Rei Ayanami / 2014-12-18

"Facts are boring," he used to say, "unless they are connected with some universal law." ”

EVA Galaxy One

1. The answer is concise, without any sense of color, machine-style; Rarely ask questions of others; Not actively expressing their thoughts and emotions; Don't show any emotions about yourself, don't reveal your old feelings, and don't say anything to others

2. Observe the world, others, collect information, use analysis, seek origin, seek truth, seek meaning and answers

3. Plan work and rest time, rest, work and entertainment time, go to bed late at 0:00, take a lunch break at 13:30, and three periods of study time, do not affect the rest of others, and others do not affect me.

4Don't give alms from others, such as snacks of all kinds,

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Truth:

The meaning of life: it is not about realizing value, not about contributing oneself to others, but about constantly encountering doubts, constantly observing the world, constantly collecting information, and constantly solving doubts according to what you have.

Representative characters: Rei Ayana, Uncle Snake, all anime characters with dual personalities

The first type: self-cooked

The second: this is it

"An In-Depth Study on Borrowing Things and Not Wanting to Borrow" / 2014-12-18

Cause and Effect:

My roommate (Han Jingdu) borrowed a printed version of the courseware from me for review, I didn't want to borrow it, and there was an electronic version in the computer and he said that there was no paper

Look, I will definitely use it to review this mathematical statistics subject, and what is even more unreasonable is that he also wants to borrow the past test papers of the two courses of mathematical statistics and numerical analysis, and he doesn't want to buy and copy, just 9 quick money, or I don't want to get a copy of such an important thing, and said that you definitely can't read two subjects at the same time, look at one and borrow me the other test paper. Before he said to borrow me after reading, I didn't promise him, only said that it was inconvenient, and then he kept borrowing, this time I won't borrow again, the school printing shop has a special one to sell this, don't buy it yourself, borrow you to make a copy and it makes sense, just a matter of dozens of minutes at a time, and borrow five or six hours a day, and borrow it to the study room to review, several times hinted that he didn't want to borrow, he didn't respond, sluggish to pretend to be the same, the university exam papers are very important, the courseware also has a PPt version, usually eat so many snacks, I was reluctant to buy the money for a meal, which made me very inconvenient and borrowed

Naturally, I feel very uncomfortable. I was very angry and could only endure it, and the more I looked at it, the more angry I became.

Through the following collection of information, intelligence and analysis and their own conclusions, he came to a conclusion: friends, relatives and other things depend on what kind of person they are, only to analyze what can be borrowed, to what extent, and there are some things, no matter how good a friend can not borrow, especially some things that are different from your point of view, very bad and troublesome to you, but he takes it for granted, uses other people's everything, and saves himself. Make a decision immediately, if you shouldn't borrow it, don't borrow it in the first place, don't look at the relationship or face, otherwise it will only make you very uncomfortable, very angry and can only endure it, and the more you look at it, the more angry you become.

Baidu's conclusion:

Question 1:

God, help me. I'm a person who doesn't like to trouble people, and I don't like to ask people for things. compare

Self-improvement 0.0 A few days ago, I received a centering set, and I was in trouble, and I had a friend who was FC and always asked me to borrow a centering set, and the relationship was not bad

I don't want to borrow it, but I'm afraid that it will hurt my feelings if I don't borrow. I borrowed him once the day before yesterday, and he paid me back... Asked again today

I0.0 What should I do, how can I get back to him without hurting my feelings' because it was Lan Tingxu in the new district who bought it for a long time

A set, so old borrowed and borrowed, and I really don't want to borrow, 'Everyone, help me think of an excuse, there are points.

Various answers:

What's really good for you isn't when it's very necessary, and they won't borrow anything from you.

No matter how good the relationship is, never borrow, friends talk about money and hurt feelings.

Tell him he wants to use it, and if JJWW deletes his friend, there's nothing to say.

I don't understand why this kind of equipment that I usually wear is still borrowed and borrowed.

No matter how good a friend is, the answer is: equipment and BB will not be borrowed.

If you are a friend, they will not ask you to borrow something, and you will only borrow a small amount of money in an emergency. I don't care about this kind of person

Friend.

Learn to say no, if you have a stiff relationship because he didn't borrow it, then such a friend. That's it.

A mature and rational person would not casually open his mouth and borrow something from others

Get straight to the point and avoid trouble.

Question 2:

A friend of mine wants to borrow our set-top box to pay back his cousin's wife, I don't want to lend it to him, we still have to use it ourselves, I told him that we want to use it ourselves, he still has to borrow it, what should I do?

Reply:

Ignore him. Borrow what to see for yourself! He's sick! You just say no.

Or did he lend it to someone else? Won't you buy it yourself?

[I said I wouldn't buy one and he said it was too expensive, we have two TVs upstairs and one downstairs in our house--- the questioner's reply]

Don't bother with him! Sick him. This has been used for a long time, when will I pay it back!

Ha.. I have it at home, so let him come to my house and borrow it! Really, it's a matter of a few hundred dollars, buy one, anyway, borrowing it is not a long-term solution.

This man is insane, don't pay attention to him, he still relies on borrowing everything in any era.

[Yes, I really hate that he still helps others borrow me, I have said that I still want to use it, I just don't want to lend it to him, and he also said that he is talking when he meets, and the computer always uses me to annoy him]

[He said that his cousin's wife had just moved and didn't have a set-top box, and it was too expensive to buy one for three or four hundred, and he didn't want to buy it]

If there is something wrong, I will not borrow it. You should let him lend out his house!! What a man!

[The last time I borrowed a few teacups, I didn't give them until now, and they were all thrown by their husband and wife, he said that his pot was rusty, and I gave him a few pots in my house, and he bought a finger cake to borrow my frying pan to use that]

If you don't borrow, you don't borrow, you don't need to explain to him... If you have money, you can buy one for yourself, don't use it if you don't have money, even borrow this thing, and don't know what to borrow in the future, don't get used to his bad habits.

[I told him that we want to use it ourselves, we have two TVs in our house, and there are two set-top boxes, upstairs and downstairs]

[He often borrows things at my house at home]

[I'm good at talking, sometimes I let him use it, and this time I have to help his cousin's wife borrow it, which really me off]

If you don't want to borrow it, just say it, don't be aggrieved.

This kind of person is simply an old man, just say him! Do not borrow.

My husband also has such a friend, borrowing money every now and then, as if we are his ATM. Once he came to my house, I quarreled with my husband in front of him, saying that my sister needed to borrow some money to build a house, and my husband said that he would quarrel if he didn't, so I said that I would take care of the money in the future, and if it was more than 500, I would not give my husband a cent. Actually, my husband and I were acting. Later, the friend didn't borrow any more money.

Cheeky. They all said that they wanted to use it, and he didn't understand what he meant. What a person.

Don't borrow the landlord, where is this kind of person borrowing things is clearly wanting, and what are the things borrowed, don't expect him to return if you can borrow these, this is to eat your buns, the landlord don't tolerate it anymore, and resolutely refuse every time in the future.

[He has a strong break, the last time he was at my house, his mother-in-law called him to go to dinner, my friend was also at my house, he flew me to go with him, I said I wouldn't go, he was still angry]

Changed this borrowing problem. These are obviously borrowed habits. Then when you don't borrow him, he will get angry and blame you. I remember saying about this situation on TV.

Question 3:

People keep asking me to borrow things, and I don't want to borrow them, what should I do?

My colleague asked me to borrow a mobile phone, I have two mobile phones, I don't want to lend her anymore, how can she say that she is good? I don't like her anymore, she always asks me to borrow something, the first time I borrowed my camera, I lent it to her, I borrowed it for a week, I asked her to return, I want to use it, she is still unhappy, she doesn't talk to me, she still hates me, or I talk to her first, the second time I ask me to borrow money, and I don't ask if I have money to lend her, ask me to help her buy a ticket back, I didn't help, and ignore me, this time I want to go back, and asked me to borrow a mobile phone, I don't know how to say.

It's as if someone else lends her something as someone else should do.,I really can't stand this kind of person.,I'm embarrassed to refuse.,My phone is really empty and not in use.。

Reply:

Well, it's actually a small problem. Just tell her to pay it back early. It's best to say how long it will take to pay it back before lending it to her. If she is still very upset when the time comes, say: Do you like my phone very much? Even when it comes to returning, it's like life and death. Don't be upset, buy one yourself if you like.

Say something like that, depending on how she reacts. (Maybe a little naïve)

Can you give me a hundred dollars if I borrow from you? I'll ask you to help you with everything, will you do it? In any case, you must learn to refuse to help those who should be helped, and those who should not be helped should not be helped! Are you lonely and afraid of losing her friend? Still don't want to ruin the friendship? Is it simply to die to save face? I remember when I was in high school, the boarding students often asked me to help bring breakfast from the outside, the reason was that the school did not let me go out of the school, at first I basically agreed to the problem of face, after all, there were people on the nose and face, so I let me bring it every day, and finally I couldn't bear it, I was furious, and I was pushed all over, and no one let me bring it since, and I was not excluded because of that incident, I was not lonely, and I was not uncommon to have a friendship in exchange for breakfast! There are some things that you can't pull down, it's a loss, don't worry too much about doing things, it's good to make a decision immediately!