(4) Campus situation 12

"But they are divorced, and it was not because of love that they came together in the past?" Su Yuedong asked rhetorically.

"That's right, but why don't they cherish love?"

"As I said earlier, many people, when they are young, squander excessively and let love die, and more people want to cherish and care, but they don't know how to do it."

"By the way, Dad, you said that you are a love saint, so, do you want to tell me that you are just a person who knows how to cherish and care? How many years have you been asking your mother to wash your feet every day, is that how you take care of it? As he spoke, Su Qingyu showed a little dissatisfaction and sneer.

"Of course!" Su Yuedong said seriously.

"Do you think I'll believe it?"

"A must!" Su Yuedong became more serious.

"Tell me why!" Su Qingyu was-for-tat.

"Hmm-" Still serious, Su Yuedong said lightly and shortly: "Since you mentioned this, let's start with your mother washing my feet......"

Su Yuedong took a sip of coffee: "I remember that at that time, we worked eighteen hours a day, because I had all the heavy physical activities, so your mother felt sorry for me, and every day when I arrived at home, she would boil water for me to soak my feet after meals." Sometimes, pour a little white vinegar, and sometimes, add a little alcohol...... Even squatted by the footbasin, hugged my feet, and put his face on my legs......" As he spoke, a gentle sweetness appeared on Su Yuedong's face, as if he was now enjoying the relief jade to soak his feet......

Su Qingyu was very interesting, he didn't interrupt his father's memories, and he seemed to be enjoying his father's warmth.

Finally, Su Yuedong came back to his senses: "Son, do you know? Once, your mother hugged my leg and stomach and slept like this...... I'm really heartbroken...... "Of course it's true, otherwise, how could Su Yuedong's eyes flash with tears?"

"So, the next day, I washed my feet in cold water, but I was scolded by your mother." Su Yuedong smiled embarrassedly: "That's it, I know that your mother's favorite thing is to see me enjoying ......, just like that, it has become your mother's habit to soak my feet, and I'm also used to her soaking my feet, and over time, I'm lazy!" Besides, I can't deprive your mother of the rights she enjoys, can I?! ”

"Dad, you're too thick-skinned, doesn't Mom often complain about this and that?" Su Qingyu was a little upset for his mother.

"Son, don't you see your mother grinning when she complains about me?"

Looking at his complacent father, Su Qingyu suddenly felt that he still didn't know his father, and every time he talked to his father, he would have new feelings, new understandings and new gains. What he didn't expect was that as a man's father, he treated his mother so meticulously - down to every expression and every mental activity......

"Just like your mother works hard to do this and that for you, you are also enduring your mother's complaints? Oh, by the way, I have a new understanding of hard work: Mom is hardworking, you are resentful. But Dad, are you tired? Su Qingyu asked.

"Tired? Son, do what you like, no matter how hard and tired you are in the eyes of others, do you feel tired yourself? Just like your mother washes my feet every day, just like I listen to your mother nagging and complaining every day! It's all a treat, you know? ”

"Oh - so ......, Daddy, is this love?"

"Well, this should be a small manifestation of love!"

"Dad, if your mother understands what you did, she will definitely be grateful and will never blame you again."

"That's not good, love is a thing, it looks like it's affectionate, but it's an unintentional move, if you have to do how to do it, from a Zen point of view, it's 'looking', then you will lose a wonderful feeling...... You're not going to break my natural understanding with your mother, are you? ”

"Oh, yes, no! So, Dad, what exactly is love? It is said on the Internet: Like is a faint love, love is a deep like! The old people said: Love in life, it needs to be run-in, even if there is no love at the beginning, in the long-term life, there will be love, and there are many, many, dad, these words are right? Su Qingyu felt like a primary school student.

"Son, are the oranges delicious?" Su Yuedong didn't answer directly, and asked on the other side.

"Delicious!" Although he didn't understand, Su Qingyu still replied honestly.

"So, after you eat the oranges, keep the seeds and grow them more next year, okay?"

"How come, Dad, you also know that this is a husk, and what it gives birth to is an accumulation, not an orange, and it is not delicious...... Well? Su Qingyu's eyes suddenly lit up: "Dad, you mean ......"

Su Yuedong didn't answer, just looked at his son and smiled silently.

"And Daddy - what is love? If you are a childhood sweetheart and have no guesses, this is finally love, right? Su Qingyu found the undeniably correct answer.

What he didn't expect was that Su Yuedong shook his head gently: "No! ”

"Isn't that either?" Su Qingyu almost didn't jump up on the chair: how many books and stories are used to describe the most innocent and perfect love with childhood sweethearts and two little guesses, but his father said no.

"Son, do you have to know what true love is?" Su Yuedong was a little hesitant, he turned his head to look at Ning Danfeng in the distance.

"Yes, Daddy!" Su Qingyu said very resolutely.

"Son, do you know? Your mother and I like Ning Yatou very much, and it can be seen that Ning Yatou likes you too, so Dad hopes that the two of you can be together...... Son, Ning girl is really nice, beautiful, quiet, knowledgeable......"

"Dad, that's not what we're talking about right now!" Seeing that his father repeatedly shirked, Su Qingyu was very dissatisfied.

"Hey-okay, Dad told you, but Dad is only afraid that you are too stubborn, only afraid of ......" Su Yuedong said at first, but in the end, he poured beans into a bamboo tube: "Let's go back to the topic just now: Son, remember what I said that 99% of the families in my country have no love, right?" You must be curious to know how a family without love can be maintained, right? Actually, it's very simple: son, how many people in this world really know what true love is? Not much, that's why there is the sentence you see on the Internet: 'Like is a faint love, love is a deep like'! ”

"They didn't think that like is not love, and the mistake of liking is love, in the long-term life run-in, day by day, and although this is just a kind of family affection, but the mistaken family affection is ...... love, I just said, some people, has already missed love, and some people, but can not touch love in their lives, like as love, through the time of the merger, and mistaken family affection as love, it will be natural to go to the end together, isn't it? And in my opinion, this kind of mistake is not a good thing, which is why I don't want you to understand what true love is. ”

"I understand, are you afraid that I won't be able to meet true love in my life and miss my youth? Daddy, haven't I already encountered it? Isn't the current sense of loss the result of falling out of love? And ......" Speaking of this, Su Qingyu also turned his head to look at Ning Danfeng in the distance: "Can't I have love with Danfeng?" ”

Listening to his son say this, Su Yuedong smiled, he knew that his son had understood a little, but some problems still need to be explained positively: "No, son, as we all know, love and romance complement each other, without love, romance is less wonderful artistic conception, no romance, love is no longer love, but son, do you know what romance is?" ”

"Yo ......" Facing his father's question, Su Qingyu suddenly found that he was thinking too little and too little, and he didn't even think about these questions as his own group of young people: "Dad, it should be going out for barbecue, surfing, jumping, and outing...... And also...... Fishing, hunting...... And ......"

"Hehe, son, what about letting you do these things every day?" Su Yuedong asked heuristically.

"Then it's not interesting, that's called ...... excess"

"Do you still feel romantic?" Su Yuedong asked again.

"Oh, Dad, I see, romance is a feeling!"

"Of course, son, romance is a new, strange, sudden, unexpected surprise that arises in a specific environment, for a specific object, in a specific period of time! Romance can be one thing, several things, or an action, in a word......"

"Just one action, one sentence?"