192 What is bullying?
When I went to the door, I saw a lot of people around.
The people who eat here are basically characters with heads and faces, but I didn't expect to watch the excitement like the people who eat melons.
It seems that curiosity is a common trait of human beings.
I was taken aback when I saw Tan Yueming coming over, and I was busy greeting him.
Accustomed to his hippie smiling face, he didn't expect his face to sink and immediately change his aura, and the people around him automatically retreated and made way for him.
He walked through the crowd without saying a word.
The cold air was floating around, and I noticed that many people didn't look right, but I couldn't guess why.
When I walked to the ocean ball, I heard a familiar cry, it was Nanxing, and there was a threatening voice from an adult, "Why are you crying little rabbit, and you don't apologize to my son." ”
"Who's your name, Little Bunny?"
The voice was so cold that there was no trace of human taste, it was obviously not loud, but it made the surroundings silent.
The man looked at Tan Yueming, and immediately stopped moving, and then looked at Nanxing, who was crying, as if he realized something, his face changed, and he even trembled unconsciously, "Tan ...... Mr. Tan ......"
Tan Yueming ignored him, squatted down to wipe Nanxing's tears, "Tell Dad, what's going on?" ”
Hearing a pop, the man immediately knelt down, and his tone was no longer arrogant, "Mr. Tan...... I didn't know it was you... Your son, I'm damned,"
Tan Yueming still ignored it, only looked at Nanxing distressedly, and a cold anger gradually appeared in his eyes, presumably everyone around him could feel it, no one moved or made a sound.
Nanxing sobbed and pointed to the little boy next to the man, who was taller than him, "My little brother snatched my toy, I pushed him, and my uncle hit me." ”
Tan Yueming was silent for two seconds, his voice was even colder, he didn't seem to believe it, and he was a little difficult, "Uncle beat you...... How did you hit you? ”
Nanxing said aggrievedly, "Uncle pulled my ears and twisted my face, but it hurt." ”
Tan Yueming touched his ears, "Does it still hurt now?" ”
Nanxing nodded, "It hurts." ”
His face was condensed, and his dark eyes were like deep pools, and the bottom could not be seen.
That person's face was so white that he couldn't solve the hatred in my heart, how could I bully a child as an adult, isn't this bullying?
Tan Yueming stood up slowly, his eyes fell on the man, like ice, and he paused for a while before he slowly spoke, "What's your name?" ”
The man froze, looking up at him, his lips twitching, but he couldn't say a word, only his eyes were full of fear.
Tan Yueming asked again, "I asked what is your name?" ”
The man trembled and said, "Fang...... Square... Yunxiang. ”
Tan Yueming said lightly, "Be louder, I didn't hear clearly." ”
He shouted sadly, "Mr. Tan, I was wrong, please forgive me for my recklessness, I really didn't know it was your son, how dare I ...... if I knew."
Tan Yueming took a breath and said calmly, "Whether it's my son or not, you, as an adult, shouldn't do anything to a child, this kind of behavior is too bad." ”
The man was probably ashamed and silent.
Tan Yueming pulled Nanxing, "You pushed this little brother, didn't you?" ”
Nanxing nodded, and he said gently, "Then you apologize to your little brother." A manly man, if you do something wrong, you have to admit it, and you can't escape responsibility, you know. ”
The child was very obedient, looked at the little boy who was taller than him, and whispered, "Little brother, I'm sorry." ”
The little boy saw his father kneeling on the ground, his little face was pale, and he could not say a word.
Nanxing tilted his head and said, "Dad, little brother ignores me. ”
Tan Yueming touched his head, "It's okay, you have already told him that you are sorry, you have done a good job." ”
After speaking, he looked at the person who was kneeling on the ground trembling, "Fang Yunxiang, isn't it the vice president of Jinfang Electronic Technology, in charge of technology research and development?" ”
The man was silent, probably.
Tan Yueming smiled, "Someone recommended to me before that Jinfang Electronics is not bad, especially the second master, graduated from an Ivy League school, came back from Silicon Valley to serve the motherland, quite affectionate, but lacked some financial support, I was originally very interested in him, but now it seems that his character seems to be a little problematic." Whether doing business or technology, character comes first, and bullying the weak is not okay. ”
The man raised his head, and a cold sweat ran down his face, and the child next to him also began to cry.
Tan Yueming lowered his eyes and looked at the child, but his eyes were extremely cold, "Children, children can say sorry if they do something wrong, but it's not so simple for adults to do something wrong." You ask your dad to say sorry to his brother and kowtow three more times as an apology. ”
The child looked at him and cried. Although the child is young, he also knows that this is an extremely insulting way, and if it is serious, it may leave a shadow for a lifetime.
I think Tan Yueming is too much, there are still a lot of onlookers here, he shouldn't have done this, but unfortunately no one dared to express their opinions, and they all looked at the excitement coldly.
Then I saw Fang Yunxiang kowtowing heavily, banging three times, no more, no less, his face was full of humiliation.
As for it, Tan Yueming is not a flood beast, why should he be so obedient.
Tan Yueming didn't seem to be satisfied, and said, "You just screwed my son, he has little strength, and it won't hurt to screw you, it's unfair to him." Otherwise, you can do it yourself, ten slaps, don't be perfunctory. ”
There was a discussion in the crowd, and they all stared at the people in the field, and they didn't know who was upset and said, "Isn't Mr. Tan also bullying?" ”
Tan Yueming didn't care who said it, only smiled faintly, "Bullying is the most basic law of the jungle, the premise is that you have to be strong enough, otherwise you are pretending." ”
No one spoke anymore.
Seeing that Fang Yunxiang couldn't do it for a long time, Tan Yueming looked at his watch, "I'll make dozens of sounds, forget it if you don't do it, go home and have a good rest." ”
Then the countdown begins, ten, nine, eight...... Counting to the third sound, only to hear a snap, Fang Yunxiang slammed it down on his face, gritted his teeth and slapped ten times in a row.
Tan Yueming smiled with satisfaction, "Okay, Mr. Fang, take your son home quickly, educate him well, don't grab people's toys casually, let alone do it casually, everyone is a civilized person." ”
Leaving the Japanese restaurant, Tan Yueming drove the car directly to the old bungalow.
Nanxing was tired of playing, and fell asleep in the car, and I couldn't wake him up, so I had to obey Tan Yueming.
Aunt Lan saw Tan Yueming carrying Nanxing into the door, and hurriedly stepped forward to care, "Has Mr. eaten?" ”
He nodded, hugged the child and walked upstairs, I sat down in the living room, Aunt Lan brought fruit and refreshments, "Miss Long, please drink water." ”
I smiled at her, "Thank you, Aunt Lan. ”
She smiled too, "If I don't have anything else to say, I'll go and rest, and I'll be called for something." ”
I nodded, and she turned back to her room.
Suddenly I heard a meow twice, a small flower cat from behind the sofa around my feet, it was yellow, I held it to my lap, it licked my hand, rubbed on my stomach twice, very pleasant.
"I don't think I'm as good as a cat."
Tan Yueming walked over, his tone was extremely aggrieved, how could he still have half of his previous momentum.
I didn't have anything to say in the car, just me and him at this moment, I couldn't help it, "Shi Ke can't be killed, you shouldn't be so good at Yunxiang, especially in front of the child, how can you let him be a dignified father in front of the child in the future." ”
Tan Yueming poured a glass of water unhurriedly, took a sip, and said with a smile, "Then if he beats my son, should my son be wronged?" As a father, what about my face? ”
I sighed, "Is face so heavy?" ”
He smiled coldly, "Don't think that I am willing to lose face and give up my dignity in front of you, and the same is true in front of others." It is my privilege to give you a loss of face. ”
These words make people speechless.
He continued, "Nanxing is my son, and I will never allow anyone to bully him casually, no matter who is at fault, no matter where it is, as long as someone does it, I will not be soft. I will not protect him if he is wrong, but I can only teach him a lesson. How can you casually let other parents teach him a lesson, or even beat him? You say, if I don't step forward to protect him, how scared and helpless the child will be, he is not yet four years old! ”
Think about it, if a child is bullied, if the parents do not act or interfere in any way, it will have a bad impact on the child, and perhaps the personality will become timid, or become another bully.
Today's parents are extremely sensitive to their children being bullied at school, and want to teach their children to protect themselves from losses, but they don't want their children to become violent people, and parents are also heartbroken.
Suddenly something came to mind, and I was a little worried, "Aren't you afraid that the person will take revenge on you with a grudge?" ”
Tan Yueming smiled, "So you can't give him any chance to rebound, the so-called cutting grass to eradicate the roots, that's what it means." ”
I suddenly understood why the man had to endure the humiliation and humiliation, because he was ruthless.
But it's obviously not right, "Didn't you do enough today?" ”
He smiled, "That punishment is enough, how can he understand what real bullying is." Of course, it is also necessary to let him understand how to set an example for his children. This kind of bear parents do not deserve sympathy at all, this society will one day tell them that it is not his home outside, he does not educate his children well, and one day even the children and himself will be educated harshly. The world has always had latitude and longitude, it will not shrink because of your tolerance, nor will it swell because of your toughness, so that children know how to be at ease, the best way is to be soft and principled in heart, wearing armor and warm. Do you think I'm right? ”
Whoever is strong will be right, regardless of whether it is really right or not.
That night, my protest was ineffective, and it was impossible for the child to really tear his face with him.
He pestered me almost all the time, hugging, kissing, bonding, passion like a thin fire, until he was exhausted.
In the end, he was covered in sticky sweat, stuck to my ear and gritted his teeth and said, "Li Qiusi, I will not let you go if I die, and I will not ...... if I die."
Thinking about what Yun Hui said, even if he was tired, he couldn't sleep, and leaned on the balcony in a daze.
The whole city slept, like a child who had played too much, the neon lit the loneliness of the night, and the past emerged in the blurry halo.
I remembered a lot of things, and Zhong Ting's past, and Tan Yueming's later, and now.
Along the way, I have lost too much, and looking back at the way I came, I feel sad and sentimental.
Looking at the man on the bed, I was dazed and entangled, thinking of the tenderness he gave me, the knife he stabbed in my heart, and his strong and domineering possessiveness......
He is not my beloved, but I have burned him in my heart, and besides, he is the biological father of my son.
Alas, we should be dependent on each other, but we can't......
It turns out that the so-called renunciation is to strip away the part that is closely connected to your life.