The Second Half of the Sentence (5) / 2016-02-23

03 About the number of exchanges

In terms of relatives, my mother often said on the phone, I miss each other and live a good life on both sides, (Miao dialect literal translation, to the effect of so), no need to call often to condole, in fact, I only occasionally call, like my character, I don't know what to say when I call, most of the elders talk I answer, and then ask casually. I think, on the one hand, companionship is the best filial piety, go home for the New Year, do something daily with your family, even if you don't do anything, and the same ancestor in the village and more than a dozen people surnamed Yin often help each other prepare for the New Year, such as killing pigs, playing the New Year (I don't know this word), or go to the neighborhood to sit and chat over the barbecue, look at childhood playmates, (when walking, I found that as long as I cry, I can have a lot of inspiration), as well as relatives visit each other, etc., these are very warm and happy things; On the other hand, while being a strong mental backing and spiritual sustenance for each other, as an object that can be discussed and shared with what dilemmas and troubles can be encountered, do not feel lonely, make the other party feel safe, feel satisfied, feel happy to belong, feel that their life is meaningful, regardless of what is theoretically linked to all people in its values, the closer to you and the deeper the connection with you, the more precious it is to have a greater impact on you. Most of the time in life is spent in different places, relatives are not like lovers, there may be all kinds of suspicions, all kinds of suspicions, all kinds of deception and betrayal, especially in the development of science and technology is becoming more and more intense, after all, where is the blood relationship, the secular vision supervises, where is the nurturing and caring of the elders for the younger generations, such a strong connection, a sense of security is innate.

In terms of lovers, it should be similar to relatives, and the sense of security and trust are directly linked, and maybe lovers can become relatives when they get married.

Friends and other aspects, it's good to contact them occasionally after a long time, even if you don't see each other anymore and don't contact each other anymore, even if you meet in the future, the friendship will still be there, when I was in college, I occasionally called Wu Chenglong and them, and then I didn't have much contact.

As for my perception of life, a certain thing, a certain work, etc., I like to write diaries and novels.

04 About space

04 Thoughts on the article

There are a lot of words, Tujia and Miao, when did you start photography.

Survival comes with repaying kindness, there is nothing to worry about, everything is doomed, I don't know when I can't wake up in a dream and die, I must live without regrets.

Family planning, 1-2 children, some children are taken to work in primary schools, fewer children are studying, and many rural schools are demolished.

There are also some who don't want to study because of bad grades, and they also cut off a group of people, plus even if they graduate from school, they no longer have an iron job ~ a stable and worry-free job. There shouldn't be many people who drop out of school just to build a house.

Children's minds are formed in middle school and high school.

When did a person's thoughts, or outlook on life, take shape?

When you experience something that hurts your heart, when you experience something you don't want to experience again, when you get hurt, you can do that.

The outlook on life is constantly accumulating, and we continue to receive things from a young age. For example, if our father tells us that this is wrong, we have a definition. In the future, when we encounter this kind of thing in the future, we will follow the definition that our father gave us when we were children and deny it. This is a process of continuous accumulation and summarization, and it may only take one opportunity for our outlook on life to change. For example, A sins for the first time and has a great sense of guilt. However, after the second and third crimes, he had become accustomed to it. I feel that there is nothing, this is a change in the outlook on life.

There is no specific time for the formation of a person's worldview, outlook on life, and values. Moreover, a person's world view, outlook on life, and values are not static, but constantly changing with people's experience. Generally speaking, worldviews are generated and gradually formed on the basis of social practice; The formation of the outlook on life is gradually produced and developed in the process of people's actual life; Values are reflected through people's behavioral orientations, evaluations, and attitudes toward things.