Chapter 190: Love and Love

Who doesn't want to find a perfect son-in-law and let their daughter live the life of a rich wife, but is it realistically possible? Most of the women who pursued glory and wealth were treated as canaries and locked in small cages. Ling Xiaonan smiled playfully: "There are cars, bicycles." I have a house, and I live well now. I have a job, I work in a hotel, I don't have everything! ”

These words are really good, and Lu Feng didn't want to change too much for the sake of marriage. Too much pressure will only crush you, and even if such a marriage is combined, what is the point. Thinking of this, Lu Feng couldn't help but waver in this love, should he make his bottom line clear earlier, and then let Ren Wenyan's family make the decision to stay or go.

Seeing his sad look, Ling Xiaonan knew that he was hesitant about this matter, so he couldn't help asking: "Then you don't plan to give up, in fact, I think you should have a good talk with Ren Wenyan." But I don't know if you really like her? I didn't seem to feel it, I just felt like I was completing the task. ”

This is a question that makes Lu Feng worth pondering: the first time he went on a blind date with Ren Wenyan, the two talked eloquently under the street lamp, from east to west, and then from west to east, and then to go farther, it was still very happy, what a wonderful night it was. Just like the moon that night, hazy and beautiful.

At that time, Lu Feng was so infatuated with her, liked her, and felt that he should spend his life with such a girl in this life. However, under the disturbance of material money, the original liking has slowly deteriorated and turned into today's helplessness.

And the original warm heart is gradually getting cold, is it that when the moon is covered by dark clouds, the beauty of the past will gradually fade.

Ren Wenyan and her family's idea is right, who doesn't want to have a car and a house, to enjoy the comfort of life, and become the object of envy in the eyes of others. But this price sacrifices the life's work of parents.

Yes, Ren Wenyan's mother wants her daughter to live a happy life, but she can't be so selfish, even if the final result is to give up Ren Wenyan, I won't let my parents work hard.

When night falls, the birds return to the forest. Lu Feng was silent for a long time and said: "After these things now, in fact, most of my feelings for Ren Wenyan may be liked by my mother, and my family is eagerly looking forward to it, so I don't care." ”

Ling Xiaonan's eyes suddenly froze, and he asked further, "Then will you miss her?" Don't talk about your mother, just talk about yourself, you have to know how you feel first, everything else is secondary. After all, getting married is a matter of two people. ”

His friend asked a crucial question, which made him think deeply for a while. After sorting out his thoughts, Lu Feng said slowly: "I liked her very much at first, otherwise how would I introduce Ren Wenyan to you and Zhang Yang, because you are my best friends." If I don't like it, will I try my best to give her parents gifts, and I spent a whole afternoon, talking dryly, so that Ren Wenyan understands the big truth that having money is not necessarily happiness. ”

Lu Feng slowly raised his head, looked ahead blankly and said, "When I received Ren Wenyan's text message that day, it was the conditions that her mother mentioned, and I thought about it for a long time, and I couldn't fall asleep after tossing and turning, and I didn't know where to go. If the full score of the favorite is one hundred, then Ren Wenyan's personal conditions are seventy points, which also adds the impression score that she bought me a gift on my birthday, and my parents also said that Ren Wenyan was quite smart, and gave me such expensive clothes, which suddenly captured my heart. ”

Lu Feng closed his eyes, sighed and said: "I score forty points in Ren Wenyan's family, especially her mother's conditions, such a marriage foundation is just for money, and it will be divided after the combination." ”

It turned out that this relationship had evolved like this, which also made Ling Xiaonan unexpected. He frowned slightly, and summed it up: "That means you don't like her, can I say that?" ”

"That can't be said either." Lu Feng was upset, he couldn't stop shaking his head, and it was really hard to bear it for him to accept this fact all of a sudden, after all, people will always have feelings after getting along for a long time.

Then there is too little left, Ling Xiaonan bowed his head and was speechless.

In the story of the passing years, there are some dreams that wake up as they do; Some love, love and love fade; Some people follow and lose it. Is it that after many years of wind and smoke, all the unforgettable memories can be passed with a smile?

The light of the moon fell on the trees, and they fell mottled black shadows, scattered like broken strips hanging on the trees.

Lu Feng opened his closed eyes and said with a look of grievance: "I haven't asked Ren Wenyan or her family for anything, I just want to get what you said, simple love and happiness." I didn't say anything at the time, and although I felt uncomfortable listening to it, I tried to hold back as much as I could. But Ren Wenyan shed tears over there, saying that she couldn't be told by others, otherwise she would be sad and really vulnerable. ”

"Haha. Women, it's all like this, I'm that, if she says two sentences, it's estimated that she will turn her face with me, it's okay that you can only cry, even if you change one and say two words to her, you will still cry! Ling Xiaonan was accustomed to it.

"That's different, because you love him so much, I think I can only say I like it, and it's far from true love."

True love should not be based on material and money as the primary condition, but only know how to blindly enjoy it without paying. And what I am looking for is a woman who can be in the same boat and can bear the setbacks of life together.

Ling Xiaonan turned his head, looked at Lu Feng with dull cheeks and said, "Hehe, that means you don't love her anymore, hey, I'm so tired, it seems that you are more tired than me." ”

Lu Feng asked inexplicably: "Is there a difference between liking and loving, I'm confused now." Although he majored in Chinese language, some words can only be understood if he has experienced them.

Ling Xiaonan's voice became slightly softer, and in the depths of his eyes, a touch of melancholy and tenderness that was hidden by him flashed, "Of course there is a difference, loving someone will bring you long pain, and liking someone will not." I can say a promise but not keep it, I can miss it but I don't have to worry about it every day, I can enjoy her love without having to give. ”

It seems that Ling Xiaonan really loves her, otherwise how could she say such a subtle opinion. Lu Feng carefully compared this passage, it seems that he still likes Ren Wenyan more, the so-called long pain is not the mutual love of death and life, but the pain because of the conditions proposed by her family.

It's just that today's liking has been diluted by more than half of the conditions proposed by her family. As for true love, it takes time to accumulate and precipitate, and it needs to go through the ups and downs of life together to achieve.

Therefore, Ling Xiaonan can see at a glance from his book that the love between Lu Feng and Hongye is true love, and he is just wishful thinking.

As his friend said, if he had to choose between five million and his girlfriend, he would definitely choose his girlfriend without hesitation, because the happiness that his girlfriend brought him surpassed money. For the same reason, Lu Feng will also resolutely choose red leaves, because that is the destination of true happiness, although this dream is difficult to come true.

But if I had to make a choice between five million and Ren Wenyan, I would choose money, because from all indications now, Ren Wenyan should also choose five million. I think this is the fundamental difference between Hongye and Ren Wenyan, and it is also the deciding factor that Ren Wenyan can't reach my heart!

Since his love for Ren Wenyan is just liking, why does his heart still hurt, is it reluctant or nostalgic. Lu Feng was puzzled, and then looked at the future and said: "Think about Ren Wenyan's temper again, even if there is a mistake, you can't say it directly, it will not be easy to live in the future." ”