"How do you know our children won't grow taller? Even if you don't grow tall, what? I want our children to live naturally and healthily! My father's anger continued.

I grew up under the care of my mother since I was a child, and I was very angry at my father who treated my mother like this, and I still remember that I clenched my little fists and wanted to help my mother get angry, because, subconsciously, I also hope that I can grow taller quickly, and I don't want to always sit at the first table in school.

But the words "natural and healthy" in my father's words made me feel a little confused: between parents, who is right and who is wrong?

At this time, his father gently pulled himself and took him into his arms, he seemed to know what he was thinking, touched his head lightly with one hand, and said: "No matter what happens, don't rush to conclusions first, you must ask yourself a few more whys!" ”

Although he heard his father's words, he was still angry at his father's yelling at his mother, and he struggled to break free from his father's embrace......

Since then, my father has never hugged him again, and I clearly know that my father is not resentful of him, because, whenever my father looks at him, his eyes are always confused!

My father never talked to him about anything, but often said a few words during meals: "Mathematics is the foundation, language is the foundation of the foundation, only by learning Chinese first, you can have a considerable ability to understand, and learn everything quickly." ”

"Nowadays, there are many talents in English level 8, but few of them have a good future, do you know why? Because, if you don't learn Chinese well, even if you learn English best, you can't communicate directly with people in English, if you don't have a good foundation in Chinese, although you understand the meaning of English, you can't find accurate Chinese to express, and the result is still in vain. ”

"When you have time, memorize more Tang poems and Song lyrics, because the imagination of poetry is very rich, you will have different feelings in different places, different times, and different moods."

"I usually read more good articles and poems, and 'I have poetry and books in my belly'."

"Come, this set of "Idiom Allusion Stories" and this "Foolish Story" are the original text, without mixing the thoughts of modern authors, you can read it, read it with your own understanding!"

"To study, you must first cultivate your interest in learning!"

"Life is short, we must learn to enjoy, and the greatest enjoyment of life is spiritual enjoyment, only when there are goods in the belly, can we enjoy life."

"To make your life meaningful, the first choice is to set a goal for yourself, which is also what we often call beliefs and ideals. Only a life with a goal will not be empty. ”

"Those who have no ambition are always determined, and those who have ambitions are ambitious. People have to live and learn until they are old! ”

"The goal of life cannot be too realistic, nor can it be space, it seems to be imaginary, but the goal that I always feel that it can be achieved is the most realistic goal."

"To behave in the world, you must learn to think differently!" Do not do to others what you would have thou.' ”

"Make good friends, 'people are divided into groups, and things are gathered by like'. We must learn to see, learn to think, and learn more from society; 'Make friends with people who have the heart and gall, and read from the place where there are no words'. ”

……

Well, although my father didn't teach me anything seriously, it seems that there are many, many more. But at that time, I basically couldn't understand my father's words, but my father said: "There are things that you don't have to understand, because understanding takes time, take advantage of your memory now, remember more, and in the future, no matter what it is, you will slowly understand." ”

At that time, my father's words were holy decrees, and no matter how much I didn't like my father, his words were still meticulously implemented.

Other than that, there should be none, right? Oh, no, there are many other things, many, many, but I can't remember them for a while, but strangely, if my father has them, I often think about them.

The father's approach seems to be different from that of other parents. I remember one time, my father came home late and saw that he was still doing his homework, so he immediately stood beside him: "When are you going to write?" The father said this to the mother.

"Will you do any of those?" My father asked me.

"It's simple, it's too much, and it's tiring." At that time, I didn't even lift my head.

"Come on, Daddy will help you write!" My father snatched the homework book without his consent.

At that time, I was still secretly happy: other people's parents wished that their children would do more homework, because I often heard from my classmates that in addition to supervising their homework every day, as long as they saw their children doing homework or reading, they were very happy. When my father is good, he often lets himself go out to play, saying that he should not keep reading books, but learn to rest.

The next day, because my father wrote the homework and was scolded by the teacher, when my mother went to pick me up, the teacher told my mother what my mother could say, and my father did it in front of her.

When I got home, my mother told my father.

Then, the next day, it was my father who sent me to school, and that was the only time my father sent me to school.

After my father sent him to school, he didn't leave, but went to talk to the head teacher for more than ten minutes, and I don't know what to say, and since then, my homework has not been as much as before, except for the new lessons taught in the books.

According to my father's meaning: everything you do, you must have a degree, and homework is the same, just like today's school, the idea of studying for the college entrance examination is unacceptable.

Morally, my father is good to himself, isn't he? Basically, he responds to his own requirements, even if he does something wrong, he never beats or scolds, but analyzes it thoroughly in a few words, and then, let himself think about it, just when he makes a mistake, he repeats two boring words seriously, the first sentence is: the same mistake is never allowed to be made again; The second sentence is: To learn is to learn the knowledge and experience of predecessors, and experience also includes the lessons of failure; If you have to wait for yourself to fail before you understand, and don't learn from the lessons of your predecessors, then your life will be spent in failure!

But emotionally, I can't accept my father's indifference to me, and I can't say how indifferent my father is, at least I think so. Therefore, an inexplicable resentment arose in my heart, resentment towards my father.

Looking for yourself today, I don't know what I want to talk about? What is there to talk about? Hum!

My father never scolded himself, let alone beat himself, but even if I didn't want to face my father the most, I couldn't help but be, all the time, my smiling father gave me an invisible pressure, is this what others call "majesty"? Anyway, I thought about it, but I never went against my father's wishes.

Jiao Erlang walked into his father's study and put down his ass casually: This is the first time my father has officially talked to him, right? What can he say about the college entrance examination? After all the exams, even if he doesn't do well, what can he do? What's more, I feel very good.

"Child!"

Su Qingyu's heart tightened, and the body that was originally pulling on him straightened up invisibly: his father had always called himself 'Qingyu', and when he suddenly heard his father call himself a child, he was a little scared, and his heart was invisible, and there was a different feeling; he looked at his father's eyes, and was surprised to find that in his father's eyes, there was no inquiry, no blame, and no dissatisfaction with his mother's hippie smile just now, and his father's eyes were full of helpless guilt, yes, it was helplessness and guilt, and his father was ......

"Child, Dad has never talked to you properly, maybe, you think that you are just a child in Daddy's eyes, Dad has no need to talk to you except teach you something, if you think so, you are wrong, because, Dad only remembers that you are my child, but he never treats you as a child, hehe-"

Dad smiled habitually, turned his head to look at his mother, and continued to say alone: "Because I brought you into this world with your mother, I naturally became your father, but Dad doesn't know how to be your father well, because the experience of predecessors can't be used for reference, because I only want you to live happily, I don't want you to live tired." After thinking about it, all Dad can do is to make more money, so that in the future, you will no longer be like Dad and run around for a living. Because, Dad always felt that the material enjoyment of money is not the ultimate enjoyment, and the real goal of life is not money! But helplessly, I have to make money, because life needs money. Maybe it's my father's luck, my father succeeded, and, it should be said that he was very successful, and it was really because of his success that I saw the falsehood and ruthlessness of society more clearly, you know, child? False tired, merciless pain! Life is all empty! ”

"By the way, Dad is off topic, Dad hereby formally apologizes to you, because, from your usual behavior and speech and behavior, Dad feels your dissatisfaction, and he is very unqualified as a father, but as your father, he has always been very helpless in front of you, because Dad is very helpless - no one can teach me how to be your father."