Chapter 2: The Raising of a Rogue
The so-called knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent is invincible, the game of love is like thirty-six unpredictable strategies, and if you want to be a hooligan, you have to understand women thoroughly.
Judging from the love affair of the brother-in-law, there is still a certain commonality or a pattern to be found in playing friends, first of all, he looks like a handsome guy, and he usually pays attention to dressing, plus he speaks humorously, sometimes cold, and he can't ask for it, the more he can arouse the desire to conquer. It's not like the pure Kan Dashan like Chuanrui, it's a pleasant communication that can make girls happy.
Secondly, people are lustful, both men and women, and they naturally have a good impression of good looks. The appearance of the congenital decision, the day after tomorrow to change is to wear, if not fashionable then simple and clean, to give people a fresh and gentle feeling, the so-called people rely on clothing, Buddha rely on gold, dressing with is a science.
Simplicity is at the core. Try not to have more than three colors on the body, the depth of color, what style, especially the shoes on the feet reflect personal taste, and wearing is the most direct first impression. The girl gives the first impression in about 4 seconds, and she puts an invisible label level in her heart.
Cleanliness is the basic point. Hair is often the most intuitive reflection of personal love for hygiene, a person who does not love himself, what to talk about loving others. Generally, people who care a lot about hairstyles are mostly friends who play tricks. The face is smooth and clean, don't have any beard, it will be very old, the sister paper likes little fresh meat, you are not engaged in art, don't look sloppy, you want to give people the vitality and spirit of a young man, so that the vitality of youth attracts the attention of the girl.
It is not enough to have a good-looking appearance, both internal and external cultivation is the king, and the charm can last. Talented people are dazzling stars, equally dazzling, admirable and worshipped. Often worship will turn into beautiful love, and with mutual attraction, there will be a follow-up story.
Therefore, if you have time, you must learn talents, read, expand your knowledge reserves, and lay the foundation for flirting with girls. Of course, the one with a goal is better, you can do what she likes, learn and delve into what she likes, and then increase the common language, communicate more, and develop love over time.
Why the local tyrant can get a girl who is not a good flight attendant depends on a mouth. Women are auditory animals, when you can use rhetoric to cause a woman's mood swings, give her a very chatty illusion, and then behave very spoiled, give her a sense of security, identity, belonging, attention to details, move her, and live in her heart is just around the corner.
Why did the eldest brother have an ambiguous relationship with so many girls, but he didn't pierce the window paper. The hazy ambiguity is like a boiled frog in warm water, when a girl is used to chatting with a fixed person at a fixed time, and at the same time feels the feeling of being cared for will become a habit.
A sudden departure can be extremely uncomfortable. is like a part of life, so many girls will take the initiative to chat with the eldest brother, although the eldest brother is not good-looking, like a piece of carbon, he does not have the appearance advantage of his brother-in-law at all, and there is no braggadocio of the well-informed Hu Tianhai. But the eldest brother has his own way of making girls happy.
Exaggerated actions and language, that unexpected cold humor amused girls can't help but laugh, and then there is the common point, in-depth talk, moving people with emotion, people are mutual, you are good to others, others will be good to you.
Chuanrui is affectionate, and girls will also appreciate it very much, of course, infatuated people are often a tragedy.
The head of the room is the most practical person, I don't want to waste time, I don't want to waste feelings, I just want to talk about it once, it's enough, I rush to get married, but I can't get what I want, I miss it, I don't have a doctor, I just don't like it, this kind of pain, and the torture and torment of persevering are all the fault of love at first sight.
Despair after taking attachment as faith, cold eyes, a change of thought, and the birth of a hooligan. There are not many hooligans, just that one, and slowly develop in college.
In general, first of all, appearance, to look good. The second is to talk, talk to the girl, and let her get along with you happily. This is just the early stage, and then it depends on the inside, the way of life, character, quality, two together, is one person each remove half of the recombination, mutual tolerance, you have me, I have you.
Later, when it came to getting married and having children, the focus was different. The three views should be the same, the goal pursued and the general direction of the ideal should be the same, even if they are different, there is always one party to sacrifice for love. After that, the family background, the support of the family and the lack of support, the level of education, the region, the distance, etc. are all questions.
In the end, passion will turn into dullness, sweet love will eventually fade, life is like boiled water, tasteless to drink, and thirsty if you don't drink. Life will be boring, fall into firewood, rice, oil and salt, human affairs, love into family affection, whether it can be white-headed, and look at the king, whether the former sea oath can be consistent, and see whether the beauty sees through love, and sees through the person who marries the most important thing is quality.
Combine theory with practice, and test the truth in practice.
Soldiers and horses have not moved the grain and grass first, know themselves and know the other side, and be fully prepared, so that they can deal with it calmly, deal with it calmly, and grasp the development from the general direction.
Sports make people more attractive, and the playground is a good place. Pick-up is the first step in the development of a hooligan's memory, and opening up is the most difficult moment, the most important thing is to be improvised, and speak according to the situation on the spot. Look at the other party's attitude, tone, and actions, and decide whether there is a follow-up.
If you want to play hooligan, you must have thick skin, and it is not generally thick, and people can do everything without shame. Isn't there a way to soak up girls? Chaste women are afraid of being cheeky, and the success factor is that women are not sure when they will be empty, lonely and cold, if you happen to be by your side, it is possible to take advantage of the weakness.
In layman's terms, women will also be in heat, thinking about men, like animals, will spring at a specific time, in the final analysis, people are also animals.
But for the more open-minded now, the efficiency of communication, and the diversity of methods, stalking is indeed the next choice. Unless you like it very, very much, there is no need to give up an entire forest for a tree.
Pick up a conversation in a general way, ask for directions, ask for help. Human nature has the advantage of helping others, especially the brilliance of women's motherhood, which will easily break through people's defensive psychology and easily catch up with words.
Straightforward, straightforward, bold and straightforward expression of admiration, ask for contact information. This is very risky, don't talk from behind, it will arouse the vigilance of girls, and they are wary of strangers. It's a complete first impression, and you must speak loudly and confidently.
Be sure to behave naturally, don't be nervous, the first impression voice is very important, the appearance is average, if you behave confidently, out of politeness, the girl will generally give you contact information if she is not playing with friends.
Be polite regardless of whether you pick up a conversation or not.
Euphemistically, you can keep staring at your target until she looks at you unnaturally, and when you find that you are very interested in her, boldly confess, you can go with the flow at this time, because the nervous and cute performance will also make her like.
You can also look at each other and smile. Smile is a secret weapon to shorten the distance between people, Chinese girls are traditional, generally will not take the initiative, even if you are a handsome guy, she likes it very much, she will not express it directly, but through hints, eyebrows, secretly send autumn waves.
If you smile at her, and she smiles back, then there may be a drama, provided that they are all strangers. If you look at her, or smile at her, or pass by her, and she blushes or pulls her hair, touches her neck or smiles, or pretends to be calm, or acts nervous and unnatural, then you should take the initiative and take the opportunity.
Girls will not take the initiative to talk to boys who are interested in them, but they will hint and seduce the boys they like to take the initiative to go up. So be sure to pay attention to the girl's movements and expressions when you meet, the kind that is suggestive, you must be bold and take the initiative, don't be confused, even if it's wrong, politely apologize.
Of course, picking up and flirting with girls is also the lubricant of love, and the premise is that you have to be handsome.
Bold, sincere, polite, and it's generally okay to talk to girls.
Boldly stepping forward to talk has a 50% probability of success, taking the first step, breaking through the invisible wall between people, and the rest depends on communication skills.
Chatting is actually a technical job, neither simple flattery, picking up nice words, nor just boasting about yourself, pretending to be weird, and not asking and answering questions like a police officer asking a suspect.
I like all the nice words, and there's nothing wrong with showing your high-value self, and it's okay to want to know more about each other, and it's okay to ask questions curiously. But, are we familiar with each other? It's no fun for someone you just met to chat like this.
It's better to talk about something inconsequential, and if it's tentative, collect more useful information through chatting, of course, if the other party is willing to communicate, otherwise you don't have to waste time, end politely, and make excuses casually.
Chatting is a good start, talking about hometown, if there is a place there will be a plus, and then it is to look at the identity of the other party, students will talk about school-related, anyway, the right medicine, see the stitches, there is a topic, it is to continue the conversation.
Girls are all self-centered, so the center of the conversation should revolve around her. And women's thinking is loose, jumping a lot, they can quickly jump from one topic to another, and the general girlfriends chat, in fact, they are talking about themselves, they actually need to be a listener.
You just need to guide her to continue. You can pick a word from what she said, or you can deliberately mishear it, gag, and then mix it with exaggerated teasing.
When chatting for more than half an hour, ask for contact information at the time of separation for the next date. The chat should end appropriately, hang the girl's appetite, leave the aftertaste of seeing each other late, and have an endless aftertaste, paving the way for the future.
Of course, this is the best situation, and there are more that you can't talk about, the kind that is very cold, defensive, and decisively gives up. There is also the kind of chat that is very hilarious, but when you want to contact us at the end, you find an excuse to refuse, and girls generally don't refuse directly, but will hint or say that there is a male ticket or something like that.
At this time, it is time to show the real technology, most of the pick-up will be nervous, embarrassed, give up, and some will insist again, but it is still the original excuse, want to get acquainted, give a contact information or something.
Unwilling is the biggest thought in my heart, in fact, at this time, if you persist a little longer, you will succeed, this is the darkness before the dawn. Girls may be tactful, embarrassed, may be deliberately testing you, and may really have a male ticket as an excuse.
It doesn't matter if you like it, keep asking for it, keep sticking to it. When you want to contact someone, you have to say: your WeChat is, let her answer, and don't ask you what the phone is, give her buffer time.
If you say that there is a male ticket, you can say naughtily, I have it too, tease her, ease the atmosphere, and then divert the topic, continue to talk and go back to the previous step, your wit will make her like to chat with you, and your persistence will also make her appreciate you.
Isn't there a goalkeeper on the pitch? It's not like there are goals yet, women are born to pick stronger, and there is competition to make you stronger.
If you have a male ticket, dig into the corner. There are challenges when there is difficulty, as long as the technology is good, there is no corner that cannot be dug down.