Unlike the other chapters, this article is written by Chiba in the first person by himself and Kashika.

"Bright Starry Sky, Prayer and Blessing • 29"

Some are just my personal opinions, and they will improve in the future, let's see what the masters of the heart have to say:

The process of falling in love

Someone once said very vividly that the process of falling in love is "talking, falling in love, and loving." These three processes, first the two sides talk and even have a good feeling, then they like each other, they are reluctant to give up, and finally they fall in love.

The stage of "talking" refers to the stage in which men and women get to know each other and talk to each other through acquaintance and contact in life, work and study, and hope to get closer to each other. Favorability is an emotional experience of appreciating each other. The good feeling between men and women is not all love, but it is a necessary prerequisite for love. Affection between people of the opposite sex will enhance mutual attraction and form an intrinsic motivation that promotes proximity and emotional exchange between the two parties.

The stage of "love" refers to the psychological stage in which men and women have a reluctant love and admiration on the basis of good feelings arising from talking. Through the conversation stage, both men and women have a better understanding of each other's hobbies, interests, personalities, personalities and other aspects, resulting in a deeper emotional experience. This inner emotion makes the heart feel refreshed, and then germinates a strong emotional tendency to want to unite with the other person, and under the control of reason, develops into the affection of the other person.

The stage of "love" refers to the stage in the heart of a man and a woman that develops from unilateral love to mutual love, based on the inseparable intimate feelings of each other. In love, from one-sided love to love, sometimes it may be synchronous, and many times it may not be synchronous, and it may even experience some twists and turns. But as long as both parties are heart-to-heart and love each other, as long as one party opens their hearts first, they will immediately win the response of the other party and bloom beautiful flowers of love.

The types are (winged double flying type, affordable life, fashion comparison type, playmate pastime type, pursuit of romance type, and skill secular type)

Among them, this kind of college students basically have a mature personality, have a correct view of love, can guide love with reason, and correctly handle the relationship between love and study, feelings and love, and love and *. Both parties have a strong sense of dedication, enterprising spirit and self-control, have common ideals and ambitions, values, and take the success of their careers as the lasting goal of love, they not only regard love as the joy of life, but also can transform happy love into the motivation for learning. They believe that love should not only promote the progress of both partners, but also promote the growth of both partners. ）

Shadows of love (unrequited love, narcissism, polyamory, broken love)

Cultivation of the ability of college students to love (improve their psychological maturity and cultivate their ability to interact with others)

Perfecting the ability to love oneself (the ability to express love, the ability to receive love, the ability to reject love, the ability to identify love, the ability to continue to love)

I'm quite realistic now, fighting for being able to settle in Zhangchang after six years, fighting for the bread of the future, fighting for the happiness of the future, there is not much difference between one person's study and two people's learning, you put him in your heart and then work hard alone. But there are several advantages of two people being together: first, they have a sense of security in their hearts, which is something that bosom friends can't do; Second, when you are sad and lost, you can understand each other, comfort each other, and support each other, and this good friend can also do it, but it is not so close; Third, it is more conducive to normal communication with the opposite sex, everyone will not misunderstand at the beginning, and it is naturally more courageous to understand more; Fourth, this must not be mentioned, you can enjoy the happiness of lovers when they get along, and sometimes two tacit people will not feel embarrassed even if they don't talk together. The disadvantage is that the degree of freedom is relatively less, and secondly, time, energy, and money are also needed. For me, the ultimate dream exists in the spiritual world, it can be connected to many things in reality, all dreams can be realized now, for example, I want to be an existence that others need, and in real life I am being myself, there will definitely be people around me who see it, and naturally there will be people who are affected by me, so happiness and happiness are all the time.