Chiba's insight: What should you do if you are so interested or expectant about what you want to do or what you are about to do that you can't do what you have at hand with peace of mind? Trying to make what you are doing more interesting or adventurous or unexpected than others seems to be difficult, follow the sense of mission to finish, but it is easy to fall into the dilemma of using things to pass the time, it may be a good choice to plan what to do in this short period of time, and the sense of mission and accomplishment of completing the task in advance will make you have no time to think about miscellaneous things and the next thing that you are about to do.

"The Succession of Multiple Accidental Events" / 2016-02-23

There are no coincidences in this world, all coincidences are inevitable. - Kung Fu Panda

Moreover, there are no miracles in this world, only necessity and chance exist, and what you have to do, nothing more. - Wings of Longevity

Everything that happens may be accidental, but these several things that are not inevitable happen to happen one after another at this time, there is such a sense of immediacy, now is the best time for me to contact the catcher in the wheat field, the plan is just in line, the mirror is just ready, the conclusion of the thought is just similar, I don't know why, I have been in contact with this masterpiece many times before, but I didn't start touching it for some inexplicable reason, and today I don't know why, I want to read the novel, and the first thing that comes to mind is this one, I saw the comment of a certain master before the opening, and it happened that I met it when I needed you the most.

A masterpiece in the form of a self-narrative of the protagonist of hundreds of thousands of words, and cynical thoughts, represent the real thoughts of a class of people in that era, which is why he has many supporters.

Two coincidences can't be explained, one, inadvertently broke through how to deal with his writing hobby, and then came into contact with the book The Catcher in the Rye, and the other one, I actually got a word of approval when I chatted with Qiong Zimei inadvertently, and just a quarter of an hour ago I didn't know if it was the idea, and I revisited the childhood TV series White-haired Witch a few times, and the ending song Xia Qianye in it is particularly good, and I listened to it over and over again, and a number of accidental events coincided one after another. Not long ago, during the holidays, I dreamed of a heavenly fairyland on earth, which may be a hint of this.

In order to avoid making similar mistakes, in order to avoid living in a world of their own wishes, but suffering from the cruel facts later stated by others, they have to wake up, and there is no doubt that it is essential to listen to the ideas and ideas of others, which is much more accurate than inferring from one's own experience and understanding.

On the night of the chat, I happened to hear my roommate Fu Hongyong's girlfriend Ying Xiu say that she was comforting a female classmate in their dormitory a few days ago, and she used to communicate with the boy often, and after not being in touch for a period of time, she suddenly heard that the other party already had a girlfriend and it wasn't long ago, and it was impossible not to be sad when she heard the news, and she might not want to talk to him anymore, sometimes if you miss it, you miss it, this problem is difficult to explain, boys and girls are different, if you can't get together just because of a little thing, That may not be predestined, don't be too sad, the word "casual", depending on how to explain it, boys, you can't sit there without moving, in addition, there are many, many factors to consider, forget it, don't discuss this here.

If you are not calm, you can comfort yourself like this, many times we will think that it is a coincidence with someone, but we don't know, it is only at a certain stage, appear in your life, and you are similar to someone in one or some aspects, no one can only be with whom, over time, some people may not have any connection, looking at each other, and such people, should correspond to different quantities like functions in different similarities, the worse the similarity, the greater the corresponding value. There's no way around it, in this world, even two people who love each other may not be able to come together, let alone that. When I was a freshman or sophomore, I was involved in some emotional entanglements, and I looked down on it a little more, and I can only think like this, about partners, some people like to find similar, what to say like-minded, things to gather, people to groups, not all fish live in the same sea area, etc.; Some people like to find compatible friends, saying that it is difficult to find bosom friends, there are too many bumps and bumps in life, too many quarrels, too many interest disputes, just find a compatible coexistence, they are not interested in the existence of mutual knowledge; Some people like to find differences, the opposite poles of the magnet attract, and envy what the other party has that they don't have, which is also a theory; Of course, there are some people who are only looking for it based on their own feelings. Since then, I don't really want to find a partner.,I'm not the kind of person who is very good at talking and talking.,I haven't had much contact with others.,Even if I'm contacted, I don't know what to say.,In case you get along with each other.,When you're about to get married.,The other party is gone.,Isn't there nothing all these years.。

A lot of things are not what you want to think this way but only like that. Life has found that even in the face of cruel facts, human beings always make themselves willing to believe that the good side for them is the truth, because if they don't think like this, they will not be able to survive, but for most of the weak people in the world, the cruel side is often more inclined to the truth.

So, I thought so......

———— a series of coincidences of multiple fortuitous events ————