Chapter 49: Essay "Forty-Nine"
If we can "let go" a lot, sit quietly, hold an idle book, and flip through it without reading it, perhaps, our hearts will feel really happy. The feeling of happiness comes from simplicity.
Life is always very strange, what you don't want, you can't stop it if you want to, but it will come. If you want to keep it, you can't pull it, you can't keep it, you will always walk away. Life is like a river, what should come will always come, and what should go will always float away. Face it calmly, accept it quietly and not resist it. Whether you like it or not, it's just a "point of view" at the time. From another perspective, it's best to live in the moment, but whenever you say this, there are always times when you can't put things down, so you blindly think about it, and you can't get rid of it.
The so-called happiness is to magnify happiness with the eyes upward; The so-called depression is the magnification of troubles by the downward gaze. It is impossible to combine all the good in one. It is like a lotus flower that is holy, but cannot be born on land; Although the peony is beautiful, it only blooms for a few days, and no matter how beautiful it is, there are shortcomings. If you really want to put it all together, the result is probably not an advantage......
I am actually a very focused person, once I set a goal, I will focus on one thing, no matter what it is, so I am afraid of being deceived, because as long as it is what I identify, I will not hesitate to stick to it and take it seriously, so I also want to get such an answer from others that I can stick to, at least I know that what I am doing is not useless.
I think that when you are doing things, you should take yourself seriously, and when you are a person, don't take yourself too seriously. In this way, there will be more friends and more happiness.
The world is too big, and there are so many good things. If you always want to possess, either you don't have enough ability or you don't have a lot of capacity. Learning to appreciate is happier than possessing.
Mentality determines fate. A good attitude, no matter what kind of trough it is, will also give people upward motivation, but a bad attitude is always destroying a good mood and life. Prayer, it doesn't necessarily really change people's will, but it can change people's mentality and give people an upward force.
To live in the world is to give and take. People who can live, or people who are successful, actually understand these two words: willingness. Don't be reluctant, small and small, big and big. If you want to get, you must give, and if you give, you can get. Giving up is a kind of comprehension, a kind of maturity, and a kind of life realm.
The same window, looking up at the scenery and looking down at the dirt. Happy days are days, and gloomy days are days. Just as we will not always have a clear sky above our heads, and life will not be happy every day, don't complain on a gloomy day, go to see another landscape.
Therefore, if you are strong, you will be strong. It's never too late to move forward. Always facing the sun, the shadow will always be behind you.