"A lot of times, the more you speak, the more slips of the tongue you make, it's better not to say it at all, or it will be better after a while, it's hard for people to say. I'll give you two suggestions, if I were you, I would wait for Ren Wenyan to come back and have a good talk with her. If I don't be a teacher, will you accept me? Or will your family accept me? If your family doesn't accept it, will you still accept me? ”

It's a good idea, plan and then act. Especially the three acceptances are reasonable, and when Ren Wenyan replies, she can see whether she is sincere about this relationship, so that it is easy to make the right decision, and she will not be disturbed by these problems alone.

It's just that he has a thin face, and he is embarrassed to ask in person, what if Ren Wenyan is petty again! Ah Feng's eyes rolled, and he said to his friend smoothly: "Then so be it, when I am not online one day, you can quietly ask the next Wen Yan for me!" ”

This Lu Feng is also too strong, entrusting him with this anxious matter, isn't that looking for death! When Ling Xiaonan heard this, he hurriedly corrected word by word: "This is your line, let me emphasize it again, if I were you, I would be tired, would you understand?" ”

Ling Xiaonan's frightened expression at the moment, if there was a small ditch on the side, it was estimated that half of his feet would be frightened to step in. How could Lu Feng not understand the meaning of this sentence, but why did he take the initiative himself!

Most of his motivation to pursue Ren Wenyan came from the pressure of his parents, and the current situation is that Ren Wenyan's family has made a request to him, in fact, he can ignore it and let his mother solve it through an introducer.

Originally, these three heavy mountains were not something that Lu Feng's thin body could afford, it was not only on him alone, but also on behalf of the unmarried young man who suffered from this hardship in the new era.

What's more, Ren Wenyan also said that not all of them are satisfied, which means that there is room for bargaining, and Lu Feng's mother is the best at this thing, in line with the principle of shopping around and not buying if you don't bargain, she often has unexpected gains.

So you don't have to wag your tail and beg for mercy, and ask for the answer in person! Let Ren Wenyan think about it, whether to choose me or material conditions. According to the current situation, it is time to cool down for a while after falling in love, and it is not a bad idea to let each other be quiet.

Sometimes love is the fine sand in the hand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it flows, and in the end, there is nothing. Proper letting go is also for a better reunion in the future.

Seeing that he didn't respond, Ling Xiaonan knew that he was annoyed by this thorny question, out of the attitude of the authorities and bystanders, he carefully analyzed his prospects: "Then have you thought about your future life, even if you are so reluctant to be together, will you be happy, if I can be with her, I will know very clearly, I am very happy, but will you?" You can imagine. ”

Ling Xiaonan said it clearly and clearly, it can be said that he woke up the person in his dream, since he was unhappy, why should he be together. Isn't it true that some people like pain and live together?

Momiji is talented and empathetic, and they are so deeply attracted to each other, so they don't care about the pursuit of results. Even if there is no good result in the end, the hearts of the two are always together, even if the ending is painful, but the process is always warm, which is worth his unhesitating efforts.

But with these conditions that Ren Wenyan's family is mentioning now, I can't help but think, how is she better than my family, even if she gets married, the family burden is very heavy, her parents have no old age, her family background is average, and her younger brother is a big burden!

If Ren Wenyan had Liu Mengling's family background, there would not be so many requirements, as long as the person is good.

"The conditions mentioned by her mother are: a motorcycle, a new house, and a good job like a teacher, saying that it has a future, I also asked Ren Wenyan, do you know how she replied to me?"

Ling Xiaonan's gaze met Lu Feng's, and then quietly moved away, "What did she say?" In addition to the fact that the car can be realized as soon as possible, the rest is estimated to be many years later! ”

"Ren Wenyan said, 'I think it's mainly your job, they all like the work of teachers and doctors'. Ha, it's so good when I've been there a long time ago, what are you doing staying in this hellish place, looking for fun? "Ren Wenyan thinks she is the director of the Bureau of Culture and Education, can she be the director of the Bureau of Culture and Education? If she really said that, would she still talk to me, a common person, about love? ”

"Actually, you are more realistic than me now, but you can't help but be more realistic than me, you were forced out. It stands to reason that your mother should have thought about these things for you, and your mother should also think about your burden in the future! ”

Lu Feng's face showed a thoughtful expression, and he said in a low voice: "Mom also listened to the introducer, and actually didn't know much about her family's situation, I asked her what Ren Wenyan's parents did, she didn't know clearly, she just said that the conditions were not very good, and some other small situations were not known at all, so it was necessary to strengthen mutual understanding, or it would become a fog." ”

"Then now your mother knows, the average older person thinks more than us, and these things should be measured by them. Did your mom say anything about what her family is asking for now? ”

Lu Feng's face changed for a while, and he smiled slightly bitterly and said: "Mom just said that it doesn't matter if her parents don't have an old guard, don't farmers also have policies to enjoy now!" When you are old, you can always take a few hundred yuan, although you have a younger brother who has a heavy burden, but Ren Wenyan's parents basically want their son to take care of them in the future, and there will not be many things to cook for their daughter! ”

What my mother said is just an assumption, and everything is a problem now, and it will be even more difficult to say in the future. Ling Xiaonan closed his eyes, was silent for a while, and asked, "Then what are you going to do?" ”

"I'm standing still for the time being, I want to see what Ren Wenyan thinks about, whether it's worth my effort, if she always insists on material, then she can only give up, otherwise even if she lives together in the future, it will be very tiring." If Ren Wenyan wants to be realistic, then let's be realistic together. If others respect me, I will return the favor. Others are harsh on me in every way, and I can also treat others the way they do.

"Stay on campus." Ling Xiaonan said succinctly. The pace slowed down unconsciously, and he sighed and said: "Tired, how do you feel more tired than me, although I haven't gotten it yet, I'm still in a good mood, not better than you, it's in hand, but it feels hot, it's not to hold it, it's not to put it down." ”

"A large part of the reason why people used to get it was that our family conditions were good, at least the house problem was solved, you think it would cost hundreds of thousands, and it would take a lot of effort from your parents. Otherwise, how could Ren Wenyan talk to you, I don't think I even have the opportunity to go on a blind date! I'm also bearish now, and one step at a time. Lu Feng's eyes were hazy, and his voice was ethereal.

"If you look too lightly, you will want to become a monk."

Lu Feng was silent, the book said that light is the lingering of water and fire, the contest between fire and water, is a collision, is a blend, although it is not soluble, but you can give me warmth, I give you coolness, interdependence, mutual support, and achieve a perfect combination. Life, tepid and light, is a kind of life mentality, with endless desires, calm and calm.

Lu Feng raised his head slightly, and said in a calm voice: "Actually, it's not bad to be a monk, you can cultivate your mind and cultivate your nature, and live a life of clarity and indifference, and no quarrel with the world, but this is just thinking about it in your heart." When I'm cold to someone, I deliberately avoid her. Ren Wenyan asked me if I had ever shed tears that time, because she was flowing, and I said that I used to be a lot and sentimental. Now that I can see through the world, there will be less. ”