Life is like a chocolate box, you never know what the next one will look like! In fact, among the above four steps, the first, second, and third steps are very easy to achieve, and the most difficult is the fourth step, which is really not easy to do.

First of all, there are too many college students around you who live the chic life that their peers yearn for, and to do the fourth point, you need to overcome the influence of the general environment.

Second, there are too many temptations in college. QQ made another itchy sound; There is another exciting fight in the online game; Under a small tree on the side of the road stood a couple snuggling up to each other; …… To do the fourth point, you need to reject these temptations and walk through the university like an ascetic in the eyes of others.

Also, you have to endure loneliness and loneliness, which seems to be incompatible with university life. But successful and great people are lonely and lonely, and their perseverance and wisdom have been cultivated in the process of perseverance.

There is an animal called the vulture, which has a beak and a sharp claw. However, as it grows older, its pointed beak grows longer and longer, making it impossible for it to peck at its prey; Thick webbing sprouts grow between its claws, holding them together, making it impossible for it to catch its prey. It is an immutable law that death without food. For it, death seemed like the only way out. However, it has made a choice that will shock humans: it has repeatedly pecked its beak on the hard rock, breaking off long parts until it regains its previous sharpness; The webbed flesh between the paws was pecked with the beak of his mouth, and although the flesh was blurred, he shivered with pain. This process lasted for more than a month, and then they flew proudly in the sky as before.

The process of pain, greatness, rebirth. Isn't life the same?

Some people may ask: why can others live in style, but I have to fight painfully. I swap it for another question: whether going to college is about enjoying life or shaping yourself.

Many of my classmates tried to run for the student council and various clubs when they first entered university. Afterwards, many students lamented that it was unfair, and everything had to be done on a relationship. I would like to ask, if this is the case in schools, what about society? Isn't society playing more thoroughly with power, relationships, and money? How will you gain a foothold in society in the future? It doesn't matter if you want power or not, it doesn't matter if you want money, if you want money or not, then what else is there? At the beginning of college, you will either work in management or technology. But you don't have power, you don't have relationships, you don't have money, if you want to do a good job in management, if you want to get a monthly salary of more than four figures, isn't it a dream of Nanke? Your best bet is to work in technology, but it takes real material, and it doesn't depend on who has a lot of power, a lot of connections, and a lot of money.

When you graduate from college, you suddenly find that in addition to getting a college diploma, you have not learned really good skills except for being able to talk about a little topic that seems to be very esoteric, and how much better will you do than others? Maybe it's just a nice name, or maybe it's just anyone can do it. Are you still complaining then?

Each of us wants to live a high-quality life, we all want our loved ones to live a worry-free life, and we all want to leave traces of our own value in the world, but these are not achieved in enjoyment. God has given each of us a pair of hands and a brain to create and think. This is the best time for you to study, so please give up enjoying and work hard to reinvent yourself and accumulate strength for your future take-off.

Since we are talking about college life, we must talk about love. It is the adolescent boys and girls who gather in the university, and love inevitably happens here. But I don't know when college students' feelings are overflowing. Nowadays, the emotions of college students are mixed with too much utilitarianism, desire and indulgence. Every year at graduation, couples have one last meal, one last hug, one last kiss, and then turn away and embark on their own journey, forgetting the relationship as if it never happened. Love is just treated as a need.

There are many people in college who want to catch love or be caught by love. But I want your love to be sincere, serious, pure, and authentic. If you think he's handsome and want to fall in love with him, think again; If you think she is beautiful and want to fall in love with her, think again; If you feel lonely and want to find someone to fall in love with, think again; If you're going to fall in love with someone just because you've heard a few words from a friend, give up. The word "love" is actually clearly indicated to its address: the following word "friend" indicates that you should know him (her) very well, and he (she) should be your friend; "ㄇ" means that you have to choose carefully between these friends; "ノ" means that you can only choose one of the carefully selected as your lover, and the others can only be your friends. Please cherish your emotions or it will become cheap. What is love? You should know this in your hearts. I think: to be attracted because of excellence, to be loved because of attraction, and to learn to love because of being loved, this is the process of love.

At this point, I'm almost done with what I want to say. These 4,000 words seem quite tiring, and I really hope to bring you more or less help. If you don't think it's helpful, please tear it up and throw it away, and forgive me for my presumptuousness; If you find it helpful, please treasure it and watch it several times in peace.