Chapter 144: Bright Starry Sky - Three Zero
Unlike the other chapters, this article is written by Chiba in the first person by himself and Kashika.
"Bright Starry Sky Prayer Blessing • Three Zero" here let's talk about another point, whether two people are very similar together, subjectively speaking, the more similarities the better, but how can it be allowed in real life, in fact, there are not so many restrictions, there are many blind dates in modern society, and there are many people who are determined from a few direct contacts with strangers, and there is a bit of fate.
If you look at people's "Do Not Disturb If You Are Honest", there are also those who directly submit resumes, which is similar to looking for a job. Therefore, the requirements are not too harsh, the most critical part is not the situation at the beginning but how to get along later, not necessarily to meet the most suitable person to talk to, but to meet a person you think is more suitable.
For now, I am still a relatively easy-going and easy person to get along with, I went from cheerful to withdrawn in junior high school, I turned from withdrawn to lonely in high school, and in my freshman year, I broadened the definition of loneliness and experienced another term, loneliness, and now I am still moving forward from loneliness to dullness.
Love is an eternal topic, many movies and logs make it very clear, I won't mention the similar parts, and I haven't experienced many things, and I don't understand a lot of truths, so let's work hard in the future.
The high school homeroom teacher taught me loneliness and fraternity, Junya broadened its definition, the first snow awakened my original dream of becoming a teacher and gave me the courage to get along with the opposite sex, Pu Yudie was by my side to guide me about feelings, and Yu Xinxiang was the messenger who listened to me tell the whole story...... Many people, things and things that have appeared in life are indispensable, and without any of them, I would not be where I am now, they are all people I want to thank and my very good friends.
In love, what I am most afraid of is that others ignore me, the opposite of love is not hatred but indifference, and the coldness that emanates from the heart is the greatest revenge for your enemy.
I attach great importance to the connection between the mind, which is a spiritual substance that transcends blood and flesh. It won't be difficult to get along, there should be no problem with both parties being humble, many things can be changed, as long as the heart is kind.
Some people will say that he doesn't understand me, I think it's because you still have something to hide from her, even if you understand two people who don't know it all, you can't completely let each other guess, there is too much silence and it doesn't work to cultivate feelings with the sixth sense alone, two people are together, you should be able to tell him anything, at least in this aspect I used to do okay, sometimes you are doing things like that on the surface, he doesn't quite understand you and you don't want to say, how can you understand the cold war when you are estranged from each other, and it is natural to not understand.
I've never said that others don't understand me, it's the soul that is lonely rather than the reality, and the heart is just his own business, and has nothing to do with others, so he is not withdrawn, not what others do and what you don't do, nor is it always with a world-weary expression, but the feeling that a person will have when he is quiet.
Therefore, like let's. Valjean, like an angel and a devil in pursuit, treats the people around him with sincerity and kindness, tries to understand them and helps them meet his full needs, and can analyze their words when others speak, instead of telling others about themselves every time, after all, communication is also interactive; On the other hand, I have to be active in participating in activities, which is also lonely, and also gregarious (I think so), I want to integrate myself into the hearts of every member of the collective, but I don't care if I can integrate into the collective, I don't want the term collective itself, but everyone in the collective.
Talking and running away, this is different from the aforementioned lies in terms of motivation, and it is not just confession that maintains a relationship, but also takes into account the feelings of the other person and has reservations.
I don't pay much attention to festivals, it's enough to get along well, remember I asked Cheng Ying not to notify the class to celebrate my birthday, it's better to have an ordinary life.
What I really need is the understanding and support of my friends on weekdays, their help when I'm in trouble, not the excitement and blessings on my birthday.
Besides, why do you wish me a happy birthday, except for the temporary fluctuating pain, I am usually very happy, not happy on my birthday, but I am happy every day?