This answer varies from person to person, if it is a girl or boy who is still very young, such as a child under the age of 20 (20 years old in modern times, 14 years old in ancient times), I must be very iron-toothed to say that marriage must be managed. If it's an old wood like me that doesn't have much room for transformation, I think marriage should be like that. Because when people are young, they are not yet stereotyped, of course, they are educated according to the best standards. At my age, it is already difficult for me to find a lifestyle that suits me.

If you are a very shrewd and vigilant character and have the ability to manage your marriage, of course you should manage your marriage; If you are a very cautious and meticulous character and have patience to manage your marriage, of course, you can also manage your marriage; If you value the family and are full of sacrifice, of course, you can also run a family.

But if she is a very sloppy and casual character, or very mentally clean, or very busy with her career and has no time and energy, such a person makes her carefully manage her marriage, she is either incapable, impatient or has no time, so marriage is already a shackle for her, and divorce is more suitable for her.

I myself have never felt like my marriage and family are in a good place. My personality is the kind of very Madaha, how comfortable and how to come. If you want me to be conscientious about things between people, it would be better to kill me. For people like me, the essence of marriage is to choose the right person, and if you choose the right one, it's basically done once and for all.

There are two ways of administrative management, one is to focus on supervision, it is easy to get involved in issuing certificates, that is, to follow up the work at any time, step by step; One is the re-examination, which is difficult to issue a certificate, and if the certificate is issued, it will be ignored.

Students who have taken this course should know that most teachers say that the first management method is the most effective. However, at this stage, my country is basically the second type, if you want to apply for a certificate, you will be examined and approved at all levels, and once the certificate is done, it basically doesn't matter. Why not pick the best first one? I can't control it, I'm too tired bird!

For people like me, if life and marriage have to be painstakingly managed, it is too much to do. It's okay to be a little hard, but you have to fight wits and courage with the mistress, or work hard to be your husband's enlightenment teacher to teach him how to behave...... This, the gain is far lower than the loss, and it is the best policy to go ashore early to live a leisurely life.

Whether or not to manage a marriage depends not only on your own character, but also on the other party's character.

If the other party is better at communicating, it will be easy to understand and talk about it. Then it is easier to operate, the cost is low and the profit is large, then it can be operated. If the other party is stubborn, stupid and selfish, and refuses to communicate, then it is very difficult to operate, and there is nothing to do with such a birdman. Then, it is better to choose another investment direction as early as possible.

Some people may also say that the third is to consider the depth of the relationship between the two parties, the deep can be operated, and the shallow can be reduced. This one makes sense, too. But, generally speaking, I don't advocate this, don't think that the depth of love can change a lot for the other person, or the other person can change a lot for you. I never fantasize that people will change for me, change my personality, what a great project, and I don't have the confidence to change for others, it is okay to change a little thing, but I can't do it myself. Do you think I don't want to be a ** person, I haven't done it for half my life, and I don't think I can do it for the rest of my life.

So, I can only make changes in a relatively small range that is relatively moderate.

I can only choose the person who suits me, and the two sides will adjust moderately and try to cooperate to reach a consensus, relaxed and happy.

If you say that this kind of moderate and relaxed adjustment is also a management marriage, then I am in favor of running a marriage.

If you say that running a marriage is not only these, but also the impact of the worldview, values, and outlook on life of both parties, the challenges of the primary three, the contradiction of education level, and the major conflict of dealing with people. Then, I am not sensitive to this kind of difficult and difficult marriage that is full of thunder.

Back to Xiaoyu and Liu Xiaohu.

1. Xiaoyu's personality is not suitable for running a difficult marriage.

Second, Liu Xiaohu is a difficult business object.

3. The relationship between the two is a difficult relationship.

Therefore, Xiaoyu's divorce is a very correct choice.

What I'm talking about is actually the first step in managing a marriage, which is to choose the right business project: a good business partner (husband) and a good business (bed partner, hall, kitchen, ......).

In business activities, if the project fails, it should be broken in time, and the business direction should be quickly shifted to minimize the loss.

However, I'm actually quite fluctuating myself, hehe!

Xiaoyu is good to the Liu family, I have no opinion.

Sometimes you can't care too much about losses or anything.

It's good to get divorced, two people are typical personality incompatibility. Not suitable for marriage, but the family affection is still there. The care point is normal.

My personality is very madaha, but my husband is very delicate. So the two of us are a good fit.

Xiaoyu's personality should be matched with a capable, shrewd and sophisticated person, one is in charge of technology, the other is engaged in management, and learning from each other's strengths and weaknesses is suitable.

Liu Xiaohu's kind of unweaned EQ and IQ are both low, and with a technical genius like Xiaoyu, who lives an imbecile, it is a tragedy.

This story tells us that we must be cautious when choosing a husband.

Xiaoyu was desperate and hasty at that time. It can only be a strong man's broken arm.

In the language of business, it is: without full research, the project was launched in a hurry, and it was found that the selected project exceeded the company's technical capabilities, and in the fierce market competition, the operation became increasingly difficult, the loss area became larger and larger, and at the same time encountered the malicious merger of competitors, the company was in turmoil, and the company's investors had no choice but to file for bankruptcy in the court.

After cleaning up the assets, Chairman Lin Saiyu resolutely used the remaining funds of the company to pay the company's arrears of employee salaries, and Lin Dong admitted that she was the most responsible for the failure of the operation, so he issued a letter of introduction to General Manager Liu Xiaohu and other senior management personnel with a high evaluation, wishing them a bright future and a brilliant reconstruction.

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In business activities, if the project fails, it should be broken in time, and the business direction should be quickly shifted to minimize the loss.

We all supported Xiaocao's divorce, but Xiaocao maximized the loss, so we didn't value it for her. It is precisely because of big like Xiao Cao that there is the arrogance of Xiao Song like Xiao 3.

Increase the cost of cheating. Only by increasing the risk of infidelity can we effectively crack down on shameless men and women.

Anger is indisputable, and seeing what has harmed us also affects our mood.

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Actually, I don't like to deal with people who are having an affair in my marriage!

First: Marriage itself is a kind of contract, and the reason for the termination of this contract is that I prefer the end of the relationship to the end of the contract after the development of a new emotion!

Second: People who abide by marriage contracts are generally more rational! And they are more kind! It's easier to work with such people! A win-win situation can be higher!

Third: A person who is responsible for his own family has a high degree of self-control! Truth be told, the cost of a modern affair is low! If you like to toss, you can find a woman, and if you like to play low-key, you can go online for a whole one! Therefore, people who maintain a certain degree of rationality and control over marriage and emotion will be less likely to break the contract or exploit the contract loophole when they cooperate!

Based on the above principles, I personally believe that finding someone to marry is more than just an emotional union! It's more of a life partner's choice! There are so many principles and rules in this, and they vary from person to person!

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Marriage to be managed, but ...... It has to be run by both parties.

Unilateral management and hard work are forgotten. Just like the landlord said, the investment is slow, the risk is high, not to mention, it is too tiring after all. It's not worth it.

Keeping your eyes open before marriage is the most important thing. Picking the right people is key.

But it's not that after picking someone, the marriage is over. In that case, the quality of the marriage is enough, and the newlyweds are fine, but there may be problems in ten or eight years (modern society is developing faster and more tempting). Every now and then, be a little funny, don't forget to care about each other, and find a way that both of you like to get along.

In short, no matter what happens, it is not terrible to have problems in marriage, as long as the husband and wife are willing to communicate and can communicate, and both of them have a responsible attitude towards the marriage. I'm afraid that if one party doesn't work hard and doesn't cherish it at all, and all his thoughts are going in other directions, then it will be difficult for a single person to return to heaven after all.

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Author's words

In the end, I don't have a position, I think, everyone has their own opinions, it's still the same sentence, do your best, listen to the destiny of heaven, but I must believe that there must be someone in this world who will be worthy of your love and love you well.