Chapter 262: I want to get rid of them
Zhao Sulin's sentence "What am I", obviously his voice was calm, but it revealed an almost hysterical pathos.
Chang Shenghua looked into his eyes and saw the broken emotions overflowing from the depths of his eyes, but Zhao Sulin still tried not to show too embarrassed expression, and he couldn't help but clench his teeth, and the green tendons on his neck bulged out.
"What can I do to help you, Zhao Sulin?" Chang Shenghua asked softly.
Zhao Sulin pursed his lips and said after a while: "I don't know, maybe I just want to talk to someone...... Or maybe I'm looking for someone to give me a suggestion. β
If it was before, he would definitely be silently drilling the horns alone, not that Zhao Sulin didn't trust Ning Shaoming, but he knew very well that if Ning Shaoming knew about these things, he would probably be so angry that he would find someone to beat his younger brother and ask the whole Zhao family to stop bothering him.
Zhao Sulin didn't have such thoughts when he was most angry, but he knew that this would not solve the problem.
- His heart is not entirely because of his brother's endless demands, but more from the double standards of his parents, he can beat his brother, can he still do it to his parents?
Chang Shenghua saw Zhao Sulin's confusion, and said: "At present, there are only a few roads to go, the key is what you think, whether to continue to supplement your family, or do you want to talk to them clearly?" You can continue to send money to your family, 200,000 yuan, and everyone in the dragon destroyer will borrow 18,000 from you, and it is very simple to make up for it, but your brother has bought a house, and he may have to buy a car for the bride price to have children, and he has stretched out his hand once, and there have been countless times, and this hole cannot be filled; You can also take a leave of absence to go back and talk to them to see if you can get them to understand you, and also make your position clear and see what they think. β
Zhao Sulin asked, "Instructor, which one would you recommend me choose?" β
Chang Shenghua shook his head, "I can only clear your mind, I can't help you make decisions, you tell me, what kind of relationship do you want to maintain with them?" β
Zhao Sulin closed his eyes, and his voice faintly confided in his heart: "I want to get rid of them...... I'm so tired. β
Chang Sheng drew it clearly, and added water to Zhao Sulin's cup.
Zhao Sulin held the cup in his hand, the water was warm, and his cold heart was also invaded by a trace of warmth.
When his emotions calmed down a bit, Chang Sheng drew a square and said: "Then let's take a look at it first, Zhao Sulin, I mentioned when I was doing psychological counseling before, your excessive cleanliness and perfectionism come from your parents' high standards for you, we have also done several desensitization treatments, and the short-term effect is there, but you always resist solving the problem from the root cause, this time, your brother's behavior has touched your bottom line?" β
"To be precise, it's still my parents," Zhao Sulin said, "They don't answer my phone very much, my brother took 200,000 yuan from me, I said no, my brother asked where my money went, and he said that my parents calculated it for me, I must have saved a lot of money, and I can borrow enough money...... I said I really didn't, and my brother told my parents, and then I heard my mother say, I haven't been filial to them for so many years, shouldn't I give money? β
In the end, his eyes couldn't help but redden, and the grievances of many years were stuck in his heart, choking Zhao Sulin couldn't breathe.
Chang Shenghua didn't continue to ask, just stood up and patted him on the shoulder, and whispered, "I'll come back in five minutes."
After that, Chang Shenghua went out, leaving a separate space for Zhao Sulin, he covered his mouth, and after a few seconds, he still buried his face between his palms.
Chang Shenghua stood in the corridor outside the door for a while, going through Zhao Sulin's previous medical records in his mind.
Probably because Ning Shaoming, the boss, played a leading role, most of the members of the Dragon Destroying Brigade were more economical and not very lavish.
But in such an environment, Zhao Sulin is still the one who is living relatively poorly.
What Chang Shenghua remembers most clearly is that after Svende "joined" the Dragon Destroying Brigade, he had a good time with the team members, although he didn't meet much, he often provided them with a variety of things at preferential prices for internal procurement.
For example, Ning Shaoming bought a lot of tea, good wine, basketball and running shoes, and even if he didn't need them in the army, many soldiers would buy them and send them home to their relatives and friends.
But every time the list is counted, Zhao Sulin is often the one who buys the least, and often doesn't buy anything, even if his cleanliness habit makes him sit on pins and needles, he will not deliberately give himself a very comfortable life, and often has a cruelty that borders on masochism.
Once Svende asked them if they wanted nutritional products for the elderly, which was more than 1,000 yuan in total, Hu Xiaoge was quick to talk and asked why Zhao Sulin didn't buy it.
Zhao Sulin was silent for a moment before he smiled and said that it was more practical to give money, and his parents didn't like to eat these things.
However, Ning Shaoming casually mentioned it when chatting with Chang Shenghua in private, saying that he didn't have that much money in his salary card at all.
In fact, Ning Shaoming didn't know much about the inside story, and it wasn't that he didn't think about giving him subsidies, but Zhao Sulin had a lot of self-esteem, and Ning Dashao didn't dare to mess around.
Five minutes later, Chang Shenghua returned to the room, and at this time, Zhao Sulin had calmed down and looked less excited.
Chang Shenghua sat back in place, Zhao Sulin said "I'm sorry", Chang Shenghua shook his head, "You haven't done anything wrong, relax, you are also an ordinary person, you can't do everything perfectly." β
Zhao Sulin took a deep breath, "Thank you, instructor. β
Chang Shenghua shook his head to indicate that it was nothing, "Have you thought about it now, about how to deal with your family's affairs?" Your state is not very stable, which is a deadly act for a sniper. β
Zhao Sulin looked at his hand, "I know, so I want to solve this matter completely." β
Chang Sheng said businessmanlikely: "I have been consulting for you for a long time, but I still explain again, Lao Slow, I hope you can cooperate with my work, tell your inner thoughts truthfully, and believe me, if I have problems with my work, you can also mention it." In addition, as a psychiatrist, I can only give you guidance and advice, not for you to think of ways and make decisions, if you are reluctant yourself, then no doctor can save you. β
She deliberately said Zhao Sulin's code name, as if the relationship between the two people was brought closer all of a sudden, and Zhao Sulin's tense face slowly relaxed, "...... I know I'll try my best to cooperate, and I'm sure you'll be able to help me, instructor. β
Chang Shenghua shook his head, "Only you can help yourself." β
This is the most basic principle of counselling β if the client is unwilling, then any counselling is useless.
That's why so many people go to the psychiatrist, and in the end, it doesn't work, because they're just looking for a lifeline, not trying to solve the problem for themselves.
Chang Shenghua and Zhao Sulin talked for fifty minutes, and when it was time, Chang Shenghua took the initiative to stop the conversation, explained some questions for Zhao Sulin to think about it, and then asked him to go back and rest first.
Zhao Sulin thanked him again, and then left the room where Chang Sheng was painting.
Chang Sheng watched him disappear around the corner of the corridor, Zhao Sulin's steps were not as heavy as when she came, she snorted, turned around and closed the door.
Happy families are all similar, unhappy families have their own misfortunes, but the family is difficult to really cut off, which is probably the most helpless thing.
The next morning, it's time for breakfast.
Chen Jin, who was elegant on the surface and gossip in his heart, exploded yesterday's Chang Shenghua and Ning Shaoming's helping actions, which made everyone talk about the dragon, Ning Shaoming couldn't hold it back, and could only stare at a pair of dead fish eyes and ridicule them casually.
It's true, it's not a hero saving beauty, what's there to discuss?
Ning Shaoming thought with an aggrieved face.
Chang Shenghua saw his thoughts, and gloated: "If it was a hero who saved the beauty, do you think you would still be sitting here now?" I have long been dragged to the bed by the beauty to make a promise. β
Ji Xiong and the others listened beside them, and suddenly slapped the table with laughter.
Ning Shaoming's eyelids jumped violently, grinding his teeth, "You guys ......"
- Are the bosses at critical moments all used to ridicule?!
Wang Shenglin said with a big grin: "But the boss is too good-looking, I think it's easier for the boss to be saved by heroes than to save people~"
Chang Shenghua sat next to Ning Shaoming, and when he heard this, he reached out and pinched his chin, and said thoughtfully: "The words are not rough......
"Hahaha......" The crowd burst into laughter again.
Ning Shaoming wanted to bite down on Chang Sheng's hand in one bite.
Chang Shenghua calmly retracted his hand, "Big brother doesn't bite indiscriminately." β
The big brother who was gnawing bones under the seat pricked up his ears and looked at them.
"Fuck off!" Ning Shaoming didn't want to deal with their group of guys who were afraid that the world would not be chaotic, so he hummed and buried his head in hardship.
Chang Shenghua smiled and threw the meat buns that he couldn't eat into his bowl, taking it as Shun Mao.
Ning Shaoming didn't mind, rolled his eyes, and picked it up and ate it.
Chang Shenghua retracted his gaze, moved to Zhao Sulin, who was a little silent on the other side, and asked casually: "How did you sleep last night?" β
She rarely chatted with people suddenly, and everyone looked at each other for no apparent reason.
So when Zhao Sulin spoke out, everyone was taken aback.
Zhao Sulin said: "It's okay, I have slept." β
Chang Shenghua noddedβit seems that he didn't sleep very well.
Ji Xiong and the others all had a ghostly expression - when did Lao Slow get acquainted with the instructor?
Ning Shaoming also looked at Chang Shenghua suspiciously, and asked in a low voice, "What bad idea are you fighting?" β
Chang Sheng was noncommittal, "What bad idea can I have?" β
Ning Shaoming sighed, expressing his disdain to know what had happened.
However, after breakfast, Ning Shaoming still found Chang Sheng's painting alone.
"Something happened to the old man's family?" He asked as soon as he came up.
Chang Shenghua didn't answer directly, "Where did you know that?" β
Ning Shaoming said a little unpleasantly: "I'm not stupid...... And why is he only looking for you and not me? β
Chang Sheng thought about it seriously, and then said, "Maybe I'm more reliable." β
"......" Ning Shaoming's fist itched again.
Chang Shenghua suddenly changed the topic: "Are you going to have a long-distance training in two days?" β
Ning Shaoming didn't know why, "Well, while there is no one tossing around, I have to hurry up and bring back the training progress of this group of rabbit cubs." β
Chang Shenghua nodded, "Then pay attention when you arrange, Zhao Sulin should not participate." β
Ning Shaoming was stunned, "Why?" β
Chang Shenghua was very calm, "because he was going to take leave and go home." β