Chapter 145: The Baptism of Growth

The appearance of Xu Xiaoyu, to a certain extent, is definitely a turning point for Zhang Fengyi. An excellent and well-rounded boy is the focus of discussion and yearning for all girls in the school, and he is also the public "enemy" of some boys. He really covers a lot of boys and wants to show off his aura in front of girls. As long as the words "Look at Zhang Fengyi" come out of the mouth of a certain girl, he will have another male "enemy" in school.

If Zhang Fengyi is a student among scholars, then Xu Xiaoyu is a scumbag among scholars. He was able to be admitted to such a higher university in Shanghai and even the whole country, or really relying on his real results, and his name as a scumbag was only relative to Zhang Fengyi.

When he was in school, Zhang Fengyi didn't know how much he was taken care of by Xu Xiaoyu and how many problems and troubles he solved. Especially while male and female classmates were jealous of each other, Xu Xiaoyu blocked many "disasters" for him. Xu Xiaoyu stood up for him in everything, for Zhang Fengyi, Xu Xiaoyu fought with many boys in private, and even beat him several times. Because of the group fight, he was deducted several times and was almost expelled from school.

Xu Xiaoyu's kindness to him made Zhang Fengyi speechless. Although he is an indulgent and uninhibited son, a rich second generation, and a broad young master, it is true that he has many shortcomings, but he Xu Xiaoyu is indeed the best friend, brother, and relative in Zhang Fengyi's life.

Even if Xu Xiaoyu is in Fang Longxing's eyes, he may be regarded as having an impure purpose for his little phoenix, or having ulterior motives, not a friend but a rival in love. But Xu Xiaoyu never did anything to be sorry for him Zhang Fengyi, and nothing he did hurt him, on the contrary, he was injured to protect him.

Zhang Fengyi couldn't find any reason not to believe Xu Xiaoyu, the friendship between him and Xu Xiaoyu was indeed higher than the sky and deeper than the sea. This is the reason why he can disguise himself as the shrewd and powerful Mr. Zhang in front of others, but in front of Xu Xiaoyu, he has unloaded all his true disguises.

Zhang Fengyi can not only show the softest side of his belly in front of Xu Xiaoyu, but he will also give his back to Xu Xiaoyu with confidence. Indeed, over the years, Xu Xiaoyu would rather suffer countless losses in front of him, and he has never wronged him Zhang Fengyi.

Personally, I think that if Xu Xiaoyu hadn't been young at the time and didn't understand the kind of desire and pursuit in Zhang Fengyi's heart, and his more excessive performances were just contrary to Zhang Fengyi's pursuit, maybe history would have to be rewritten. But in fact, Mr. Zhang is really dead-eyed, he has been waiting for Fang Longxing really hard all these years!

Sometimes, when you meet the right person at the right time, you don't necessarily know how to grasp it. In fact, the immaturity of the mind makes us incapable of grasping with capital. The fate that awaits us can only be missed, passing by, and when everything is irretrievable, we know that we have indeed lost the most precious. Helpless! It's really helpless!

Just ask: Is the so-called love you give him what he needs? If not, no amount of effort will be in vain. When you know his or her final intentions, and he or she has become someone else's other half, then our bowels may be repentant.

Oh, yes! Whose youth is not confused? The most important thing is that we should not let our youth become confused, the flame of youth is too dazzling. We just haven't learned to grasp and grasp the sword of youth, we can really create our own brilliance and be invincible.

We are impulsive in adolescence; We are immature; We are rebellious; We're crazy; We are public; We are irritable; We are selfish; We are skeptical; We hesitate; We are depressed; We are insecure; We do a lot of childish things; We have restless blood; We have no sense of responsibility; We lack responsibility; We abuse ourselves as well as others; We licked each other's wounds again, and we snuggled up to each other to heal......

Just because we were too young at the time, so young that we thought we had a lot of youth to squander to our heart's content, and we didn't see the direction clearly. I haven't taken a serious look at myself; Examine the life of life; I have examined life, and I am trapped in the paralysis of the self and cannot extricate myself.

We were beaten with blood and bruises all over our bodies by the "wattles" woven by ourselves. Then our wound scabbed over, and in the end it didn't hurt anymore. Because of experience, I understand. In the end, we have completed the transformation given to us by our youth, and we have been reborn like a new life. When all the prosperity faded and the dust settled, we realized that we had grown up, really grown up......

If there is no growth process in the green years, and there is no rebellious time full of youth as a foreshadowing, can we learn to find ourselves in it? Self-discovery? Self-reflection? Growing up is an experience! A heart-wrenching realization. Didn't make us remember the pain; fatal pain; Heart-rending pain, can we know the sweetness we have gained and harvested today?

Whether we want to or not, we must be like a phoenix, born again in the baptism of fire; Whether we want to or not, we have to go through a lot of things in our lives, and since we have to go through them, we can't avoid them; There is no escaping; Unable to hide; We can't retreat, no matter what fate gives us, we must smile and face it strongly! Then let's be brave, like a warrior, and fight back! I'd rather run and die of exhaustion than stop.

Remember Don Quixote as a warrior, right? A seemingly mentally retarded, a seemingly ironic story, but it tells the story of a never-say-die hero, his heart is tenacious, he has his own dreams, he persistently pursues what he wants, he never gives up, at least I admire Don Quixote's spirit.

He's a true warrior! At least he is unyielding, the more frustrated he becomes, although he has done a lot of ridiculous things, but he is kind, compassionate, and he dares to fight against the evil forces. Some people say that he is a madman, so what I want to say is: is he a madman who is obsessed with his dreams? Is it a manifestation of the spirit?

If we treat our studies and careers as if we were lovers, will we be on the road to success? Are we still going to complain that we didn't make it? If we love our other half as our own, will our marriage still perish?

Although in the end, the author made Don Quixote recognize himself, recognize his unrealistic ideas, and recognize his own absurdity. Then in this life, as long as we don't do unrealistic things, it's okay! But we need to learn from his attachment to his ideals, right? Take its essence and remove its dross, everything has the opposite side, which can be used for dialectic!

Some people laugh at his absurdity, but it is often such a ridiculous person who tells us to move forward bravely for our dreams, at least he did it bravely, didn't he? If you don't try it, how can you come to the conclusion that it doesn't work?

Without the persistence of the ancient sages in their own careers and the painstaking and persistent research of scientists, would there be a civilized society with the rapid development of science and technology today? There must be the spirit of Galileo, Newton, Einstein, and that kind of scientific madman, right? Look no further than Stephen William Hawking! We will really feel: self-ashamed!

We're all actors, aren't we? are all performing under the canopy, interpreting our lives, wonderful or not, whether they can become famous actors, success or failure, it depends on their own ability. It is very important to be able to find yourself and recognize yourself! Very important! Very important!

Life is like a play, drama is like life, there is no rehearsal in the process of life, there is no fixed performance mode, and it is irregular and unforeseeable. We are directors ourselves; He is a screenwriter himself; I am an actor, the big drama on the stage of our life, how to act, how to act, how to be considered a performance to the fullest; How to be considered a wonderful performance, you have the final say.

Everyone is a storybook, and our stories are more or less influencing some people around them, living a serious life, living a wonderful life, and completing their mission, because we want to make our lives full of sunshine, and we can't always repeat our pain like Xianglin's sister-in-law, which is really awkward and blockage for ourselves!

After the storm, we will inevitably see the rainbow, and in the face of life, all the suffering is just a flash in the pan and insignificant. Without experience, we will not be strong; Without experience, we will not be brave; Without experience, we will not know how to cherish; Without experience, we will not know how to be grateful; Without experience, we will not grow.

Thank God for giving each of us life and giving us the free right to enjoy our own lives. Respect the beauty of life! Enjoy life to the fullest! Be a beam of light that can illuminate the lives of others!

All the people around him are positive energy and full of hope; Be confident; full of kindness; full of kindness; full of goodness; full of charity; full of joy; full of peace; full of faithfulness; full of righteousness; full of patience; full of tenderness; full of moderation; Full of love from yourself. Love everything around us, then our life will be more valuable and meaningful, and it will be more blessed to give than to receive!!

Since we can't jump out of the Three Realms and are still in the Five Elements, then the road under our feet must rely on ourselves to go down step by step. Not for anything else, just for the fact that we have been here, not to be cowardly, not to hesitate, not to be sad, to turn our story into a beautiful time and space in eternity. Don't let this beauty be ruined by our own hands, and never do anything that outweighs the loss.