"Maybe other people's parents are looking at how to teach their children books, but Dad doesn't, because Dad wants to understand what is the real life and how to make his life more meaningful. Then, I will pass on my life experience to you. Dad was tired of the empty words in the book, so he remembered how he felt since he was a child. Thinking of when I was young, because of the control of my grandparents, I felt so tired and tired, thinking that everything was according to my father's wishes, but I lost the freedom of my heart, my father will no longer restrain your behavior, as long as you are on the right path, my father will basically not discipline you. If it makes you feel that Dad doesn't care about you, then I want to state that you are wrong in this way, Dad just wants you to live more easily and more freely, although Dad basically doesn't pick you up and go to school, but Dad will find your teacher every month to understand your situation, and from time to time, look at the clips and videos of your interactions with your classmates after class, hehe, this is the benefit of Dad having money! ”

"So, Dad found out that among your best classmates, there are three, one is Gu Lixiong of the Gu family, one is Xing Yangchun of the Xing family, and the other is Ning Danfeng, the girl of the Ning family, hehe, you don't blame Dad for touching your bottom behind your back, right? Although this is your personal privacy, don't forget, you are not yet an adult, you know, Dad is your guardian, and Dad does not interfere with you. ”

"People are divided into groups, things are gathered by like, you rich children still intersect together; What makes Dad happy is that these people don't have the bad habits of the rich second generation, and they are also good at studying, so in the past few years, Dad has never paid much attention to your learning. ”

"By the way, these people seem to be the only ones who look at you, hehe, I didn't expect that my children were born with leadership skills."

"Daddy is confused - son! I don't know what to say when I came to you, although my mother hopes that you can apply for the management major so that you can take over my class in the future, but my father doesn't think so; In today's society, the so-called 'career' is money, and everyone thinks that as long as there is money, it is considered a successful career. Dad thinks that money is only the basis of survival, and career is a dream, a pursuit, and its manifestation is not necessarily money. Money, only when you earn it, is it considered success, and career, I am talking about the real career, even if you are not successful, you will be in the pursuit, get endless enjoyment. ”

"I'm just worried that my talent is useless, and I'm afraid that I'm hungry and empty! I have to admit: when only people who meet the conditions for survival have the right to pursue a career, fortunately, at this point, Dad has done it for you, which is also the only thing Dad is proud of in front of you. ”

"So, today, you don't have to think about money, as long as you think it's worth it, as long as you choose a career that you are willing to pursue with your life, Dad will support you."

"Women are afraid of marrying the wrong person, and men are afraid of choosing the wrong line, so when you choose, you must be cautious, once you decide, even if your head is broken, don't look back, because you still have your parents."

"As for your mother's worries about your college entrance examination results, it is superfluous, because, you are my son, because, Dad understands you."

"Dad-" How many years have passed, Su Qingyu called "Dad" from the bottom of his heart for the first time, and his voice was a little stalking...... He wanted to say something to his father today, but he didn't know where to start.

Su Yuedong smiled understandingly, and smiled with relief: "Dad doesn't know how to be a good father, but Dad hopes to be your friend, in the communication with you, to teach you life experience, help you analyze, help you learn, help you make suggestions, and learn to be a good father; Child, are you willing to give Dad this chance? ”

"Daddy—"

Facing his crying son, Su Yuedong waved his hand lightly: "Go, think about it, you will have to fill in the volunteer in a few days, don't choose the wrong direction, by the way, you can talk to a few of your hair, I believe that they will not be too bad in the exam." ”

With a little guilt, a little touched, and holding back the tears that were about to fall, Su Qingyu left his father's study, and before going out, he heard his father say behind his back: "In two weeks, it will be your eighteenth birthday, have you thought about how to spend it?" If you want Dad to accompany you, tell Daddy! ”

"Hey-" Su Qingyu didn't look back, because he was embarrassed to let his father see his tears.

returned to his room, facing the computer protection pattern one by one, Su Qingyu didn't move, just sat silently, not knowing when his mother would follow.

It wasn't until Xie Lianyu sighed softly and patted him lightly on the shoulder that he reacted, he pressed his mother's hand on his shoulder, and turned his head sideways and whispered softly: "Mom, all along, I blamed Dad!" Su Qingyu cried......

"Your dad won't blame you!" Xie Lianyu comforted, and said in his heart: He is a good father and my good husband!

"After all these years, Mom, I really can't forgive myself."

"Don't think so much, listen to your father, think about it, I'm going to fill in the volunteer soon, and time is running out; After listening to these words of your father, I also feel that in many cases, I have misunderstood him, and it seems that I am also an unqualified mother and an unqualified wife. ”

"No, Mom, you're a good mother!"

"Hehe-" Xie Lianyu gently withdrew her hand and patted her son's shoulder again: "We all have to think about it, in fact, we don't think as far as your father!" With that, he turned and left.

Really-far? Really - long-term! Both real and long-term? How did I never think about these questions? Oh, by the way, that's almost impossible, long-term and real, in life, are two different aspects, although it can't be said to be absolutely opposite, but it can really be said to be thousands of miles apart, Dad, in my heart, except for the resentment towards you, there is almost nothing else, sorry, Dad! Silently, Su Qingyu shed tears of remorse again.

Hehe, Dad's theory is always so advanced, no wonder others say that Dad is a weird person, but even if it's weird, others are willing to chat with Dad.

Even if he once resented his father, but he still knew his father's style, at work, his father never liked nonsense, and unlike other businessmen, he never left the industry in three sentences, and when chatting with friends, his father would tell some strange things from time to time, but it was definitely not a business experience.

Isn't it? I am almost 18 years old, but my father told himself today: I don't know how to be a father, and I don't know how to be a good father.

If I had seen and thought earlier, instead of blaming my father and resenting my father, perhaps, the darkness in my father's heart should no longer be gloomy, but sunshine.

Blame others first and blame yourself, Dad's words are remembered, but they have never been used, at least, they have never been used to misunderstand Dad.

Sorry, Dad! Actually, I don't know how to be your son! Su Qingyu finally discovered this problem.

Dad has a passage, yes, this passage is important; Dad said: He hates a few polite words that are recognized by the world: I'm sorry, thank you! Dad once said to himself during a meal: never say these two words to your friends or relatives.

Dad said: Saying sorry is shirking the responsibility for what you have done, if you really do something wrong to your friends and relatives, you should not say sorry, you should think about where the mistake is and how to make up for it. Like thanks, you should find ways to repay kindness to others, rather than saying thank you, even if it is trivial. Therefore, sorry and thank you, for relatives and friends, are two words to keep in your heart, not to hang on your lips, unless you meet someone who may never be met again in this life, you feel that there is no way to make up for it, no way to reciprocate!

Oh, by the way, Dad has another saying: the most selfish love is actually the greatest love! Well? What does this phrase mean? Did Dad explain it to himself? It seems that no, well, it really doesn't, it hasn't been explained, Dad, if you remember this sentence and think about it all the time, you will understand it slowly in the future.

But I have thought about this sentence many times, but I always can't understand the meaning.

Even if I have always resented my father, but the idea that my father's words are the truth has been ingrained in my mind since I was sensible, so what aspect does my father's words refer to?

Hey, I don't want to, how to think about filling in the volunteer myself!

Mom wanted to learn business management by herself.

That's right, Dad is such a big mess, and he needs someone to take over his class. But I really don't like business management, and I don't like business! Compared with my father's business, I like flowers and plants more.

But if you don't learn these things, if you don't know anything about Dad's business, what will happen to Dad's business when you ...... in the future?