her husband with admiration: You are really good! Then the other three and Aunt Li looked at each other tacitly and smiled......

At the end of this volume, please see "Stepping Out of the Country" in the next volume of "Beautiful Life".