Pu Yudie and Hong Yinghui both revealed that they had boyfriends before they met Chiba relatively closely. Therefore, there is no misunderstanding between Chiba and them, and they can talk more openly.

Chiba's new plan: When others are kind to me, I can't react much. I can be nice to many people, but I can't cross the boundaries of friends, in fact, the difference between a bosom friend and a boyfriend and girlfriend is not big, and I still care very much when others are frustrated.

Recently, Chiba feels that he is always being influenced when he teaches self-study, and there are couples flirting in almost every study room. He recognized the need to consolidate his guiding ideology.

As a result, Chiba further consolidated his "live broadcast theory": live broadcast, fighting against the odds, even if you are well prepared, there will be unexpected events to disturb. Don't be afraid of jokes when you're a teacher, because live broadcast plays your part. In martial arts dramas, when you are fighting with others, how can you have the time and energy to pay attention to the expressions of the people around you who are laughing or crying, so please fight against the water, don't worry about so many things, concentrate all your energy, integrate your body and mind, and even if you die, you must die on the battlefield.

When I was teaching self-study and listening to listening, some people were flipping through books, some people were opening and closing doors in and out of the classroom, some people were coughing, some people were ringing their phones, and some people were talking loudly. It's the same as when the proctor reminds you that the time is almost up.

On October 21, 2011, Chiba deleted the phone numbers of Lu Junya, Que Xinyue, Ao Chuxue, Yu Xinxiang, and Zhao Shuidan, and decided not to contact them again. In order to prevent them from disturbing his life, he locked his QQ space for them, and told himself that he must dare to love and hate as a human being!

Chiba's new plan: Treat the people around you with only a smile and some necessary words, stop watching anime and manga, simple and quiet, have love and very, keep a distance from the people around you, and don't let them understand themselves in the first place, not to mention that we are not the same in the first place. In the next five or six years, I will improve myself, including studying, reading, enriching my soul, learning skills, and dealing with the world. No more suddenly shouting, singing loudly, or getting too excited, completely entering a person's world, turning life into reality, no texting, no phone calling.

Chiba's best of the opposite sex are suspicious of him and tell him "You always think too much, there is no point, you are bored and idle with nothing to do." ”

Chiba's heart: Falling in love and getting married is to find someone with a similar inner world, which can be known as long as you communicate with "her" more about all aspects of your thoughts. People with more similarities will have more topics to talk about, the same type is easier to get along with, people with similar experiences are more likely to understand each other, and find someone who can talk to them and has the same ideas.

On October 22, 2011, Chiba logged on to QQ and changed the group of "my confidant" to "my concern". He thought about it for a day, and the four people who were originally in that group were either deleted, blacklisted, or directly returned to other groups. It's empty, and there's no choice. So he realized that he should lower the requirements for this group, so he pulled girls who were similar to him in a certain aspect, and who he was more optimistic about, and who had the possibility of developing with himself, into this group. The first person to be pulled in was his junior sister Hua Huiqin, he didn't want to hit his junior sister's attention, he felt that his senior brother was a bit hooligan and immoral to find his junior sister, but he had no choice, he no longer had friends of the opposite sex to pull into this group.