Chapter 113: The beauty of the North Drift is lost and recovered

After visiting Wanshou Temple.

Ye Qian and I went our separate ways and went back to our respective residences.

The days are still going by.

The new house is still being renovated step by step.

I'm still typing the words.

On this day, I was about to take a break with two beers after finishing the code. Suddenly, the phone rang sharply.

When I looked at the caller ID, it was a Beijing number.

"Writer!" A girl's voice came over the phone, "Do you remember me?" ”

"Who are you?" I asked, puzzled.

"Chu Fangfang!" The other end of the phone smiled, "Remember?" ”

"Oh!" It dawned on me that I said, "You're the one who was scared into my arms by a rat?" ”

"yes!" Chu Fangfang said with certainty, "I heard that you are looking for me everywhere!" ”

"You don't owe me any money, you don't owe me anything, so I have nothing to do with you?" ”

"Don't mention emotional matters anymore," Chu Fangfang said after a long sigh, "I'm going crazy about emotional matters now!" ”

"Tell me about it!" I urged with interest.

"It's all tears!" Chu Fangfang said with tears in her eyes, "Two or three years ago, after I met that Beijing guy, I thought that I had encountered happiness and was eager to say goodbye to the Beipiao family, but I didn't expect that the days after that would be like a nightmare. The boy's ability to work was so poor that I often had to give him pocket money after I was with him. Once we quarreled, the boy would die every now and then to prove our love. I was originally a very lively girl, but after dating this boyfriend, the whole person has become numb! ”

"Since you're numb, come to me!" After listening to Chu Fangfang's complaints, I said reasonably, "I will make you as sensitive as you were two or three years ago, so sensitive that a mouse can make you lose your soul!" ”

"And are you still living where you were?" Chu Fangfang asked hesitantly.

"No," I said, "a different one!" ”

"Then tell me your new address!" Chu Fangfang couldn't wait to say.

"Okay," I grinned, "and you're welcome!" ”

I gave Chu Fangfang my new address with a happy heart.

Chu Fangfang happily hung up the phone.

Chu Fangfang disappeared from my field of vision and resurfaced, which is indeed a miracle in the North Drift.

Little by little, time is passing.

When Chu Fangfang appeared in my room again, he startled me again.

I looked at her in amazement, the plump and well-proportioned girl of two or three years ago was now emaciated and thin, as if she had to hug a telephone pole when the wind blew. Especially her eyes, it looks as if others owe her a lot of money that she won't get back, both aggrieved and helpless.

"What do you think I'm going to do?" Chu Fangfang asked me as soon as they met, and he didn't have a long-lost hug or anything, "After I got better from that neuropathy, I found that I had fewer and fewer friends, and then I looked for my previous friends, but I couldn't find them one by one!" ”

"And how do you know my number?" I asked, puzzled.

"I saw your blog," Chu Fangfang said seriously, "You have a phone number in your blog!" ”

"I didn't expect the blog to have this effect!" I smiled.

"You're a good guy, so what should I do?" Chu Fangfang asked me bitterly, and the long false eyelashes fluttered several times.

"Divide it!" I simply said, "It's that simple!" ”

"What kind of love do you think I have?" Chu Fangfang complained.

"Cheap love!" I say for sure.

"What is cheap love?" Chu Fangfang asked puzzledly.

"Have you watched "Dragon Babu"?" I asked Chu Fangfang with a smile.

"I've seen it!" Chu Fangfang nodded lightly.

"The love between You Tanzhi and Ah Zi in "Dragon Babu", I said seriously, "is because the love in each other's hearts is too humble and becomes a kind of regret: You Tanzhi, who came from a famous and upright family, saw Ah Zi when he threw lime powder to his enemy Xiao Feng, and he fell in love with her deeply. However, Ah Zi has always had a deep affection for Xiao Feng, and she tried her best to torture You Tanzhi, who hurt Xiao Feng, and You Tanzhi also understood one thing, that is, there was only one Xiao Feng in Ah Zi's heart. In the end, he resolutely gouged out his eyes and healed Ah Zi's eyes. In front of the cliff of Yanmen Pass, Ah Zi gouged out his eyes and returned them to You Tanzhi, and fell off the cliff with the dead Xiao Feng in his arms, and You Tanzhi also jumped off the abyss in despair......"

"My love with him is quite cheap!" Chu Fangfang muttered.

"Despicable love," I said in all seriousness, "is a kind of humble torture, like a ninja on hunger strike, a prostitute who takes drugs, in order to achieve a certain goal and obtain a certain need, does not hesitate to lose his dignity and personality, and to wronged himself and torture others to achieve his goal." This kind of love is too selfish, both losing oneself and hurting the people one loves and loves oneself. ”

"I'm really desperate!" Chu Fangfang said with tears in her eyes.

"Despair of love is despair," I said earnestly, "for the sake of so-called love, there is no principle and no limit to sacrificing oneself, and in the end love becomes ignorance and stupidity." ”

"Actually, I found that the relationship between me and him is not called love!" Chu Fangfang said thoughtfully.

"Yes," I nodded, "love is not strictly called love, it is just a form of extreme selfishness and disappointment in love. However, the love of contempt is sympathetic and pitiful. ”

"How many times have I thought about it," Chu Fangfang said sadly, "I just can't make up my mind!" What if he was going to kill himself? ”

"If he really had the courage to commit suicide, he wouldn't be what he is now," I said to Chu Fangfang with a disdainful face, "Love, father-son love, brotherhood, etc. are all human nature." If a person doesn't even care about people's common feelings, then this person is very insidious and terrible, such people are often unscrupulous in order to achieve a certain goal, once they gain power, they will turn their faces and deny people, and they will even make things that fall into the ground. History has long proven that you must never associate with such a person, let alone fall in love with him! Therefore, it is not possible for a scumbag not to hide! ”

"Then how am I going to break up with him?" Chu Fangfang asked in embarrassment.

"Breaking up, for either party in a relationship, is an undesirable ending," I pretended to say, "but for various reasons, the continuation of some feelings can only hurt each other more deeply, and only ending is the wisest choice." It's time to break up, and you have to calm yourself down and rationally end the relationship, which is the best way. ”

"Say it quickly!" Chu Fangfang urged.

"There are two main ways to divide the flesh and tear," I lit a cigarette and said to Chu Fangfang with great authority like an emotional expert, "The heart and meat division technique: 1. Don't investigate who is right and who is wrong, just calmly tell the other party that the situation has changed and the relationship is over; 2. Find a place that you are familiar with, seriously summarize each other's advantages and disadvantages, and tell him that you should affirm each other's advantages and emotions, and thank him for spending many unforgettable days with you; 3. Tell the other party that you sincerely wish him happiness in his life, and if he is willing, he can still be ordinary friends after the breakup, and he will still help each other as before; Fourth, after proposing to break up, try to write or call him back as little as possible, and don't meet him alone again, so that he knows that your love for him is really boring now; 5. Friends you know because of him, you should be estranged after the breakup, so that he understands that you have left his circle of life; 6. After breaking up with him, start dating the opposite sex you like, so that he understands that you really have a new love...... If he truly loves you, he will understand and respect your choice. In true love, there should be a broad feeling. If you love her, you should think about her happiness; If you love her, you should respect her choice; If you love her, you should sincerely wish her all the best! ”

"Cut!" The corners of Chu Fangfang's mouth almost touched the root of his ears, "What you said is useless to that person at all, if he is so reasonable, am I willing to break up with him?" ”

"That's right," I nodded, "some people become unreasonable because of a breakup, and some people are unreasonable and he is unreasonable, so it's time to unceremoniously use hob meat to those who are not interested!" ”

"Speak quickly!" Chu Fangfang began to urge again, "Your old man's love books have been published several times, there should still be this method!" ”

"Yes!" I lit another cigarette, took a beautiful puff, and then said to Chu Fangfang like a great immortal, "Hob meat division technique: first, tell the other party expressionlessly, you can't stand it anymore, this is the last time you will meet him, and he will jump off the building and don't want to have any more contact with him in the future; 2. Don't answer the other party's phone calls, stop meeting the other party, and don't give the other party any chance to explain, so that he understands that you have really forgotten him; 3. Remember the other person's bad deeds, and when you think about him, think more about his bad deeds, rudeness, and unreasonableness; Fourth, don't blame yourself and feel guilty in your heart, and blame the other party for the breakup; Fifth, I believe that the other party will not change in this life, and will not change his mind because of your departure; 6. Compare the past and the present, and list some things that you have always wanted to do but could not do because of the other person, so that you can find out the trouble that the other person has caused you; 7. Treat all the other party's friends coldly, so that the other party's relatives and friends understand that you have nothing to do with him; 8. Just as the other party is dead, there is no need to bother with a dead person; 9. Find a new love, make a new friend of the opposite sex that you appreciate and like, transfer your thoughts and emotions as soon as possible, and let him accompany you to pass the free time......"

"Almost," Chu Fangfang muttered, "I'll just assume he's dead!" ”

"In fact," I said to Chu Fangfang seriously, "no matter what kind of division method, there will be a lot of resistance and difficulties at the end. The deeper the love, the deeper the hate. Love wants to live, and hate wants to die. The lovelorn partner often feels shameless, ranging from deliberately harassing the other party to using bitter tricks to hurt themselves or the other party...... It is precisely because of these reasons that it is difficult for many boyfriends and girlfriends to say goodbye, and as a result, the short pain drags on into a long pain, and the long pain drags on into a marriage, and in the end they either live without emotion, or they still end in divorce after a long time, ruining their own happiness, not to mention, even the happiness of their children! ”

"What you said is very reasonable," Chu Fangfang said with understanding, "Hearing you say that, my heart is much better!" ”

"Then come and let me hug me!" I patted Chu Fangfang's shoulder as I spoke, but I didn't expect to be slapped into my arms again, "Hug it well, my heart will be better!" ”

Chu Fangfang half-pushed and half-shrunk into my arms.

The pleasure is lost and regained.

Just as I was trying to fool Chu Fangfang into bed while the iron was hot, I heard the sound of the key turning the door lock.