(1) Father's confusion 4

"No more than three generations of rich!" What if I could take over my father's business? With my father's current assets, although it is a bit too much to say that he is rich for three generations, if he or the next generation follows the elders to eat the old book, it must be that the generation is not as good as the generation.

Isn't it? The times are changing, society is advancing, people are changing, and enterprises and institutions are also innovating. Although, I shouldn't deliberately be different, but for business management, I really don't like it, my father said: people live a lifetime, plants and trees autumn, people always have to do something they like to do, always have to leave something for themselves?

So what exactly do I like? It seems like I like everything, and it seems like I don't like anything!

Difficult!!!

What are my dreams? What is my purpose in life? What do I really like? Where's my luck?

Luck? Yes, Dad said that luck is only reserved for those who are prepared!

Am I prepared? No!

So, that is, for me, there is no such thing as luck?

No, it's not like that, I'm eighteen years old, and yes, I should start preparing.

How do you prepare? Now my brain is a mess, and I can't touch the north at all.

Hey! Su Qingyu touched his face, which was a little tight after the tears, got up from the bed, sat down in front of the computer, and clicked aimlessly......

"Ningjiang mandarins, no name on the list"! Well? What's going on? As a native of Ningjiang City, I have never heard of such a thing!

It was a long time ago! How many years have passed?

Constantly clicking with the mouse, looking at the web page on the Internet, Su Qingyu finally understood what was going on.

Thinking about it, as a local, I have never eaten this kind of former top ten famous oranges in the world, maybe this kind of orange has long been a thing of the past, and it is not delicious, so my parents have never bought it for themselves.

But from the world's top ten famous oranges to the domestic list, this span is too big, right? What the hell is going on?

It should be too long, there is not much news about this aspect on the Internet. But Su Qingyu can be sure of one thing: Ningjiang mandarin, after falling to Sun Mountain, has become obscure and has become history......

Ahh What I need now is to find out my own direction and choose my own major, even if Ningjiang mandarin really becomes history from now on, what does it matter to me? I'm not a god!

Yes, I'm not God, my dad said it, and my dad said: we are not God, there are too many things in the world that are beyond our reach, as long as we do what we can, we will be considered successful.

……

For two whole weeks, Su Qingyu had been in a coma, and the life he had never considered suddenly became so difficult, Su Qingyu felt so incompetent for the first time, he was a little haggard, and he felt helpless.

Mother, as long as it is a child, when she is helpless, the first thing that can come to mind is her mother!

"Mom, why don't we get a babysitter?" Looking at his mother who was washing clothes and her hands were full of soap bubbles, Su Qingyu asked!

"Your father doesn't like it, he said: It will feel awkward to suddenly appear in the house with a living person." Xie Lianyu shook his hand and looked at his son with a smile: "Most of the clothes are taken to the laundry to be washed, your father's clothes, I have been washing them all my life, and I like to wash his clothes myself." ”

Well? Like? Could this be the manifestation of love? Listening to his mother's words, Su Qingyu fell into deep thought......

"It's because I can't choose my major, and I can't think of which path I should take in the future, right?" Mother's words followed Su Qingyu's contemplation.

"Mom......" Su Qingyu wanted to speak and stopped.

"Don't hang your head." Xie Lianyu rinsed her hands with water, and then took the towel from the towel rack behind her and wiped it: "Everyone will have such an experience, this is a normal thing. If you can't choose a major, you might as well think about your mother's advice! ”

"Mom-!" Su Qingyu suddenly felt bored: Want to learn business management again? The faces of those businessmen in the business field, Su Qingyu was annoyed when he thought of it: It's okay to find trouble, small things blow up big things...... how many words are true?

"You should find your dad for this!" Xie Lianyu faced her son's impatience and smiled tolerantly: "You know what? For several years, many friends have persuaded your father's company to go public, but your father insisted on not doing it, because he knew that you didn't want to follow the same path as him. He said: Money is not important, but the start of any business needs money, if the company is listed, it is not so easy to use the funds, so your father wants to use the company's funds as your starting capital. ”

"You know what? The company's idle cash now is at least 500 million, and I don't think you can use that much money, but your father said that his son is a dragon! Xie Lianyu glanced at her son lovingly: "Go and ask your father, in this aspect, he is better than me, although others say that your father likes fantasy, in fact, what I particularly like is your father's fantasy, never value money's fantasy." ”

"Dad-" Su Qingyu's heart once again had the urge to cry: how ignorant he was, he had misinterpreted his father from beginning to end, but his love surrounded him all the time, so broad and selfless......

"Daddy!" The first time he took the initiative to talk to his father, Su Qingyu still felt that his heart was not natural, but fortunately, his mother followed behind and pretended to be brave for himself.

Even if his father never beat himself or scolded him, even if his father spoke softly to him every time, the feeling of timidity in the face of his father still exists to this day.

From the last conversation with my father, this feeling seems to have begun to fade, but it is still there.

"Hehe-" The father smiled, "Is Dad so terrible?" Feel at ease. ”

"Actually, Dad has been thinking about your problems, but unfortunately, Dad can't figure it out, Dad used to be your dad and was confused, and now, he is confused about choosing a major for you, because, Dad thinks, in fact, Dad really doesn't understand your dreams, and when this 'Dad', I really fail."

Su Yuedong lit a cigarette for himself and took a deep breath: "I have always hoped to pave the way for your life, but a few years ago, I suddenly discovered: If you really follow the road I paved for you, you will lose yourself, of course, your material life will be equally rich, but your spiritual life will be blank; That's why I didn't agree with your mom's idea that you want you to learn management, unless you like it yourself. ”

Su Yuedong glanced at his son deeply: "Besides, everyone has an inert mentality, if everything is designed by others, and you don't have to think about anything anymore, then, over time, you won't be able to think of anything, that is, if this is the case for a long time, a person will be wasted." I don't want my son to be just a rich second generation, a rich waste. ”

"Do you know why in this society, so many people are chatting, whether it is online, or in a teahouse or at a wine table, why so many people like to spend time on mahjong and poker? That's because they're empty, because they don't have their own goals, they don't have their own pursuits, they don't have their own dreams. That kind of 'emptiness' is called 'romantic' by your young people! Because of a whimsical once, you can be happy for a few days! Son, it's a few days, it's just a few days, and then what? They will dig out their minds to design another romance, but before they know it, they find that their youth is gone...... "My father seems to be reminiscing, as if he is talking about himself......

"In my opinion, the meaning of life lies in dreams, in fighting, and in exploration! According to my experience: when a person has his own dreams and his own pursuits, no matter how unrealistic his pursuits are, he will not feel 'empty', and as long as he is working tirelessly, he is always enjoying: enjoying the fun of life, enjoying the fun of dreams, and enjoying the fun of hard work! Finally, Su Yuedong stopped.

Su Qingyu suddenly understood why he didn't communicate with his father before, although this is not an important reason, but surely, this is also one of the reasons.

Because, my father's words have always been rhetorical, never marginal, and never answered the wrong questions. I am in a hurry; Isn't it? There is less than a week left to fill out the volunteer, but my heart is a mess: Dad, can you say something practical?

Since the last time I talked to my father, I have seriously recalled my father's ordinary teachings: indeed, although his words sound quite empty, his words are fulfilled all the time, but I don't need this today, I just hope that my father can give me a clear hint, and I don't need those empty long speeches!

Looking at his silent son, Su Yuedong finally turned his words to the topic: "My heart is so confused, I don't know which way I should go, right?" Tell us what you think! ”

"I don't have an idea, Dad—" Su Qingyu blurted out.

Really, if you had an idea, would you be so restless these days?

"If you don't have an idea now, it doesn't mean that you won't have an idea in the future, and it doesn't mean that you haven't had an idea before, what do you say?" Su Yuedong looked at his son with a smile.