(1) Father's confusion 5

"Before?" Su Qingyu's eyes lit up: "Thank you, Dad!" ”

In Su Qingyu's mind, a blueprint suddenly appeared, a small village with mountains, water, and the aroma ......of rice...... The herbs are delicious and the flowers are colorful......,...... Qianmo traffic, chickens and dogs smell each other......' The Peach Blossom Land described in "The Story of the Peach Blossom Spring", China's Shangri-La......

This should be what I used to want, but now? Don't you want to do the same?

If you compare life to a computer, my father's words are certainly not the operating software of the computer, but my father's words are the password to start his own software, and the key to open the world in his heart.

"Daddy, let me think again!"

"Go ahead! Don't forget that your thoughts can't be too detached from life! Su Yuedong nodded slightly.

"You have to learn to support and control, money is not everything, no money is absolutely impossible!" Su Qingyu learned his father's tone for the first time, and made a grimace to his father: "Although you don't value money, but there are too many rolls in the business field, and there is still a copper smell in your words!" ”

"Hahahaha-" Facing himself, this is also the first time that my father has smiled so heartily and happily.

There are too many firsts with my father, isn't it? Now, for the first time, my father made him feel so kind and approachable!

Countryside!

Back in his room, Su Qingyu preferred to position his future path in the countryside.

Isn't it? I have loved the countryside since I was a child, and I don't deny that this is also related to my father.

I remember that when I sat on my father's shoulder, in addition to telling stories to myself, my father often told some things about his own childhood, often talked about his rural life when he was a child, talked about the past, and talked about the simple nostalgia when he was a child......

At that time, I had a dream that when I grew up, I returned to the countryside and returned to my father's memories.

As I grew up slowly, with the heavy study, the dream of my childhood gradually faded, but today, I was reawakened by myself.

By the way, is this your dream? Su Qingyu wasn't sure, but he was sure that this must be his father's dream.

If you can't find your way, can you give your choice to your father? I can't find my dream, can I fulfill my father's dream?

I remember my father said: a person's goal is not necessarily right, but the direction can not be wrong, only by choosing the right direction, you can continue to explore, continue to confirm, correct your goal!

Rural -- I've already made up my mind, so that's probably the direction my father said, right? What about the goal? What are my goals? Growing rice? No, don't say that I can't afford to suffer this, even if I can, I can't lie in the rice field for the rest of my life?

Hehe, I'm still afraid of hardship, but that's normal, isn't it? Dad said that it is human nature to be afraid of hardship and laziness.

Well? Herb Garden? That's Chinese medicine, and I don't seem to like medicine very much. Besides, he is not Lu Xun - he has lived in the Hundred Herb Garden since he was a child.

Hundred Fruit Gardens? Oh, a little bit of a taste! East, west, north and south, all the fruits in one place......

Well, no, isn't this a tourist park? If that's the case, then you have to recite the business scriptures every day? Soliciting tourists every day, isn't that a pure business? Business is inevitable, because without business, there is no way to make money, but it can't be pure business, that's what I hate the most.

So, do scientific research? ......, forget it, if you choose this path, my father has so much money, I believe that in a few years, he will be able to squander it. Although my father didn't care about this, if he lived on his father's money all his life, he wouldn't be a man at all.

My father said: As a man, he may not have a lot of money, but he must have the minimum ability to support his family.

It's really not good, just grow vegetarian vegetables, pollution-free vegetarian dishes, in this way, if it involves business, it's also simple, I can set the price to death, love to buy or not, modern people, are paying attention to health, business must be good!

Oh, how did I think of business again? I hate business the most!

No business, no rich!

I remember what my father said: As a man, in addition to striving to do his best and achieve something in his own field, he can afford to take everything he encounters in life, and even if it is laundry and cooking, he should be able to ......

So, even if I don't like business, I can't avoid business because of this, I have to face it squarely and face it......

It seems that Dad said all this......

Yes, it was my father who said it, he said: There are too many helplessness and too many regrets in life, because you have to do what you don't want to do, because you can't face things or people you don't like, because we are not gods, we can't do what we want, because we live in this society, society is a big family, there are different things, different people, they all have different ideas, you can't do everything by your own temperament to ......, but don't leave regrets in life; Helpless regrets, mostly because of the heart is more than enough and not enough, even if you try your best, you may not get the results you want. But regret is different, regret is because you thought about it, but you didn't do it, because of our own reasons, missed the time, missed the opportunity.

Do these things have anything to do with the major I want to choose?

It doesn't seem to be related, no, it seems to be related!

By the way, what did Dad say?

"Life is short, and many times, everyone can't find their own direction, so don't go to the empty determination of your own direction, think about other things. For example: What is the purpose of life? What is the meaning of life? ”

Well, I can't find the direction, so I'll just think about this place first.

Su Qingyu picked up a pen and paper and began to write on the paper......

No direction - So, what do I want most? A warm home, a happy life, a brilliant life......

Oh, what is it? What the hell is this......

It's just for enjoyment!

Well, yes, enjoy, life is too short, if you don't enjoy it, what's the point of living?

"Enjoy!" Su Qingyu preferred to write these two words on paper!

Then, after the word enjoyment, it was written: material, physical, spiritual!

Matter - hehe! Su Qingyu's heart was sweet, everything was given by his father, ......, well, well, don't think about it!

Body? Su Qingyu's face showed a little ambiguity and disgust: The current girl ......

Spirit! Under these two words, Su Qingyu made two strokes.

Spiritual enjoyment? What the hell is this thing? How could I not think of it, I can't touch it?

"Daddy!" Su Qingyu didn't know how he put down the pen and paper, and he didn't know how he got out of his room, and unconsciously, he came to his father's side: "What is spiritual enjoyment?" ”

"Huh?" Su Yuedong frowned deeply: At this time, what are you doing asking this question? But he didn't ask, because he has always believed that a person will have his own thoughts and goals, and he can't force other people's thoughts and follow his own ideas.

He frowned and said with a faint smile: "I once told you that the highest enjoyment in life is spiritual enjoyment, in fact, this sentence is a bit wrong; Isn't it? Although I divide human enjoyment into material, physical and spiritual, without spirit, there will be no all. Is the delicacies of the mountains and the sea delicious? That's how your spirit feels, is X life wonderful? ......" Speaking of this, Su Yuedong's face showed a little embarrassment, but he did not change the topic because of this: "Material enjoyment, you should think of food, clothing, housing and transportation, think about it, which is not spiritual enjoyment?" Let's not talk about it, let's talk about food and clothing: in addition to being comfortable to wear, clothes are decent and beautiful, aren't they for others to see? And you get enjoyment from the eyes of others. Not to mention food, we have a local saying in Ningjiang: 'Eat to the mouth, fragrant to the fifth watch', eat to the mouth, that is a matter of a while, but just this moment, but let you fragrant to the fifth watch, that is a kind of aftertaste, is it a spiritual enjoyment? ”

"As for the physical body, the moments of X's life are transmitted through the spirit, which seems a bit far-fetched to say this, but you have to admit that after ten or twenty minutes, after that passion, we will no longer have enjoyment? No, moreover, these pleasures can only be understood, not spoken. Wait, you can only understand, isn't it spiritual enjoyment? That kind of spiritual enjoyment is the feeling that ancient and modern Chinese and foreign people search their stomachs, and they can't think of more accurate words to express and describe! ”

"Speaking of spiritual enjoyment, it is ubiquitous, these have been explained in the words just now, but why do we need to mention the word 'spiritual enjoyment' specifically? Because, spiritual enjoyment is the highest enjoyment, compared with it, the rest is just embellishment. ”

"We usually talk about spiritual enjoyment, it needs a goal, a direction, and then, for this goal, even if you go through a lot of hardships, you feel so sweet, especially when your goal is achieved, you seem to have the whole world, that is a kind of satisfaction, a kind of pride, is the enjoyment of achievement."

"At that time, when you recall the bitterness and sweetness in the process of struggle, recall your strength, sweat, perhaps, and ......tears, you will only use one word to evaluate 'value'!"

"Oh, I see, hehe!" Su Qingyu seemed to suddenly open up......

Father glanced at Su Qingyu meaningfully: "There are things that are useless to force, in addition to seeing more, thinking more, and trying more, you also need one word: 'fate'!" ”