After chatting with Yang Tongnian, he had some thoughts: in the future, we should pay more attention to letting others talk more.

Since the experience derived from limited experience is equivalent to an inductive or analogical argument in mathematics, it is not necessarily correct. Then, first of all, we must accept, analyze, and reproduce other people's opinions, and then add some of our own ideas appropriately.

Thinking of this question, Chiba used his baby Kokoka as an example to conduct a more systematic and detailed analysis of "all the problems that will be faced in the future".

Chiba's analysis: From the perspective of others, it can be divided into three points: First, the people in the class will feel that Junya doesn't want me, and she picked it up, which is not good for her face. Second, I don't have a good reputation for Junya, I can be with a person so easily, I can change what I like and hate, and the people in the class may look down on me because of this. Third, she is not easy to face Junya, and they are very good friends.

Chiba's analysis: If you analyze it from your own point of view, it can be divided into six points: the first point, the previous fate is very deep, but no one can say the fate, just like I used to think that the first snow will be with me for a lifetime, in the dark, all kinds of relationships are basically arranged by God, whether there is or what kind, it will be clear in the future. In the past, there will be many things that will happen to you, such as some possible activities in the future, what type of job you will find in the future, and whether you will live in the same city for a long time in the future.

Chiba's analysis: The second point, like it or not, love it or not, I have completely abandoned it, but I know that I know very little about her thoughts, and I don't know if she is really suitable for me, after all, she is a child of the city, and I am from the countryside, and the geography is so far away, I know that she is very good, but this is not enough to be familiar with this point.

Chiba's analysis: The third point, I'm not sure about the situation of the remaining ones, and my fate with them is also unknown, maybe God will arrange for me to be with other people.

Chiba's analysis: The fourth point, having a girlfriend is a very troublesome thing in itself, you can't have in-depth relationships with other girls, maybe you can, but you have to consider the feelings of girls everywhere, so you have to find someone who believes in me in the future.

Chiba's analysis: Contrary to the fourth point, one advantage, one advantage of having a girlfriend, that is, I can use the banner of already having a girlfriend to make a lot of confidantes, because after the love is announced, it will not let other people have misunderstandings, and it is easier to interact with other friends of the opposite sex in depth, all I want is a promise from her, and then don't have too much, that is, alone, frequent, and in-depth only with one person, basically there will be no problem,

Chiba's analysis: The fifth point is that I'm most afraid of what gifts to buy on my birthday, how to pay for meals together, etc., I usually have to spend a lot of time getting along, and it takes so much time to talk about falling in love, it's really troublesome, I can love like crazy, but I don't want to talk about it much, I think they are all together, and then occasionally come out together to talk about it, and then it's satisfying to talk about it together, my thoughts in this regard are incompatible with the world, and they must be different from most people.

Chiba's analysis: It's not conducive to my learning and progress, dealing with it can be used as motivation, not falling in love, laying the foundation for the future struggle can also be done as motivation If I don't handle it well, I will often think about her impact on my own learning, when I feel happy, two people struggle together, and they can also have great motivation.